Hello, I am 18 years old, I have a boy, I have no one to share with, so I am writing here, I am just facing an emotional breakdown, I have no friends, I dream of having a real friend, I am lonely from 5th grade, I am a lone wolf. in terms of relationships, but when I think about it, all the friends I had used me, a year ago I met a boy, we matched our characters, my life changed completely, I started doing the things my peers do, even though we were always just the two of us. it took a lot of friends, a person to have someone to share with, but since 1 month things have gone backwards for this period of time during which we were friends, we went to other cities, to restaurants,at discos we used to gather at the houses, everything was perfect, but since a month ago he started to withdraw, he found with a bigger company, he found a girlfriend and he started to forget me, I always tried to be good to him, although he didn't always respond. I supported him in the same way, I listened to him and everything that one friend can do for the other to make him feel better, although to some extent he used me, but not as much as the old friends, at the moment I am lonely again. , I blame myself, I have thoughts of suicide but I don't have the strength to do it, I have no one to sit down to say a word to, no one to go out with I feel inferior and everyone avoids me because I have always been different from other peers,all day sitting at home or driving around aimlessly give advice because I am in a very deep depressed state how to find this time a really real friend with whom I can share because if I fail really my inner self will give up ...
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If you're 18 and you're lonely, that's a big problem.
Oh, when I read the title illiterately, I decided that there was simply no topic and the editor wrote it. Alas, you put commas that are out of place! Not to mention that you are 18 years old, if I were you I would roar that I can not write elementary words without error! And instead of being obsessed with your friend, think that you have the mistake. Get used to people being like that when you become 20 you will understand that the world is not flowers and roses, but is full of jerks and users! In order not to feel bad that you don't have friends, you can find someone on Facebook and go out. I know it's very cliché, but now every 2nd person is obsessed with Facebook and you find a lot of new people there. Good luck!
The third word in the title is written without error, you are cheating on your style.
If I were so illiterate, I would also think about suicide ...
Maybe a woman will be your salvation. It sucks, but not all of us can have a rich social life. The first is still more important than the second.
If you know how many people feel that way. I am a 28-year-old woman, I have had a serious friend for 3 years, but apart from going to work and going out with my boyfriend, I have no friends. Some went abroad to live, quite a few, a girl we saw for 6 months turned out to be an alcoholic and used me for drunken roars and to fill her time. I have two girlfriends who have mental disorders and before that I didn't mind, but I am especially tense when meeting them. I am sociable and depressed at the moment, I miss communication, friendship, and at the same time I can't stand these people. A friend returned for a while from abroad yesterday and will call today or tomorrow to see me and just shivered in anticipation, just looking at my phone. I feel miserable and unhappy, I also work on the minimum wage and even go out, I can't afford to do this often or at the end of the month. Look positive - if you go back and forth with the car, then you have money for gasoline, some of us do not have it. Loneliness is the pandemic of the new age, you will be amazed at how many people we are like you and yes, there are thoughts of suicide, nightmares, some panic attacks.
I'm starting to despair, every next topic becomes more and more illiterate. Isn't there at least one literate fucker left in this country? My daughter is in first grade and writes better than this lonely and ill-feeling young man of 18 years.
Look people apologize for the illiteracy, but at the time I wrote it I was very tense and desperate thanks to 7 for the moral support. The fact that I am possibly illiterate does not make me a worse person or that I deserve to be alone, I ask for a little understanding in this situation! Sorry again ...
You are 18 and you write like that ?! At first I thought it was written by a kid of 10. Excuse me, how do you expect to have cool and interesting friends like you can't even express yourself properly? Otherwise, I will advise you to enroll in a sport and find a hobby, along with which to leave home and meet people. If you love animals, get a dog. This also helps. You walk him in the nearby park every day and today you talk to another dog owner, you meet him again tomorrow ... and finally you decide to go to a restaurant in the evening.
Abe, people, why out of 10 comments, 7 hint at his illiteracy? If you have nothing else to hold on to, the person seeks advice. Instead of hanging out on the forums and salting people, do something useful, God ...
you have to go to mass sports events for example: May 12, 2019 Borisov Garden, talking to someone talking about sports, maybe tourism historical sites with boys and girls, music art philosophy you avoid topics about diseases / taboos you don't say you're depressed it's sharply contagious, / I had only 4 girlfriends but I lost them too, one just to take her to restaurants and pay her bills, the other to give her money and look after her children while she was going somewhere and I didn't lose her, etc. friends are in the common interest of fishing movies to gather some information, etc. you will cope no depression7 for example treatment1 walks in the fresh air and sun, drinking water2 watching comedies, 4 fruits and vegetables, 5 dressing in colorful clothes, you draw future plans, etc.
Try to meet someone on the Internet, what is your friend for, look for a girlfriend, you are 18 years old. Do not feel sorry for yourself, as you can see it is common ... Up to number 7- many "friends" would hang around if they were useful, for example. to see them somewhere and pay them