I need to pour out my feelings somewhere. For about 3 months I have been madly in love with a boy from the gym where I go. In the beginning it all started with gossip and looks but gradually things got worse and we got to the first sex. It was amazing, shocking. I melted. We started seeing each other often and doing it. He is a very substantial man - he is an engineer. He is older than me - 32, I am 25. I don't know how it happened. It is his first time with a man, but he feels that he likes it very much and relaxes completely. The problem is that we do not want to advertise our relationship, and it is increasingly difficult for me to see him only a few times a week. I miss him terribly. He will soon leave for Austria from work and insists that I go with him - he will be there for a year. But how to dump everything here - family, work, I do not know. I really want to be with him and help each other. He is a serious man. I also think I'm like that for my age. Otherwise we are not like that with women's clothes and screaming voices. We both have a masculine appearance and demeanor. Do you think I should go with him or give up, but that's how I know I'm going to lose him, and I don't want that to happen. I will be indebted to you.
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If this is true ... Your feelings are sincere and you are sure of it - go! Life is too short to rethink everything! F 15
It's great that he shares your feelings, I wish you a lot of happiness. As for whether it's worth going with him ... you can't know without trying. If financial is not an issue for you, I don't see what's stopping you. Family and friends should support you. Keep us posted.
One falls in love with a person, not with sex. I'm very happy for you two. Well, if you have the opportunity, go with him.
You better go with him. Two fagots in Bulgaria less.
What a great surprise, a great miracle! You can't fall in love with someone of the same sex if you're not the opposite. Obviously you are both like that, and that you suppressed it for various reasons is a separate issue. If you have the opportunity - go with him after you clarify for yourself your own sexual orientation.
And I am FOR. Apart from being with your loved one, you will have the opportunity to see / get to know another country, (Austria is extremely beautiful, I travel all over Europe almost, but it is the most beautiful jewel I have ever seen) you will learn the language if , you can work there. You will be free to experience your relationship, and for this one year you will know for sure what and whether you want something together in the future. It will be a year full of new and positive emotions. What do you think of the family, it will be there again ... I hope you don't have a wife and a child in mind again. But even so, you better be honest with her and with yourself. Success!
If you don't go with him, you may regret it for a long time and wonder if you made a mistake. If you go, you may be disappointed at some point and come back, but you will know that you have tried. I think that experience is a better option than the time spent in regret for what was missed.
Go with him! Don't let distance separate you, as often happens. I am very glad that you have found your soulmate, because in order to be a soulmate, does gender matter at all? I wish you happiness and do not listen to complex homophobes like number 5;)
Let him go there, then take time off from work, and tell your loved ones that they are on a business trip. Spend your vacation together in Austria. If you really love each other, you have to be together. It is very difficult to find true love, especially in these circles. Having a age difference is no problem. Feelings for each other are important.
And I wonder what's going on with today's men .... if you want and you don't mind go ...