Hello! I've always looked at such sites with almost ridicule, but here I am. I am a woman, 25, happily married and gifted with a wonderful child. My story is as follows, I was on a business trip and an unknown man was standing next to me during the trip. The hours passed and we started talking, he was holding my hand, he wanted to caress me. I explained to him that I was married and that was not the case. He replied that he did not mind and just enjoyed it. When he started touching my shoulder, I liked the feeling so much, it ignited me so much that I got scared and told him to stop. We didn't talk anymore, we just said goodbye to each other. I will never forget how sad he looked at me. Weeks later, I don't stop thinking about him, he doesn't give me peace, no matter what I do. I don't know who he is, what his name is, where he's from. These feelings take me away from my husband and I am very confused. I don't even know why I'm writing this, maybe someone can advise me what to do to forget it.
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If you love your husband, what do you find so sexual in a stranger?
This is simply called temptation. You have a man, and for you other men simply do not exist. Feelings are your feelings, but you should not cheat on your husband, even mentally! Seek spiritual help because these are spiritual things; more precisely, spiritual attacks ... It was "nice" for him! And you let yourself be touched! For me personally (I am a man) such behavior can only be a psychopath - even more so, knowing that the woman next to him is married. Forgive me - do not give up!
You fell in love with a man who openly took you down. Once he has taken down a stranger, then what is left for his female friends. A typical countman.
Therefore, men, do not marry, someone will see you on the flight and forget about you.
Mani this counter, the very fact that it doesn't bother him that you're married means that he doesn't care that you're married and that you have a child and the child is part of you, it's kind of disrespectful not to care about this "Detail", and caresses you .... the man wants sex, send him to a companion ... Do not tie yourself to sad eyes. And ask yourself - how much you love your husband, that something I doubt is much.
Leave your husband! You are not worthy of him. Let him find a woman who truly loves him. Even if you forget this case, the next one will come and you will always lift your legs someday. Do not prolong the agony of your marriage. You were not born to live with a man. I have experience with women and I know what I write ... M45
You'll be fine. The weather cures such fevers.
And you, from the slightest passion if you move away from your husband ... I don't think so.
You are not the first married woman to fall in love, but the very fact that you fell in love with an unknown broker on the bus is a sign that you are either sexually dissatisfied or something in your marriage is seriously lame, even if you do not realize it yet. The bigger problem is not that you are in love, but your marriage problems that you have yet to realize. He is working on his marriage because this falling in love is only a consequence, not a root cause. If you solve your marriage problems, you will automatically solve the problem of falling in love.
From the author: I learned about some things that happened in the past and my husband was involved and I did not feel very well. After all, I don't want to betray or hurt him. I have always put my family first and I have not succumbed to any provocations. I didn't look for anything side, I didn't need it. That's why it's so hard for me now. Obviously, the bad coincidence is also a factor.
The comments are damn funny. The author should not have cheated mentally, but if a man says that he fantasizes about how he is ... another, you all immediately say how normal it was. If a woman complains that her husband is drooling over others, you tell her that his freedom was already restricted, so at least he should have been allowed to watch. The same goes for porn. And no, I do not support the author. If you are with someone, whether you are a man or a woman, others should not exist for you.
Well now, what are we going to do. No matter, tomorrow someone can caress you while you are sitting in the subway, and you will still "fall in love". Joke aside, but once again I am convinced that the female psyche and mood are more variable than the gusts of a feather carried by the wind ...
Whatever your husband is, you lack self-esteem as a person, I won't say a woman or a lady when you let a stranger touch you. You don't have to explain to him if you're married and talk to him at all. Apparently he's a stripper and he took you for a pretty easy woman. Find activities, read, learn a language online, whatever, so you don't think about it.
Number 2 said it very well - he is an absolute psychopath! You've been standing next to a stranger for a few minutes and you're already holding her hand! This is perverted!
In fact, it is very well written, in good language, authentic, and you vividly imagine everything ... You are even pleased, because I have been in such situations, on the male side. Emmy, get up or not, but the man should at least try, right ?? ..))) It is not written on the forehead of any of them that she is married. There is no sign on the neck: "BUSY!" ... And now, when I read this topic, I feel good that they thought of me, that they were sad, that they secretly wanted me ...
Such things happen two or three times in a person's life. If you're very lucky, maybe even four times. Due to inexperience and / or scruples, most of us miss the first one. the second time. Then you have to prepare to take advantage of the next time! If you miss the third, another may not come! Unfortunately. Capture the moment! The moment of the moment, to experience something that will keep you moist for a lifetime, something that you will always remember! Good luck next time :)
Just forget to say that the gentleman in question was tall, handsome, muscular, and your husband is not that ... tongue-tied. His monkey job. Greetings! MM