Hello! I am a student and in the last year my opinion about boys has changed radically .. Before I had no problems with liking someone, but now I don't seem to have the courage to do it (I've only liked 2 boys in my life so far). I don't know if it's because last year I liked a boy who didn't respond to my feelings in the same way or from something else, but it's been that way ever since. The only thing I feel is only attraction by appearance and sense of humor, not even so often by appearance, just my boyfriend is nice, but we have no common interests or character or we both understand, for example, one subject (English) and so on. I've liked a lot of guys this way, but that's all. It's not like I'm in love with them or thinking about them all the time. Every time a boy pretends to be great, I don't think I'm the only one who likes his dumb assholes and I secretly roll my eyes. I don't know, maybe it's my fault, maybe I have some high requirements, but I don't have any courage to fall in love with someone, let alone one of the boys in our school who pretend to be jerks and are idiots and think only which one they will score for the evening and when they will drink their anabolics again (if I put it correctly xd). So - do I consider myself great or am I afraid that no one likes me and I do not have the strength to deal with simpletons? All my girlfriends always like someone, and I haven't liked anyone for more than a year xd It may sound stupid, but I want to have someone with whom I can go out, share interests and be more than friends xd I may have some high requirements, but I have no courage to fall in love with someone, let alone one of the boys in our school who pretend to be assholes and are idiots and only think about who they will score for the evening and when they will drink. again anabolics (if I put it correctly xd).
So - do I consider myself great or am I afraid that no one likes me and I do not have the strength to deal with simpletons? All my girlfriends always like someone, and I haven't liked anyone for more than a year xd It may sound stupid, but I want to have someone with whom I can go out, share interests and be more than friends xd I may have some high requirements, but I have no courage to fall in love with someone, let alone one of the boys in our school who pretend to be assholes and are idiots and only think about who they will score for the evening and when they will drink. again anabolics (if I put it correctly xd). So - do I consider myself great or am I afraid that no one likes me and I do not have the strength to deal with simpletons? All my girlfriends always like someone, and I haven't liked anyone for more than a year xd It may sound stupid, but I want to have someone with whom I can go out, share interests and be more than friends xd who pretend to be guards and only think about who they will score for the evening and when they will drink their anabolics again (if I put it correctly HD). So - do I consider myself great or am I afraid that no one likes me and I do not have the strength to deal with simpletons? All my girlfriends always like someone, and I haven't liked anyone for more than a year xd It may sound stupid, but I want to have someone with whom I can go out, share interests and be more than friends xd who pretend to be and are and only think about who they will score for the evening and when they will drink their anabolics again (if I put it correctly HD). So - do I consider myself great or am I afraid that no one likes me and I do not have the strength to deal with simpletons? All my girlfriends always like someone, and I haven't liked anyone for more than a year xd It may sound stupid, but I want to have someone with whom I can go out, share interests and be more than friends xd
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In my opinion, you have not yet met the right boy for you to be completely hypnotized in your sleep, in your consciousness, in your everyday life, in your mosques. And I've liked it just a few times in my life. Maybe once real and several times with serious sympathy for a boy. I also don't like boys who are simpletons, some superficial inflated guys with shallow jokes. Because this is fashionable among the chalgars and this is superficial behavior for me. And you and I are so deadly, I would not be in such company with simpletons just to go out. From those to the moment I had any sympathies, there have always been deep boys or some kind of intellectuals from the other 99 percent of the world's malnourished population. I don't think there's anything to worry about, that you don't like anyone at the moment and I've been sitting dry for a year and a half: D without emotions. I haven't had sympathy for anyone since I graduated. I've never had a boyfriend. I'm a sophomore now. I think at least at university you can have a better chance. At least that's how it turned out for me, but I'm already afraid to like some, because I like them very much, I'm very emotional, I'm crazy. And when it's not reciprocated, it's harder. I have already experienced it in high school. I think I overcame that because it was too turbulent for me and if it happened one more time I wouldn't be able to handle it anymore. It destroys me. So now, as I mentioned, I feel sympathy for a colleague, in general, how it turned out. But I don't want this to happen to me again from high school, to dream of daydreams. When I see him, I don't control myself, I sink in shame or rather when he looks at me alone. First of all, I block the words and actions, I'm sure it is very obvious to colleagues. That's why I don't wish you to fall in love without being shared. Because first my mind was captivated by me, with humor and intellect, warmth, now also my heart. I left the university, hypnotized and trembling. And when he's there, I don't want to leave without him, or he without me: D =
It just pissed me off with this "hd" of yours ... it's obvious that you're thinking like a child (I'm not trying to offend you)
I don't think you have a problem ... I don't know how old you are, but you're more likely to have outgrown this puberty, when people change and accelerate, etc. Well, look now: Don't think so, that you are in the wrong position. I'm sure there will come a time when your man will come !! Success! But despite everything he is not looking for it, he will come alone!
Honey, falling in love doesn't happen when you decide, it just comes and you can't stop it. And it's perfectly normal how you feel about boys. There are also no specific criteria for falling in love with a boy, he may meet your criteria and not fall in love. Even if you don't believe it, you can fall in love with someone who doesn't meet these criteria at all and be a bad boy.
In my opinion, almost none of what you wrote is true. You have fallen in love 100%, you have been cut off 100% and you are now putting in some protective mechanisms to protect yourself from the pain of unrequited love. What you can see from what you've written is that you're a low-confidence girl who dreams of a friend but doesn't want to be with any boy, you want to be liked, but the ones you like are too high a bar for you, that's why you liken them to scoundrels who think only of anabolics and the number for one night. In general, when the grapes are highly "sour". But accept that not all girls can be Nikoletki and Zlatki, find a boy who suits you and everything will be fine.