Hello. My story is a bit banal and even worthy of a movie script, but it's a fact. A long time ago in the nearby supermarket where I go very often I noticed a boy who worked there. In general, I'm not the type that I like guys just like that at first glance, but the one in question made a huge impression on me and so .. I watched him secretly, but then I caught a friend and forgot about him. One day as I was shopping I saw him and at that moment a girl threw herself on his neck - then I said shit and he is so busy that at least I have a boyfriend. Yes, but my ex-boyfriend and I broke up and I was left alone. About a month ago, when my mother and I were shopping, he walked past me and smiled at me - I say bray, it's probably a good day for him, yes, but it went on several times in a row. Accordingly, I also smiled at him and one of them said hello to me and the other day we met (he met me). Then I started to like him again and quite a lot. I had the sympathies from the moment I saw him for the first time, and when I heard his voice and we touched things deepened ... and so one day we accidentally ran into a queue outside the supermarket and talked, he said he would leave work. and I thought - I can't afford not to see him anymore so I asked him about skype. He said no I will take yours and so, When I came home the same day he wrote to me but it was for a very short time. The next day I wrote to him we talked. He asked me how old I was, it turned out that he thought I was older, and our difference is only 3 years, but he was surprised by the fact that I was younger. We talked about him, for me for music he asked me for a picture of him and I was great, but the next day I went on a trip and when I came back a few days ago I expected him to write to me or something like that ... Yes, but no. And as a cover, today I saw him with his girlfriend, who is the same girl he was with the moment I saw him for the first time (the one who threw himself at him ...) Today, when we passed, he barely said hello ... you don't feel very comfortable in this situation ... The bad thing, though, is that I obviously had some illusions about him ... I took his actions as a sign that he at least liked me ... I don't know if I was mistaken , but the nasty thing is that I fell in love or at least I'm terribly depressed ... Please give your opinion ..advise me..if there is someone with a similar problem, someone who has been in a similar situation let me know what he thinks ... I do not think ,
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Well ... maybe you should give him up ... if you really think you're not "that" type ... But he deserves to be confused, at least that's what I think ....
Of course, it's not right to snatch it from his girlfriend's hands, because one day someone might take it away from you in the same way. But by "snatching" I do not mean fighting for your love if it is mutual, but to seduce him deliberately when he loves his girlfriend and to take her place. Find out how he feels about her, if they are not bored, if he is not with her just for sex. Show him your feelings, or at least hint at them, otherwise you may be wondering for a lifetime "what would happen if ...". It's very painful, believe me. Tell him - in both cases you win: if he cuts you off, you will know that it is not for you and you will stop wasting your time with him and suffering. If not, you will be a very sweet couple! It's worth a try, isn't it? Besides, if you love him so much, you should let him know. At least, you will raise his self-confidence and he will always remember you well. There is no point in loving someone if he doesn't know it !!!
People please give advice :( one at least ......
Even engaged boys and girls like to flirt. When we like someone, we usually see what we want to see and do not pay attention to obvious things. You assumed that the boy had a girlfriend, but his smile and attention dulled your senses and your correct judgment. Unfortunately, in a situation like yours, many people have fallen out and there are only two ways out - either you give up, suffer for a while and gradually forget him, or fight for his love, preparing for the opportunity to be rejected. to behave indecently in order to win someone's love. You can just show all the good things you are capable of. But the decision on how to proceed must be made by you.
As you describe things, I have the impression that you have an attraction, but not falling in love, which makes you hesitate whether to keep looking for him or look for someone else. answer the question if you are in love and what to do about it.
Well, if I understand correctly, you will stand and wait ... that's how it turns out. You are not able to take it away (which is a bad thing - they did it to me and it's not nice at all, you have to be 100 but 100% sure that you are crazy about it, so that everything is not in vain) and you want something to get up. Either act just for information to know and on his part what the situation is or forget it ... The worst thing is to stand and harass..Nz, but we must analyze rather his behavior-it's yours is clear you are "in love" let's keep up to date and good luck !!!
I don't know how I could talk about love, even at first glance ... For me, love relies more on communication, on common ground, on the part of the partner, and in this case I do not have these factors to Judging by whether I'm in love or not ... But still my passion is quite big and I would like it to grow into something more, but at this stage I just have to wait or at least try to find out a little more, huh? What do you think. Thanks for the comments and I will be happy if I get more ... thanks. Please give your opinions ....
To wait? Oh no! That way you won't get anywhere! Either forget about him or tell him how you feel so he can decide for himself. And so you will know at least whether it is worth placing hopes. You are right that you still need to communicate with him to find out how strong your feelings are and whether he has any. But to sit and wait without doing anything ... forget it! I wish you success!
Oh, sweet girl, and I'm on the edge :) So with the looks we just liked a young man, months passed and I noticed that I always expect to see him. Slowly light - smile, greeting, touch, kiss. Great isn't it :) in the seventh heaven. But !! he has a fiancée and is worried about continuing. He doesn't know how, he's young, and I'm crazy and I can show him a lot of things. We don't see each other at the moment, he's exemplary, even if I know he wants to be with me, even for a short time. We don't have a future together, but why not make the present unforgettable :)
Hey 9, duck plucked, don't go where you don't have a job. It remains to be married with children and then ...
To her, to her !!! No insults .... calmer .... everyone has the right to choose what to do with their lives and feelings .. although sometimes it is wrong or immoral ....
Ha ha, number 10, I agree with you. And I'm fed up with these fucking aunts who kill their complexes, that they don't get up anymore because they are old bags and deal with younger and engaged ones. But auntie goes to her and cooks her dishes at home.
Ahhh, and number 9, hopefully the reason your "boyfriend" is sitting with them just because he has a fiancée. Maybe he just realized his mistake, but you still haven't felt unwanted and rejected.
It doesn't matter if he's with you, if you appreciate and love him you have to ask yourself - Is he happy with the other girl? If you appreciate him, you should not care if you will be happy with him but if he is happy with the other - think about his good, even though nothing happened. Another piece of advice I can give you is not to ruin his chances with the girl he loves! So he will suffer (is if the girl is bad you can do something about it). You can be friends, right? :-)