Hello from me, mother of 41 years. It may be strange what I will share, but it is very difficult for me to accept it normally and not think about it. My son is almost 20 years old and for the first time in a month he has a serious relationship with an 18-year-old girl, for whom my son is also the first serious friend. I see that you like it, even for those in love with each other. They don't hide anything from me, I met the girl and her mother from the very beginning. But yesterday I was walking around the apartment and they were talking on the ceiling / our apartment is a penthouse / at one point I heard strange sounds. I decided to listen, hoping the sounds were coming from the TV, but no. The two had reached the final phase of intimacy and the girl made sounds of pleasure and even called a little ...... I just went numb and left the apartment. I specify that they knew that I was there. I didn't know what to think. I felt as if I had walked naked through the town square. I understand that children have been found, but I can't stand that much. I was not brought up that way and it is very difficult for me to accept it. Maybe the very fact that my son is having sex subconsciously contradicts me. Because I myself am still thinking of having a third child and somehow everything seems very confusing to me. You will probably laugh at my thoughts, so I do not dare to share them with anyone else, but I can not hide it in me, because I will go crazy. If anyone understands me after all, let them answer me with something reassuring. Thank you in advance!!! Because I myself am still thinking of having a third child and somehow everything seems very confusing to me. You will probably laugh at my thoughts, so I do not dare to share them with anyone else, but I can not hide it in me, because I will go crazy. If anyone understands me after all, let them answer me with something reassuring. Thank you in advance!!! Because I myself am still thinking of having a third child and somehow everything seems very confusing to me. You will probably laugh at my thoughts, so I do not dare to share them with anyone else, but I can not hide it in me, because I will go crazy. If anyone understands me, let them answer me with something reassuring. Thank you in advance!!!
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The time has come for you to realize that your son is old enough to go his own way. If you want, you can have 2 more children, no one can stop you. Glad you know who he is and where he is. It's better to have sex with her than to shake drugs and have no idea where he is right now. Get used to the noise, he will get married someday and if he lives with you, how do you think the nights will be filled, of course, with many shouts and groans. And then how will you feel? All this is completely normal. Read some of the stories written in sex and intimacy.
And I think you should be happy that your child is normal and you don't care :)
It is true that you think somewhat conservatively, but I think that your son should be a little more discreet. However, what happened proves that you are very close. Look at things from their good side. If that really annoys you, talk to him.
From the author: Thank you 1, 2 and 3! With your words I really felt much better and I realize that like anything for the first time it's a little disturbing, but over time everything falls into place.
I think all this is normal, he is a normal young man !!!! I don't think he's doing anything wrong for his age! parents just have to come to terms with the fact that their children are no longer children !! and big people? and accept them as equals ....
I think you think very limited. When you were young, how old were you when you first had sex? This is normal though.
I beg you, do not give advice and write comments. Don't you feel jealous? It's like a father sleeping with his daughter. She such a motherly love at some point begins to stink.
It is quite a normal reaction for a mother to be embarrassed that her son is having sex in the next room, and his girlfriend is even giving a voice of pleasure. The author does not say that it is not his time, that she wants to stop him or that she is jealous of him! She only says that she was rightly embarrassed! What did you attack her and even some crazy comparisons "sex father with daughter", etc. Quite a normal first reaction of the mother. Nothing scary, strange or embarrassing. She is even liberal, how many children behave so freely in front of their parents. Good luck and I wish a third child!
Come on, author, haven't you benefited from the fact that your son is not just another fagot in this dear and rotten homeland of ours.
Eee everyone was young and stupid;) and also to add that young people love not only sex but in the sex in question to have adrenaline and what's better from that moment :) your mother in the opposite room and you during this time pushing girlfriend. ... I don't know if there can be any version :) and a person who relaxes doesn't care much :)
First - the fact that you have such a good relationship in the family that even the son to share that he has a girlfriend is something really rare and in any case - good! Second - I take off my hat that you are such a cool mother and share with us in such a site (forum) and do not hide like most! I was pleased to see that there are such mothers (even if mine were like that). As for the incident - and I will say that there is NOTHING wrong! Your son doesn't have to tell you when he needs sex, or wait for an opinion to invite his girlfriend (especially since you know her!) And do it. I can only envy your son that if I invite a friend to our country (I am an 18-year-old man by the way), my father will drive me CRAZY, let alone for sex! That's how he insulted me ... my mother - insolently curious, if she is with us and finds out that we do it, he will definitely go up to the second floor to listen or go straight into the room! I SAY AGAIN - I TAKE OFF YOUR HAT THAT YOU ARE ABOVE LIKE MY PARENTS!
Your son is old enough for intimacy - be glad they do it in you is in some lower hotel. They are young, it is normal to show their feelings in this way.
What's your problem, your son is big, of course he will have sex. Or you are subconsciously jealous of him, seeing in his girlfriend the woman who will take it away from you! And the fact that you want a child does not prevent you from getting pregnant and giving birth to it at all! Get rid of your prejudices!
Calm down, everything is fine. If your son is 20, then you probably won't accept him as gay. So, you better be happy that you like a girl, they are serious, and they have sex, everything is okay, better a man and a woman than 2 men. And think about it, your son is 20, he had to lead chicks and sound the apartment from 16-17. =]
There is one thing dazzling. It is not bad for everyone to have it in a small dose. If the author has sex and moans and her son hears it, will it be nice? It's not about morality or other nonsense. Discretion and intimacy. Elementary.
your son is rude and shameless. no respect for the woman who has been watching him for so many years. he could wait until you were gone. shame and disgrace indeed. sorry for your work in those 20 years.
For number 18, what has become so normal is for a boy to invite his girlfriend with him to his home even when his mother is at home, eh? I'm sure others have done it no wonder you even.
What are you doing in a traffic jam! Of course they will fuck. Didn't you fuck your husband for a while before you got married. You used to work hard, but now you pretend to be "moral"!
Nights, darling. I felt that way after the first anal sex. The next day I thought that everyone on the street knew and only looked at me. ж 46
Maybe it's normal, even with children, they don't perceive their parents that way and they do.
Now it was awkward! They had sex, moaned, moaned ... And what should they do? - to talk to you about the news? Mother, mother! How bad you are! It is very good that the mother in question has come out of the penthouse! I imagine what would happen to her in the same situation if they lived in a one-bedroom apartment, not to mention the studio ... Have mercy on your children! And they need a breath of fresh air! Enough with your mother's caresses ....
I have had an even more striking case. I was 19. My friend was home almost every day. I live in a two-storey house. The second floor is unwritten only mine. One day my mother not only saw my friend's shoes and knew she was there. Not only did she go up quietly without us noticing her, but with all her impudence she boiled us into a mold. WITHOUT KNOWING! On top of that, we were in a slightly spicy pose with our legs turned. What he wanted to see, since he knew very well what we were doing, I don't know. Good thing the bed was slightly behind the door and I had about 0.5 seconds to cover my girlfriend with the blanket. However, I'm not sure what my mother was able to see. Since then, my friend stopped looking her in the eye and she was so ashamed .... I didn't talk to my mother for a month. If you want to be on good terms with your son at all, the less you mess up, the better. He will respect that. If he has a problem and needs advice and help, he will tell you.