My husband has been abroad for several months. Before he left, my whole life revolved around him. I have almost no personal contacts. His friends became my company. But now that he's gone, there's no one to talk to. I'm really terribly lonely. From work at home. I don't know if anyone felt like me. Maybe it's my fault. An acquaintance of mine called me at sea for 3 days, but here we have a dog and there is no one to leave it to. I'm sick! This loneliness comes to me more and I don't know what to do anymore :(
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I understand you completely. I'm just like you right now, with the difference that I don't know if he'll come back and I'm not working. I even have a dog. It is my consolation. The hardest part is the lonely evenings. When I think about it, I think I should start going out so that I don't feel so lonely and confused. Look at your phone numbers - there must be a friend you haven't called in a long time. And for me, life revolved only around him and the saga, I understand that it should not have been so.
I can only tell you, don't make my mistake. I was also in such a moment and one sunny day a man turned around me, broke my family and finally left me and I have remained a single mother to this day.
I am in a similar situation, although he comes home quite often and I go to him. Summer is always with me. What can I tell you ... during the time when you are not together, invent a hobby, go out for coffee, some women's night. And what confuses you to go with the dog to the sea? Is it a small or large breed? In both cases, I see no problem. Books, music, improve.
One suffers, suffers, and then gets used to it. I have been married for 20 years. My husband also works outside. He returns to Bulgaria for 3-4 months a year. I have two children who I take care of all by myself without the help of relatives or babysitters. It was very difficult for me in the beginning. I hated all family holidays because I was always alone. I began to avoid associating with friendly families so as not to see my happiness. It was very difficult for me. But one suffers patiently and finally gets used to it. After 20 years, I started to like being alone. I don't need communication and pseudo-drinkers. I'm used to dealing with both men's and women's work at home. Sometimes I feel the lack of sex, but that's the catch ... there are as many movies as you want. And I'm seriously considering taking my own life from now on. So darling, it will be hard for you, but you will get used to it. When you realize
number 4 you're obviously a very strong woman once you can handle all this. My husband and I have almost always lived like this - some somewhere. In my opinion, one should be independent and rely only on oneself, but sometimes this loneliness kills. I really like to be alone, but for a year now my husband has been abroad and it has taken a long time for me. As a woman, I need to be surrounded by his attention. Lately, I've been realizing how, despite my friends around me, I don't get along with anyone and I don't talk. But the circumstances are such that you either accept things as such or change them, you are looking for a solution in which to find your interest and most of all yourself, so that you are not alone! :) because believe me there are many families who live together and go to bed together and are much more alone than those in our cases