Hello! My story is as follows: I am 17 years old, I have several very close friends with whom I am in every free minute, they are very good, but it seems that I already feel that I want a change, that they burden me a little. I've become very sensitive and I don't drool often, at least not with them, because I can't relax, and they constantly want to laugh about something and so on. I feel like I'm bored with them. It's a vacation now and I want to read a little, spend time with my mom, with whom we are very close, I just want a little freedom. I don't know how to tell them, they don't think they will accept it, they will think I'm crazy and I don't love them, but that's not the case. I need some time for myself, I must be tired of it. I have 2 girlfriends who have been my real ones since I was a child, but one is in another city and the other in another country. I try to keep in touch with them, but you know we can't share every emotion and that makes me sad. I feel myself with them! What should I do with my friends who are tired of me, how can I tell them that they are pressuring me and I want to be a little alone to recharge my batteries? I'm thinking of starting to play sports to fill my time with something useful .. Tips? Please publish my story, I've written to you before, but apparently you haven't posted it. I really need advice, I'm desperate. Thanks! (: I'm desperate. Thanks! (: I'm desperate. Thanks! (:
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If they are real friends, they will understand you. I see no reason to worry. ~~
Tell them that you are sick and that you are not well and that you do not go out with them for a while or that you have quarreled with your mother and she does not want you just to hang out, but to teach a little, to clean at home or whatever. you remember. You can lie that you will visit with you or you will be somewhere outside Sofia and a bunch of other things. You are not tied to these girls, separate yourself from them, it is clear that you are very good in their company.