Hello .. I'm 14 and thought made me start with the story. I like a boy, according to a lot of people he likes me too, but yesterday we quarreled because she told a friend of mine that she hated me (I know he said it - she sent me the chat), then I asked him to quarrel, we pulled ourselves together and blocked each other on all social networks. The next day (today), I found out that this "girlfriend" of mine had told him that I liked him until recently, and his answer was something like "I'm going this way, I wouldn't go with her anyway." ... I felt terrible, I really feel so bad for the first time. Because we're from the same class, even from the same company, it was awful all day today. I don't know what to do, how to behave, whether we will get better at all .... I really ask the moderators to release my story, it's important to me. Thanks in advance!
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Ah, what a terrible problem! The end of the world has come ... for the author. I can take more seriously the problem of a friend who complained to me yesterday that her 14-year-old daughter was still urinating at night. Girl, lie down firmly over the lessons and drink a glass of warm milk before bed to calm your nerves and for good sleep. Success!
It wasn't right for your girlfriend to interfere! Behave as if nothing had happened, you will be disappointed with boys for a long time ....
Dear girl, it will not be your last. Sometimes people are big rubbish ... Don't share if you are friends at all. Because you can call me congested, but in my company we are all very close. So if at least you're friends and you want to get better, just talk to the boy. But only if you are friends. If you are not there is a chance you will be mocked and hurt. So if he's not close to you, beat his jester. That boy seems like a big fool to me. As soon as he wrote it to someone from whom you will easily understand .... I'm sorry but he really doesn't care. Good luck.
You think and behave too emotionally, which is relatively typical for your age, but it grows - as you begin to realize and accordingly control the outbursts of emotions and thoughts that are not worth the time and pain. I can't believe how pointless and helpless the comments you've received so far are (see 2). Kofti is when it becomes clear that the object of our feelings does not feel the same, but (* shrugging *) is not the end of the world. It is normal to affect your mood for at least a few days, but you should not sit over it, but continue. I don't like you mentioning "fixing" in your story. What do you have to do? You like him and he doesn't like you. It's unpleasant, but nothing happened to need to fix and resume a normal relationship, but with absolute certainty there should be no romantic illusions about it - it will not "fix", it's just not there. You will be sorry for a while, but it will pass and you will like another boy or you will like someone later. He doesn't cut his hair because of things that are known to happen someday - it's expected, at least now it's over. Success! USA
Stupid statement on his part, but don't care. Stay away from him. He hardly hates you, he has nothing to hate you for. Rather, he realized that you liked him and made himself "interesting and very important" with this statement. Typical childish reaction - not yet grown up for such a relationship. Just ignore him, don't talk to him, don't look for him on any occasion. Make it clear that you do not intend to tolerate such an attitude. Don't think about it, a boy who likes you and appreciates your company will appear soon.