In short, we have been together for a year - we love each other. I am one of those people who likes it very quickly, but He is living proof that there are exceptions. In many ways, I don't think I can find anything better than him. In general, so many positive qualities gathered in one place, I had never seen before. But summer is coming, I want to live. I don't want to separate, I just want to relive my social life. I am a contact person and I like to communicate. It's like a hobby for me to meet new people. But since I've been with him, I've stagnated in this regard. Many of my friends think that I have closed myself around him a hell of a lot. One of the good things about our relationship is that we both tell the truth about whatever it is. We haven't cheated on each other, it won't happen. But when it comes to a birthday, a disco or going out without it, he came to the conclusion that he had spoiled me. He himself gives everything for me and sides of his friends, for me. At first I was firmly against it, because I did not want to bear such a responsibility on my shoulders, but I saw that it did not require the same from me. See you soon. He began to compare things, how he did, how he complied, how he always wanted us to be together, and I didn't. I find myself thinking that this attitude makes me want to go out with others more and more and have fun without him. We fight much more often. I myself seem to have started looking for a reason to quarrel. I feel that things are just going wrong and I'm thinking about separation. And it's all because of the freedom I don't get and I am told that I want it. My question is this: With our understanding and the love we feel for each other, it would be foolish to separate because of that, right He himself gives everything for me and sides of his friends, for me. At first I was firmly against it, because I did not want to bear such a responsibility on my shoulders, but I saw that it did not require the same from me. See you soon. He began to compare things, how he did, how he complied, how he always wanted us to be together, and I didn't. I find myself thinking that this attitude makes me want to go out with others more and more and have fun without him. We fight much more often. I myself seem to have started looking for a reason to quarrel. I feel that things are just going wrong and I'm thinking about separation. And it's all because of the freedom I don't get and I am told that I want it. My question is this: With our understanding and the love we feel for each other, it would be foolish to separate because of that, right? He himself gives everything for me and sides of his friends, for me. At first I was firmly against it, because I did not want to bear such a responsibility on my shoulders, but I saw that it did not require the same from me. See you soon. He began to compare things, how he did, how he complied, how he always wanted us to be together, and I didn't. I find myself thinking that this attitude makes me want to go out with others more and more and have fun without him. We fight much more often. I myself seem to have started looking for a reason to quarrel. I feel that things are just going wrong and I'm thinking about separation. And it's all because of the freedom I don't get and I am told that I want it. My question is this: With our understanding and the love we feel for each other, it would be foolish to separate because of that, right? At first I was firmly against it, because I did not want to bear such a responsibility on my shoulders, but I saw that it did not require the same of me. See you soon. He began to compare things, how he did, how he complied, how he always wanted us to be together, and I didn't. I find myself thinking that this attitude makes me want to go out with others more and more and have fun without him. We fight much more often. I myself seem to have started looking for a reason to quarrel. I feel that things are just going wrong and I'm thinking about separation. And it's all because of the freedom I don't get and I am told that I want it. My question is this: With our understanding and the love we feel for each other, it would be foolish to separate because of that, right? At first I was firmly against it, because I did not want to bear such a responsibility on my shoulders, but I saw that it did not require the same from me. See you soon. He began to compare things, how he did, how he complied, how he always wanted us to be together, and I didn't. I find myself thinking that this attitude makes me want to go out with others more and more and have fun without him. We fight much more often. I myself seem to have started looking for a reason to quarrel. I feel that things are just going wrong and I'm thinking about separation. And it's all because of the freedom I don't get and I am told that I want it. My question is this: With our understanding and the love we feel for each other, it would be foolish to separate because of that, right? that it does not require the same of me. See you soon. He began to compare things, how he did, how he complied, how he always wanted us to be together, and I didn't. I find myself thinking that this attitude makes me want to go out with others more and more and have fun without him. We fight much more often. I myself seem to have started looking for a reason to quarrel. I feel that things are just going wrong and I'm thinking about separation. And it's all because of the freedom I don't get and I am told that I want it. My question is this: With our understanding and the love we feel for each other, it would be foolish to separate because of that, right? that it does not require the same of me. See you soon. He began to compare things, how he did, how he complied, how he always wanted us to be together, and I didn't. I find myself thinking that this attitude makes me want to go out with others more and more and have fun without him. We fight much more often. I myself seem to have started looking for a reason to quarrel. I feel that things are just going wrong and I'm thinking about separation. And it's all because of the freedom I don't get and I am told that I want it. My question is this: With our understanding and the love we feel for each other, it would be foolish to separate because of that, right? that his attitude makes me want more and more to go out with others and have fun without him. We fight much more often. I myself seem to have started looking for a reason to quarrel. I feel that things are just going wrong and I'm thinking about separation. And it's all because of the freedom that I don't get and I am told that I want it. My question is this: With our understanding and the love we feel for each other, it would be foolish to separate because of that, right? that this attitude makes me want more and more to go out with others and have fun without him. We fight much more often. I myself seem to have started looking for a reason to quarrel. I feel that things are just going wrong and I'm thinking about separation. And it's all because of the freedom I don't get and I am told that I want it. My question is this: With our understanding and the love we feel for each other, it would be foolish to separate because of that, right?
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I understand and support you, but somehow it didn't become very clear to me what kind of freedom you want ... Sexual or spiritual. Clarify your problem a bit.
You should not separate after loving and respecting each other so much! But it is a well-known fact that everyone NEEDS personal space, everyone should keep their friends, not shy away from them. But, it is normal at the beginning of such a relationship to have jealousy, pain, grief, why the other wants to go out alone without me ... This is overcome over the years. I am 29 years old. family from 11 years. My husband and I have settled down after so many years, everyone has personal freedom and let me tell you we live even better than before! I wish you success whatever you decide :)
If you ask me, it's best to talk well about what everyone expects from the other, it has happened to me that I don't go out with my girlfriend because she has a habit of flirting with my friends when she drinks. Sometimes that put me in pretty dumb situations. Ask him what is bothering him :-)
Chick, I experienced almost the same thing recently. But he was also jealous of my friends. Things were quite complicated with us, but still our love was boundless. We loved each other very much and gave everything for each other, but as you can see I speak in the past - we parted, I lacked freedom and when he forbade me, I wanted her even more. In the end, I made the mistake of breaking up. From here to there, the choice is yours, but be careful what you choose! If you love him very much, be with him, but if you miss freedom as much as it is sad, sooner or later you will get it! I wish you all the best and write if I was useful to you. :) :) :) :) :)