Hello. So, about 3 months ago I met a lady. Great, smart, fun, beautiful, with a perfect body, tight, but also amazing shapes, and in a word perfect (for me). We have common interests, topics to talk about, we love animals, etc. I liked her a lot, I'm even in love, I can say that, that's how I feel. But here comes a huge BUT. About 3 weeks ago, as we were talking, she told me she was bisexual. I didn't worry much. But after 1 week when we went out, she said that she lied to me and that she was a lesbian. I was worried then, how come. I thought it was a lie to repel me. In the middle of another week, I was able to admit how I felt. And she smiled sweetly at me and told me that she felt grateful for my feelings, but she didn't feel anything like that, she told me that I was great, kind, charming and blah blah. He said, that he has a girlfriend since he was 16 years old and loves her very much. Even the next month she went to America, went out with a mulatto, at 26, they are 6 years apart and I have so much with her, but still, and went to her to live together. And I want advice on how to make her stay, because if she goes to be with her, I'm going crazy, I found out right away that she has a girlfriend and I started to be jealous of her. How do I get her to stay? Even a little selfish, but how do I get her to stay and be with me?
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Do you not realize that she is driving you crazy?
I'm sorry to write it, but it's for your good - she won't change her sexuality, experience it, forget ... How can I tell you, well, in your friend zone, there is no escape ... And I fell in love, I know, sometimes it hurts a lot ... but this is life ... Be strong.
I very much doubt that she is a lesbian and that she has been enchanting you for 3 months. Rather, she wants to lose you, but so that you don't feel sorry for yourself and don't bother her anymore. That she also went to America, that's what happened. Or, you took her friendship for love. Anyway, she doesn't want to be with you, and if you have any dignity, you won't shake. This is life, you will find a partner.
If so, it will not change. And you will go crazy, jealous of women. Don't get into a movie like that. Don't call her and finish with her.
Author: Well, why not change? I think it would be. But she doesn't respond to my feelings. I have a nasty feeling that he will soon stop picking up the phone. The other day when we were out and they called her on some app and she showed me her friend. And I went too far, because they locked up her boyfriend and I kissed her, and she got up and left. He didn't hit me, he didn't say anything, he just got up and left. So now what do I do before she leaves ??
So for these "deviations" scientists are still debating whether they are not mental illness. Although the topic is waiting, normally, for the male orientation because they are more obvious, women are such understandings are usually some total feminists.
A female lesbian can't change like a male homo, no matter how much they like them. Do not think that if you confess to her, court her and have faith, she will respond to your feelings, this will not happen !!! She's big enough to know what she wants! Do not be selfish and do not push between the slaps, but withdraw with dignity, there are so many hetero women who will respond to your feelings.
Be a man who keeps to himself above all else. Stop all contact with her.
Author: # 8 is it even a friend not to be with her? I'll try not to tie her up if she's not mad at me yet. I'll tell her I'll stop. But what to do with my feelings for her?
Ah, people, don't be humiliated! How can you be friends with someone who makes fun of you. Most likely, it is not the lesbian waiting for her in the United States, but some relative of hers who has prepared a place for her as a maid or masseuse. If you love her, let her show her donkeys and if in a few months there is a chance to save her, do what is necessary. Just don't be humiliated to serve her with servility.
He doesn't do anything - he just doesn't look for her. You have shown your feelings well, because these things should not be hidden. In general, she should do her homework. You make a pass and watch your life, but do not live in the hope that something will change in it. I would not be a friend in your place, or at least until you overcome your feelings for her, which takes a long time (at least for me)! > М. 31г <