Hi friends, Let's start with the fact that I'm 17 years old. You must be wondering what kind of hole I'm talking about. It's about the fact that last year I had wonderful love moments. I had a serious girlfriend, but it was over in 6 months. Then I had another one that I fell madly in love with, but that ended in 2 months because theirs didn't allow us to be together. Anyway ... Ever since I ended my relationship with my last girlfriend (the one we dated for 2 months) I've been in what I call a "sleepless period". It's about the fact that not only do I not have a boyfriend, I'm in complete disrepair. These were not first sad nights of suffering in the past, they were not numerous attempts at connection. I was cut every time. The strangest thing is that I've always been liked by girls, and now suddenly nothing, absolutely nothing ... I've been in this "hole" for more than 8 months and I have to admit it kills me. My best years and my last free teenage moments are empty and sad. Some people say I have to act, I act the way I've acted before, but it doesn't, the girls just don't like me in that special way. I communicate a lot with girls at the moment, but still friendly and funny. It's just that no girl I know or see, whether she will be at school, on the street, or in training (I train volleyball) shows interest in me. And all my acquaintances, there is always a girl who likes them, whether it will be ugly, full, stupid, a little .... It doesn't matter if someone likes them and I don't like any, NOT a single girl of any kind. I don't know people what's wrong with me, am I to blame? !! Is it my fault? Appearance neat, I get compliments even from girls, but so much ...
My demeanor is cool. Jokes and jokes, funny stories telling the truth in the eyes, maybe a little sarcasm at times. But there is nothing on my horizon. It doesn't seem to exist, and it really disappoints me, depresses me, demoralizes me, despairs me and all sorts of other "bad" words. Maybe sometimes I think that everything comes from the fact that I'm not from the model I like today and he is the following: 1. Haircut naked head (rarely 1, number 2) 2. Bad ass posture (to pretend of bad and gangster) 3. To walk on levers or BOXING (show "strength" this way) I am of another breed. I've found myself, I don't want to pretend to be a bad boy because I'm not. I don't want to pretend to be strong because I am. The sport gave me a lot like physics, height, strength, etc. I have a Stanislav Manolev style hairstyle and a light beard style 50 Cent. This is my style, don't girls of my age like that so much ??? Or am I too uninterested? !! Why the hell do you like being fake today, drinking, shaking and being bad ... Why don't you like normal things? My situation in which I am after this 6 month relationship + my falling in love after that, do not reflect well on me. Please give me an opinion as read above.
What can I do for God? !! I want a serious relationship with a girl who doesn't put it on with the first person she meets. Isn't that too much nowadays? Why don't they like normal things? My situation in which I am after this 6 month relationship + my falling in love after that, does not affect me well. Please give me an opinion as read above. What can I do for God? !! I want a serious relationship with a girl who doesn't put it on with the first person she meets. Isn't that too much nowadays? Why don't they like normal things? My situation in which I am after this 6 month relationship + my falling in love after that, does not affect me well. Please give me an opinion as read above. What can I do for God? !! I want a serious relationship with a girl who doesn't put it on with the first person she meets. Isn't that too much nowadays?
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Dude, you get into a lot of things, and you shouldn't. You are impatient, and you should not be. There is no time in these things, everything is timeless - either things work out or not. And even if you were the biggest downloader for 20 years, it may turn out that in the next 20 you will be the biggest loser, life loves such games :) So tighten up, you will probably get your chance soon :)
Muscular men with zero number haircut - everywhere. Yes, of course, they catch our eye. But only that much. It depends a bit on what kind of girl you are looking for. If you want some blood that has 10 words in its vocabulary and can't see beyond your nose, then you have to change. But if you are looking for a self-respecting woman with moral values, then do not stop waiting and do not change. I'm sure there are many women in this world who would appreciate you for who you are. Love will find you on its own :)
Too bad we don't know each other personally !!!!! :) Girl 16 years old Isabella ************
Man! At 17, you want the world at your feet. Your best years :)) Who told you that? At 25 and 35 and 45 you will be a man again and life will be the same. And after that age you will be a man and you will meet many women. And I was in a hurry to live and I thought that if I didn't have a boyfriend I would lose something, but that's not the case. Improve in all directions, life is yet to come.
You shouldn't fall into such situations to think that you will be cut off by every single girl, that's not the case. And I don't have a girlfriend at the moment and I haven't had one for 1-2 years and I really want to have one, but I just don't like any of them, because there aren't any decent ones, most of them want you to have mangoes ... You'll find your soul mate be patient and be yourself, and try to be different from others! :) ~ princereaper
AUTHOR: Thank you people really for the decent comments! :)) And about number 3: Nothing prevents us from doing it !!!! (After all, hope dies last)