What would you do in my situation? I am a woman of about 25 years and my love life so far has gone through several short but pleasant relationships and some long lasting but not so good ones .. In principle it is difficult for someone to enter my head and a person I do not even know .. Well .. I work in a place where thousands of people pass by every day, some of them try to take me down, I'm talking about men with at least 10 or even more years difference. Men without a wife, without a family, who think that with stupid jokes and a "loving" look I will throw myself into their arms. I'm just sick of them. However, at first a boy came, who from the first moment, when I saw him and did not stop thinking about him. He looked nice, nothing more. But I literally had butterflies in my stomach, and when I saw him all day, he was fine, even without who knows what we said to each other. Because I saw him on certain days, I couldn't wait to go to work just because of him. Over time, I wanted to know his name and I intended to write to him, to take a risk, and whatever happens .. and opa beam .. married with a child. And then I rolled over, I became disgustingly sick .. very much .. I don't know how you can not know a person like that, but think about him constantly and feel sick that he is married !? .. This definitely stops me, I would not allow myself to spoil families for anything in the world, I think I am a very serious person and this is a limit that speaks volumes! .. But my thoughts are only about him, I fall asleep with the thought of him and wake up with the same thought .. he rarely appears at my workplace, but that doesn't stop me from thinking .. PLEASE SHARE my story, I even want the man, who am i talking about
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If you judge by your appearance that he is your man, it is better to grow a little more, change 1-2-3 boyfriends and you will understand if appearance makes the man for you!
Are you true at 25? You act like you're 15. You're in love with an ideal, not a real person. You'll be fine.
"Butterflies" are affected by hormones. At this point you feel them for him, but you can feel them for other men. Over time (short or long) they pass. Make no mistake. They are far from a guarantee that this is "your man". "Butterflies" are an urge, and urge is important, but it is far from the only condition to fit in with a person for a serious relationship. In addition, our urge can be caused by many different people, and the right partner for us is not just one possible. This is a delusion! The important thing is actually what we build with one of the right ones. The right decision is to stay away. It is better to all. And how can you be sure if he would answer you? There is no way to destroy a family if he does not allow it. And if he answers while he's married, will he be appropriate at all? If he is divorced, it is one, but married? In general - hormones obscure otherwise your sober and reasonable judgment. You have time for everything, so calm down. Things will get better. :) Ж31
Did she feel he was "her" man? !! It is not yours, it belongs to your wife and child! And if you get there to teach you and become his mistress, it will still not be 100% yours. Read here how many people who have gotten married to whine that men only use them for sex, not divorce and do not marry them. If you like to be such a rag, go on, if not, get it out of your head and remember - do not deal with married.
G32 You are in love with something that does not exist. If you know this man better, or if you live with him, you can find a lot of furnaces in him that would disgust you. At the moment you do not know him and you do not know much about him, but you fill the gaps with your dreams. For example, you can imagine how kind and gallant he is and what he would do or how he would talk in a meeting, but if you see each other, he will not do any of that.
You are in love with the idea of him, not him. If you get to know him, you may be very disappointed and wonder what attracted you so much.
You fell in love, it happens to everyone. Enjoy these moments because they don't happen often in life. I was very amused by the suggestion that the boy should write if he recognized himself in history. If you hope this will happen, write a little more information about where you work more or less and in which part of Bulgaria. Otherwise, it's like looking for a needle in a haystack.
Do not be silly. Just hormones. You'll be fine. Drink yarrow.
Well, no, he's not your man.
Hahah, number 8 - very nice comment :) Author, I have a reading for you
When he comes, tell him again "I want you to fuck me hard, I can't stand it". Then whatever happens.
Oh! I would never refuse a runaway lady! It's a pity I'm not "your" person ... :)
Hello lovely girl. I'm a woman a little older than you and I'm currently in a relationship with the "right man" ... :( I understand what you want, to say and how you feel, but you better not get caught and don't expect "he", to recognize and find you on this site (it's a bit childish
I just don't understand something .... over 70% of the writers here say that someone who is in love with a person they don't know so well will definitely be disappointed .... This means that over 70% of the people in a relationship are disappointed with his partner, which is a complete fabrication. Well, it's de facto ridiculous. Just because you who say this can't stand someone snoring, not lifting the toilet lid, etc., doesn't mean we're all like that. I may be madly in love with someone I know vaguely, and yet assume that he is not an ideal robot, but a living person with his own specifics. By your logic, it turns out that we shouldn't love, because if you see someone snoring a lot.
If he's married, he's not your man. It's someone else's.