Hello, everyone. I came across this site quite by accident. In general, I do not go to this type of site, but at the moment I need advice, and there is no one to share. Maybe most of you will criticize me, but I myself am not proud of my actions. I am 19 years old from Sofia, I finished school this year. My problem is this. I am in love with the most inappropriate man in this world. He is 26 years old and I am convinced that he is not indifferent to me either. Many of you will probably ask why it is the most inappropriate.
Emmy because he's married and not to anyone else, but to my own sister. They have been married for 3 and a half years, otherwise, they have been together for 9 years. Let me mention that since our parents have been in Spain for many years, I live with them. They are currently going through a very difficult period (not only them but also the whole family. 6 months ago my sister gave birth to a baby girl. Unfortunately, he was born in the 8th month and lived only 35 days. It ruined us all, but most of all my sister. To me, my sister's husband has always been just an older dad who used to cover for me from time to time.
This was the case 2 years ago. At that time Kaka was a student in Varna (part-time). He had to leave for 1 week to take his exams. He and I were left alone at home. For the first 3 days, we hardly saw each other at home. When I got up for school he was already out for work and when I came home he was already in bed. But on day 4 it was different. In the evening I came home earlier than usual and we both sat down to watch TV. Then he started asking me about my boyfriend (then I was dating a boy for almost a year). Surprisingly for me, he asked me if I had slept with him and I answered yes. And so it went tonight. The next night I went out to a disco with my friend.
But in the beginning, we quarreled with him (then we broke up) and he left. I stayed with some friends and "a little" too much with alcohol. One of my friends called "MY FATHER" to come and pick me up. On the way home, he asked me why I was drunk and I told him everything. When we got home he put me to bed. But something happened to me and I attacked him. He pulled away at first, but then began to return my kisses. We had the most amazing sex. I had an orgasm for the first time. He was so gentle. While my sister was gone, we did it every day. For a year and a half, we did it every time we had the opportunity.
When my sister gave birth, I realized that I was betraying the man who had always supported me. As the saying goes, my conscience began to bite and I began to avoid it. I tried not to be alone with him at home. He started sending me text messages that he missed me, that he wanted me to go crazy without me, that he couldn't stand the thought of a wall dividing us, and so on. I felt like I was going crazy. On the one hand, I loved him, on the other hand, I couldn't keep betraying my sister. After my nephew died, he stopped sending me text messages. Shortly after the child's funeral, we were left alone in the living room, and he told me that he cared terribly for me and didn't want to lose me, but now he understood what my sister meant to him. That was the end of us. I know this is the right thing to do, but I can't stop loving it. I think about him all the time. When I saw him, I was all goosebumps. I try to avoid it but it is impossible after all we live together. My sister keeps telling me how much he has changed for her.
How gentle he has become, how much attention and attention he pays, etc. You have no idea how I am tormented by these stories of hers. I try to forget him to go out with others but it doesn't work. Please give me advice on what to do.
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Well, this story of yours shook me! The situation is complicated, but in my opinion, since you have already graduated, move out ... start working and so on ... if your sister asks you why you are moving out, you can think of a thousand reasons, even in my opinion the best option would be if you start studying higher education outside Sofia. I hope things get better with you! If you want to answer me in some way write me on [censored]
This is a terrible deed on your part. If I were your sister, I would never forgive you, but never. I pray that she doesn't find out about this "secret" of yours. You seem to care more about whether your husband wants you. more than how much you hurt your sister. Honestly, I was so sorry that I just want to throw you in the trash. You're not a paw to do such nonsense, but obviously you have no mind. I understand if it was a friend of yours ..... but YOUR SISTER!?! You are a GARBAGE! AND YOU AND HE!
aha ... just a runaway female. and to fuck none other, my man on whose back you live! I will not curse you, etc., because you are unworthy of it. spit!
HEY dear, let every frog know its goal .... your act is very low. In my opinion because you spend most of your time with him so you think that you love him, this is not love between you. Because you do it secretly it's good if you have to not hide you will understand that you don't love each other. YOU HARM PEOPLE AROUND YOU IN VAIN. I'm afraid to say it but I think that God punished him so that he can realize what he is doing ....... .collect your rags and get out of there ..... find your love elsewhere
PUT YOURSELF IN A PLACE FOR A MOMENT, PUT YOURSELF WHAT YOUR SISTER HAS BEEN EXPERIENCED, IMAGINE THAT THIS IS YOU ,,,, YOU ARE A LITTLE BED, YOU'RE DOING IT WELL! AND ONE DAY IF HE UNDERSTANDS THAT HE HAS THE POWER TO FORGIVE YOU !!!
Everyone makes mistakes sometimes ... You didn't do well either, but I'm not the one to blame you, and as far as I understand now, you're sorry for what you did ... I think it would be best if you went out. , so it will be easier for you to forget it ... Try to find another person who loves you and loves you, I am sure you will meet him! Don't bother anymore about what you did, look ahead and forget what happened.
you were two unrestrained beings-he-overexcited and you-drunk ... the first time well but later why? I'm not sure you're madly in love-it's just easier and even more comfortable. you distorted your worldview and it's it is best to look outside - outside your home - you will ruin a person who does not deserve it (your sister), although it may turn out that you seem to have returned the living in their marriage after the grief that befell them.
You're a piece of shit, how could you, don't you think? A little ungrateful pamper, I just wonder how people like you can exist, now itch your poop and don't try to seek sympathy from people, you don't deserve anything, to think in time!
One thing I just can't believe - your sister's baby was on the brink of life and death and she was suffering and worried, and you were filling in the gaps with her husband during that time. So you were comforting him, and who comforted your sister. I can't believe there's such rubbish as you, it must be a fictional story. No one can be so low. You are not garbage - you are the bacterium that feeds on garbage. One piece of advice from me - get out of your sister's life and pray to God that she will never understand, because it will distrust her to all people. If the person closest to her has stabbed her in the back, then what is left for the others.
I don't know what exactly to tell you, but to know that you are not the only one in this world with such a problem, there are many, I have not been in such a situation and in fact no matter how much I tell you I do not know what it is, but the good thing is that you left it , now it's time to look for another, I know it's hard but at least try! GOOD LUCK!!!
I'm shocked ... I personally know about such cases ... I know the situation but in this case the big sister understood ... I think this is the lowest thing that can happen ... so she is your sister how can you cause it ??? think about it a bit ... put yourself in her place ... in this case the fairy tale WHO HAS A BULLDO FUCKS 2 ASSES ... don't forget the man in this case and he is for paints ...
Pray that God will forgive you. I'm shocked how there can be people like you.
Wow, that shook me completely. I listened to everything myself, but such a thing is NOT ... I will not betray you like the others, although most of them are right. It is best to leave their home and leave, because if you stay, your feelings will never come true. Your sister has lived long enough, and she may already die from it .. And I hope you forgive .. Pray at least for that ..........
Don't care what these "moralists" write to you! Good health to them! There are other such cases, and you are strong and you have shared it. Go to another city. Away and you will shake off your worries! It happened, it happened! What if you didn't kill her!
It is best to get out of it:))))
I'm generally pretty shocked by this story, and I'll try not to judge you because I don't want to! But I'll tell you, it's hellishly unpleasant what you did, because I'm on your sister's side, I have a sister who doesn't get along with men, and I see how every time she tries to compare every man to my husband, which is hellish. unpleasant, because I have to pretend to be blind, but it's awful, everything in me shrinks into a ball, and let alone to understand something like that, I would never forgive, because I think forgiveness comes from within, and it should start from yourself, if you think that you can forgive yourself for what you have done, it means that others might do the same !! Think about it!!!!! Can you forgive yourself, you have to love yourself, but is it possible, do you have inner peace ????? Is it possible for all this to happen, while you're still there ??????? !!!!! .......
I wonder what happened 7 years have passed since the story was released, I hope the author will answer. I don't want to offend you, I won't do it, I'm indignant . I just hope you didn't make the mistake of repeating the same song in a new voice. I'm really interested in what's going on with your sister and her husband? Are they still together? Did she find out what happened anyway?
Hey, darling! I know that your story is very old, but I want to express myself .. so simple :)) Before attacking the girl, think about what things she went through. She has to give up love for the sake of her sister's happiness. This is not easy at all ... not at all. I have been in a similar situation and it is terrible! If you both love each other very much, find a way to tell your sister. (my personal opinion) If you don't want to just move out of the city even if you live alone: in