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I Fell In Love With Her, And Now I Have To Forget Her And Remain Just Friends?

By georgiaspencer October 27, 2020 4 answers Last updated October 27, 2020

Hello, some time ago I also posted my dilemma here and now I come back with the consequences and I would like advice. Well, this year I'm in a new class and there's a girl there ... I have no words to describe her ... I liked her when I saw her. And so there were jokes at school, we went out after school, we wrote to each other often. And at one point I just couldn't stop thinking about her. We had become very good and close friends. By the time I decided to muster up the courage to tell her I had any feelings for her, I had managed to tell her ... nothing has been the same since. It's just not like before. We are friends again, but it's different. At school there are no such jokes as before, a lot of hearts. I asked her what was going on, she told me not to worry and that we would remain friends. I was embarrassed to accept that he wouldn't be with me more than a friend, but ... that's what happens sometimes. She soon found a friend and seemed to forget me. I still have to write to her first. What have I done so much, why should I feel guilty for saying what I feel !! But it's already happened, I can't do anything about it. I was told that you can stop liking someone if you start liking another. But I don't know what to do at school? To go around the classes and meet the girls or how to do it, I just want someone to myself, is that so much? Tell me how to proceed? * Please allow the moderator to approve my story. :) But I don't know what to do at school? To go around the classes and meet the girls or how to do it, I just want someone to myself, is that so much? Tell me how to proceed? * Please allow the moderator to approve my story. :) But I don't know what to do at school? To go around the classes and meet the girls or how to do it, I just want someone to myself, is that so much? Tell me how to proceed? * Please allow the moderator to approve my story. :)

Answers 4

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pauljaxxon answered · October 27, 2020

   It's the same story with me. : /

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brittney_adams answered · October 27, 2020

   You weren't insistent enough and this gathering of courage always ruins things :)

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azealiabanks answered · October 27, 2020

   Stop writing to her and back off. Let her think you haven't liked her in a long time. Try to communicate and hang out with other girls in front of her. She should feel replaced and neglected, not run after her ... And after a while she may think, but you may have forgotten her. Success! :)

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xoxogirlwhite answered · October 27, 2020

   And I think that's a good thing to do, at least for now.