I Fell In Love With A Colleague

   Man, what can I tell you ... natural things. It happened to me too. It was great! We flew in the clouds for 2 years. But then it passes. Be careful that colleagues do not reveal to you that it will be very confusing. You will fall in love while you are alive. However, if you want to keep your family, you must act intelligently and extremely discreetly. I envy you nobly. Let's max!

   If you are both married, you can easily experience your love for 1-2-3 years, and even more - as long as you act smart and save your families. Like you, as a family, I fell madly in love with a colleague, just like you, I gritted my teeth for 1-2 months, but in the end, the desire just beat me with cruel force ... :) But she was not married and at one point found herself in the position of the mistress in love and the problems began. I'm divorcing now, she left me in the meantime, because she still didn't wait for the much-desired divorce, etc. But at least you may not have that, because your system is balanced - you and she have families. So go ahead, just think with your heads. If your love is so strong, which will be understood in a year, then you get divorced and live together. Life is one and it is only yours.

   It was good, dude, I just don't understand how you suddenly fell in love with your colleague, and crazy. I'm your age too, but I honestly don't understand you. Neither she knows you, nor you know her. For me, she is one of those women who find several lovers wherever they go. At most, to ruin your family and be left alone in the end.

   If you sleep with her, you will experience a thrill. If you do not sleep with her, she will become your great love. You just have to choose what you want to experience and whether it is worth it. But I don't think any advice can help you - your upbringing by your parents will guide you how to act, and I'm just telling you what the consequences will be.

   Just imagine that your wife has a cool colleague with whom she is pushing and she seems to be in love with him ... she wonders the same as you ... to be or not to be. Issue? :)

   Supposedly intelligent people, but they act like gypsies. Why did you marry your wife when you are now talking about your GREAT love? Where did you sleep then? Each submissive peak becomes uninteresting, until the next challenge. If you don't love your wife and if you are a man of principle and not a scumbag who sticks to every ass, you better tell your wife and separate in advance, not when you have already betrayed her. Only scoundrels act selfishly, first betraying and then abandoning their family. Taking care of your beautiful colleague, did you think about what you would do to your beautiful daughter? Is the colleague more expensive than your child?

   Time will tell if this is your great love - it may be so. Unfortunately, the cliché about such events in the workplace you know. That's right. And there's a reason. It turns out that personal relationships begin to affect the business, and sometimes the opposite happens. You have to be as discreet as possible so that your colleagues don't feel it - this is almost absurd to achieve. Then - things, if they splash afterwards, it sucks a lot, because you will meet every day. If they don't splash and it turns out to be your great love, you will be at work together, which is not recommended. Or - such novels are generally not recommended, but 90% of people do it because you spend more time at work than at home. As he wrote №1 - natural things ... In my opinion, act, but extremely carefully. She is aware of the condition of discretion, because women have a habit of abusing and demonstrating their closer relationship with the boss, they consider it a big plus. And this is a plus until it becomes clear to everyone around you. ж 46

   I'll tell you, you're a stupid bastard, where you make your living, you'll melt that job, and that's not good for either of us. Will you understand what you think such a thing is hiding?

   Eh, again this "great love" :) I'm 22 and yet I can honestly say that in my opinion such a thing does not exist, even as a child I did not have such illusions. On the other hand, I believe that the family is holy. Whatever people say, infidelity is betrayal. And when you have children, they should be the most important thing in your life and you should try to be well and happy, even at the cost of self-sacrifice. I think you understand what I would advise you.

   It is written as if this is a big emotion for you. However, you say that you are married. I think that if you become more persistent with this colleague, you can understand her point of view. There is no point in blaming yourself for anything. Everyone wants to be liked. You're her boss, isn't there a way to be around her more often to communicate more and find out if it's not just flirting. What exactly attracted you to it makes you doubt that you should ruin your family. If you intend to get the luxury of being with her, even during working hours, as number 1 said, or you have to be very careful. That you're her boss may be a plus.

   Well, either one (family) or the other (colleague) does not exist on average. Don't act like a fucker, but if you're going to do something, break up with your wife and don't lie to her. When a man loves, he does not cheat.

   "Well, either one (the family) or the other (the colleague) doesn't have it on average. Don't act like a fuck, but if you're going to do something, break up with your wife and don't lie to her. When a man loves, he doesn't cheat." with its constant clichés. Author now expect his teachings to infinity, he / she writes in each topic and always says the same thing. Now follows "A family in which there is infidelity is not a family." As for your situation, I would advise you just not to hurry and get to know your colleague, then you will decide for yourself whether it is worth it. I wish you success and sober judgment

   You haven't been married for a long time, and here you are already on another. Why should you take your wife for granted ..It is not to be envied ..

   Why can't we want what we have, and we still want what we don't have ... And if we get it, we will focus on the next wish .. (to pass it, imagine that your wife is a colleague ..)

   You and people like you are not men. Family comes first for a person with principles! Everything you have built, you are ready to give up for one goal. Your breed disgusts me. In most cases of infidelity, sooner or later divorce occurs. Do you have any idea what it's like to grow up with divorced parents? The other kids have dads in their homes while your uneducated dad chases other people's ass? Let such stories serve as an example to valuable girls - to be careful and not to marry men with weak angels who do not truly love them. And since when has the word MORAL become ugly? Yes, I am a moralist, I have principles and I live by them. Am I proud? Absolutely! People like me are really special and stand out in the gray. And when my time comes, I will know that I have lived a dignified life! A man.

   Take find and read a novel, relatively new, published in 2000. "He, she and the other" is said. By Tess Stimson. There, the story is similar to your married lawyer falling in love with a young colleague. I think it will be useful for you to read. This book shook me. I cried from the first page to the last. Because my husband got involved in an adventure with a colleague. If you knew what you were doing to your loved one, you would hardly do it. Please don't do it to your wife, don't break her heart. My husband has already regretted his action millions of times - I feel it, I understand it, but the broken thing doesn't stick. Finally, I want to congratulate №16. I think this is the real man ...

   The colleague may not be your great love, but at least you will understand that either there is a thrill with her or it is better to go home and find your happiness in your home. Your boss, however, after an adventure with a subordinate colleague, things will turn around and then how will you drive it, if it didn't work out between you.

   There are such situations, it happens, calm down. Seven years is nothing. They are nothing for marriage. However, it is a dangerous border, where everything can go to hell and turn out to be 'seven lost years'. You say you're about 30. And you're already a boss. Why are you the boss? Isn't it because of your wife behind you? Think hard about it. And he answered well. If your answer is no - most likely you will have an affair with a colleague, you will get involved in a complicated relationship and we will not be able to help you in this topic. I can't predict the end result of your involvement. However, if your answer is yes - then it is even better to consider whether you should not plan a breakup with 'your great love'. Keep in mind that women are quite cunning and love the sweet life - to push with the boss opens many doors in their heads. Your colleague is subject to these things, because she is a woman after all. Your relationship is not on an equal footing - it distorts the 'love' you feel. Even if you both don't feel that way, it still affects that you're the boss. As you were told, a matter of morality and upbringing from childhood - you will do as you see fit, but one thing I can give a reason for sure - do not be influenced by fashion - married to married - a safe love-sexual relationship for diversity, etc. It's just a fashion leading to suffering. If your wife is not disliked by you - stay with her and cure yourself of the virus of love with your colleague. I suggest to start - one of you to change jobs. м40 Even if you both don't feel that way, it's still the fact that you're the boss. As you were told, a matter of morality and upbringing from childhood - you will do as you see fit, but one thing I can give a reason for sure - do not be influenced by fashion - married to married - a safe love-sexual relationship for diversity, etc. It's just a fashion leading to suffering. If your wife is not disliked by you - stay with her and cure yourself of the virus of love with your colleague. I suggest to start - one of you to change jobs. м40 Even if you both don't feel that way, it's still the fact that you're the boss. As you were told, a matter of morality and upbringing from childhood - you will do as you see fit, but one thing I can give a reason for sure - do not be influenced by fashion - married to married - a safe love-sexual relationship for diversity, etc. It's just a fashion leading to suffering. If your wife is not disliked by you - stay with her and cure yourself of the virus of love with your colleague. I suggest to start - one of you to change jobs. м40 If your wife is not disliked by you - stay with her and cure yourself of the virus of love with your colleague. I suggest to start - one of you to change jobs. м40 If your wife is not disliked by you - stay with her and cure yourself of the love virus with your colleague. I suggest to start - one of you to change jobs. м40

   Sorry, dude, you're a traitor to me. You spat on your male honor. This is not the behavior of a man and a gentleman. You are a shame. Male of 24

   Hi, I thought I would never write on this type of forum, but here I will. I am the colleague of the person in question who posted the topic, with whom we have been together for 4 months, of course hiding from others. It's very difficult, but the experience is great. Yes, you will probably rebuke me, but what we are experiencing is an incredible passion that turns into stormy, unbridled and at the same time tender and dirty sex! We fit in 100%. And yes, I dare say that I do not stop thinking about him, at first it was just a thrill, but then it became something much stronger. We both don't want to part with our families, maybe we're afraid of the unknown. We tried several times to pull away from each other, but it didn't work. The bad thing is that I don't feel bad in front of my husband ... Is it possible to love two people at the same time? I always thought that infidelity is the lowest thing a person can do, and in the most travian way - with a colleague, and that's what happened to me. Is it possible that I made the wrong choice with my husband? We have been with him since I was a student.

   I just didn't understand why you hadn't stretched it yet.

   Spinning, sucking, but the truth is one: Infidelity is a monstrous betrayal. Indulging in low passions and feeling good about it eventually comes out through your nose. At the moment, the two lovers are completely devoted to the emotions caused by the chemicals in the brain that separate when they fall in love. However, this has nothing to do with love, which is above all patience, compromise, mutual respect, dedication and reason. Every love affair begins with a stormy passion, but then follows routine, everyday life, etc. The initial stages of a relationship are the grace period, which is given to people to lay a solid foundation on which to build true love! Now the two lovers are having fun, but in the end such stories usually end very tragically and leave behind a torn conscience, broken families, children's tears, and sometimes quite scary things. I will tell the author that there are men who kill their lover and wife for such things. It is clear to me that in such a state, the two adulterers will not accept any rational arguments, nor calls for repentance, etc., and I will not push for that much.

   Yes, 22, "colleague-mistress" - infidelity is the lowest thing. And when she is among colleagues, she never remains undisclosed - no matter how carefully you hide. The people you work with don't graze grass. just think if you are ready to pay the price when the time comes. You may look very tall. And that time will inevitably come.

   Hello. Please "mistress" if you want to contact me. If you want we can talk I know what that feeling is and I'm in the same situation.

   I have a question for people who are in a similar situation, how and where you find time to see each other and have sex. I ask because with these hotels everything is very expensive?

   I am currently struggling with a dilemma like yours. However, I am still in the beginning, when we did not tell each other, we just flirted. I can only envy you for revealing yourself to each other and for what happened between you. I really want it to be the same with us (my colleague). I'm over 30. I have fallen in love 7 times in my life (with this one), but it has never been shared. I have always been crushed by unrequited love. They seem to like me, they look for me, they give me signs, touches, looks, hints ... The moment he answered, even slightly - they run away and do not want to see me. Even with my wife, I did not enjoy shared love. She's been hanging out with me for over a year. I didn't eat, I didn't sleep, I couldn't do my job, it affected my physical health. In the end, fatigue simply prevailed. One spring afternoon I was dripping with insomnia, nerves, stress and endless female tricks. I fell asleep on the couch. I slept for 19 hours, awake. It wasn't from a drunken night. When I woke up, I felt like before - alive, calm, happy, I didn't care about her. I had smelled it wouldn't be her. Anyway - I resigned myself that it was not written for us and started looking at my life and work. I stopped looking for her. I didn't even have to suppress the feeling. It was gone by itself. And just then, she decided she was crazy about me. He started looking for me, annoying me, pressuring me, explaining himself to me, proving himself to me. He decided to throw logs, firewood, and even whole logs into a fire that had already gone out. He carried wood, but no matches. Their stupid female numbers have no end. They think they are doing something very nice by applying them. They make us prove that we love them very much. Is it? Did you play, I ask? If she had answered me when I was hot, I would have turned her life into paradise. For both of us, our lives would be a fairy tale. But not! He remembered when it was too late. Anyway. We both caught up so we weren't alone. Step by step .... we made a family. But I could never fall in love with her again. What did I not try. Everything we used to do. Everything I wanted to do before, and she was pulling. We did it now, but it didn't work. That's how we sit. Together, with children, but without love. I would not leave my children for anything in the world. But the colleague appeared. He smiles at me, shows me that he likes me. He was looking for me to go out. So, a few weeks. Until I started looking for her. And hop - again female numbers. AMAN !!! Aman I tell you. I go crazy with this female nonsense. We are great people. If you want to be with someone - be with him. What are you pulling for? Why waste your precious time, to make your loved one suffer? Instead, we could be together during that time. How many wonderful moments we missed and lost to spin our numbers. "I want to, but I don't think I want to ...." She's not even with a friend. She's alone. She's fucked up. She's not shy. I know he likes me. She's 30. She's not a pickle. What stops her from being with me. Tomorrow I will be hit by a car on the road, or something else will happen to me. What have we wasted our precious time on? I still don't know whether to ask her the question directly or to ignore and hate her. To add - the last few times, that's how I dealt with the pain, from unrequited love - I instilled in myself that I hated them. There was nothing to do. I just instilled it in myself and it helped me to overcome it much faster. I know it's not good, but otherwise I was dying of grief. And they didn't care. So on the topic: - Enjoy what you have with your colleague. I envy you very nobly. I can only hope that with my colleague, I will finally feel in this life what shared love is. There are all kinds of comments and tips here. Everyone advises you, judges you, comments you, according to your position in such an experience. I advise you from a position like yours. Experience as many wonderful moments together as possible. Life does not repeat itself. One day, your heart will judge you. It judges most cruelly. There is no way to justify yourself to him. And for example, there may be countless couples who have found happiness in each other for the second time. I wish you from the bottom of my heart. Experience as many wonderful moments together as possible. Life does not repeat itself. One day, your heart will judge you. It judges most cruelly. There is no way to justify yourself to him. And for example, there may be countless couples who have found happiness in each other for the second time. I wish you from the bottom of my heart. Experience as many wonderful moments together as possible. Life does not repeat itself. One day, your heart will judge you. It judges most cruelly. There is no way to justify yourself to him. And for example, there may be countless couples who have found happiness in each other for the second time. I wish you from the bottom of my heart.

   Experience this love, but be very discreet !!! Once it comes to looking for love outside the home, then you both lack something at home !!! There is always a serious motive behind each of our actions! I have been in a similar situation, but not with a colleague and I do not regret that I experienced it !!! Many give such connections, but be careful, because they take a lot !!! When it's all over, if one day you get there, it hurts a lot !!! Think hard about everything, but it's worth experiencing when the attraction is so strong !!! I hope I was helpful with something! Good luck!!!

   It's me again, and things have become very serious ... I love him! Thinking of him as if I were flying, if he looks at me I melt. And when it's gone, it's as if I've lost a part of myself .... For the first time, the love I feel started in a very different way, as if the other way around, and now I can't stop it! And no, it's not a flirtation ... It's awful, it hurts and it's so sweet at the same time. I discovered many things in him, which I now find in me! We tried, yes, we tried to separate for the last few months, to fix things in our families, but to no avail. I don't want to lose it, but it's scary to turn your back on the life you've had so far. Thanks to those who support us. You,

   Hello, this time the lover will write :). I definitely didn't believe that our relationship would last that long, but it's a fact. We have been together for about a year and a half and although we have had ups and downs, I can say that my relationship with my colleague makes me a better person, I feel charged with positive energy, I am happier, I feel alive. Whenever we see her in private and have sex, it is unique, not just sex, but love. I have no words to describe what I feel. At this stage we only have thoughts of ever living together, whether it will happen I can not say, time will tell. If you have ever been in our situation, act, the feeling is unique and worth experiencing.

   Now it remains to read the posts of the colleague's husband and the boss's wife, because they also have a relationship and so everyone is hiding, but everyone is happy! Boldness and beauty, 2516 episode.

   They say - be discreet ... He married, she - married. It is better to swing with your halves - so they will not be a capo, but a lie. Lying eats away at your soul and makes you slaves to your secret, and the benefits of lying can never outweigh the harm of it - never.