I've been dating a 1-year-old boy ... but lately the thrill has been lost. I don't want to kiss him so much or think so much about sex. I fell in love with another boy, but I suppress my feelings, I don't want to rush and suffer ... my friend does an infinite amount, but he has neglected himself a little, he doesn't keep his hair, he has let it go and looks like a tramp, and I always look good. .. several times I am impressed and that his penis smells I do not know if from poor hygiene or just a specific smell ... I'm harassed, I'm still 19 years old and the relationship is very serious ... I want to cry but it does not work ... or maybe for a day ... or maybe I'm afraid to dump him because he doesn't deserve it ... or there is no point in doing it I don't know maybe I'm lying that it is so or not ... the other boy and very cool has a great demeanor look and inside ---- many times I talked to him on all sorts of topics ... I often look at him in pictures I even dream of him ... and my friend started dreaming that I was cheating on him ... I think about the other .... I think I have to suppress this passion for the other and stay with mine because after a while ... it's important what he does for me ... but this thrill .. I feel guilty as garbage ... kind of bad. What do you think is right?
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Well, apparently you really didn't love this serious friend of yours. There is a huge difference between falling in love and affection. You better break up and try with the other boy. F20
Separate, forcibly not build a relationship. You are still very, very young. You will have dozens of other relationships, or at least it is normal to have contacts until you create something valuable and serious, until you find a partner for most of your life. Who told you it would be this person ?! Who told you that if you don't like someone, it's your fault ?! Don't we have to like the first one who took our GSM number ?! Where does this low self-esteem come from ?! That's why he doesn't behave in vain at all, he's already calmed down that he doesn't need to do anything to like him. There is no need to wash. Have you stopped washing? That I have been married for 23 years and I go to the beautician every week, to the hairdresser every two or three weeks, I go to the callanetics, just to please my husband. And yours no longer has a desire ?! I wish you success.
I get exactly the same chick :) I have a friend for almost a year nooo I want another ... but I can't leave my friend because of the other because he loves me very much and I don't want to hurt him ... here I am I need advice but still ... Regarding hygiene, somehow hint to him that it should be ... hah, it can get a little nasty, but you've been walking for a year, so he must have already learned to accept your criticism and try to do your best to remove them :) come on chick success
Not everyone has the opportunity to dress nice and elegant, and what if he finds it? He will bathe and wash when he wants, is it important that he gives you love, what are you not happy with? Well, people like you, draw a line for them, and watch their work. :)
Although the topic is old, I would advise people in a similar situation to end the relationship. The moment you fall in love or just an increased interest in another person, the relationship is instantly doomed ... Because even if you deny and ignore the pressing feelings towards the stranger, in time a second, third, etc. stumbling block will appear. . I am of the opinion that a relationship should be nurtured constantly in all possible ways, be it with proper behavior or proper support. It is not right to get used to living with your partner and take the situation for granted, so you start to get lazy to support yourself and so on. I totally agree with number 2. We have to take care of ourselves, and taking care of ourselves will have an impact on the person next to us. Everything the author has written is familiar to me, because years ago I had a similar situation and I know what it's about. So immature speeches like number 4 for me are of people who want to go to bed like a bay and not comply with anything. It is not a question of "not everyone has the opportunity to dress nicely and gracefully", but not to be suddenly neglected by laziness or routine. I will not comment on this by bathing "when he wants to", then a person out of elementary self-respect will support himself. Gabi then a man of elementary self-respect will be maintained. Gabi then a man of elementary self-respect will be maintained. Gabi