I met a man a few years ago. Intelligent, attentive, cultured abe everything a woman wants. There was some dragging between us from the beginning. Because he is much older than me, at first I treated him like a father. I trusted him and I just enjoyed being with him. I felt some concern in him and whenever I needed something he responded. At one point, things went the other way. I fell in love. To this day, I don't know what he feels for me. I know that before I slept with him, he liked me. It was obvious in his eyes that he wanted to be replaced. However, we were both in a serious relationship. Things ended with sex, to my great regret. It's been over a year, and I haven't stopped thinking about him. He avoids meetings and conversations and to this day I have not been able to tell him what I want. He lives with his girlfriend who does not want to hurt. On the other hand, it hurts me.
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Leave him, as much as you love him, so you will keep yours and his relationship. And in time you will forget it: calm down :))))
The truth is, he doesn't want you. Accept it!!! There is no such thing as "he doesn't want to hurt" if he wants you more. He just wants the other one more. Time heals :)
Agree with number 2.
And hey, take it hard so I don't spit on you .... hahaha. Everything in the circle of the joke .. I agree with numbers 2 and 3.
I know he cares more about the other woman. To him, I am a child. I realize that he needs a secure relationship and can't be with me. I didn't blame him for a moment that he was with her. I just want to see it and everything is as before. Now that we see each other, it's kind of tense. I feel something is wrong. Some hesitation, or so I wish. I'm definitely not looking for sex in this relationship and I think he knows it.