I am a 19-year-old girl and he is 22. He is a colleague and roommate of my brother from the university (they study in one city, I study in another). For 3 years, during which time they live with my brother, I have been listening to good things about the boy. He is really honest and is one of my brother's best friends. During these 3 years I have only seen him in pictures from my brother's gatherings and I have always had a huge affinity for him. Somehow I always respected and liked him without even talking. One day he came for a few days to our hometown because he had to travel to another city on business with another colleague from my city. They went to a disco, and later I went to them (my brother doesn't like to go out much together). It became something like love at first sight. I greeted him - not as a stranger, as expected in principle, and when he took my hand as if we had known each other for a long time, I fell in love with him. He was smiling at me all the time. I don't know what to do. They will be back in 2 weeks and they will probably stay in the city again (I really hope). I want it to happen between us, but I don't have the opportunity to approach it to act. I'm very sad My brother likes to go out alone with his friends and I don't know what to do, because I really want him a lot. I rarely fall in love, but falling in love is very strong and there are always some problems to start a relationship.
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Hello first second go out for coffee walks disco and if you have patience and luck will be yours but time will tell and you will have a problem with starting a relationship this is due to impatience .... you want everything immediately have patience
Number 1, your advice I will try to use it if I can. And I'm impatient for everything and that's not good at all. Ralph
Just tell your brother that you are interested. After all, he is your brother and he will understand and he can compromise and take you with him :)
Thanks a lot for the advice and feedback so far; I will be happy if someone else shares their opinion. :) Until №1 I completely agree with you and I would be patient, but the problem is that if he stays he will be for a maximum of 1 day and will want to go home to them. During this day I don't know how to be alone with him, to talk, to hint to him that I have feelings, etc. without my brother and his other colleague. However, they will want to use the time for walks and cafes together. I don't know how to get to these three. I'm really worried because he doesn't have any time or access to my husband, and he really behaves like a man for his 23 years :)
As long as you are, your wife, you will find a way. Well, if you are not alone in the room, look at him a few times longer, smile at him a few times. There is no desire to tell him, show him. Then leave the room, go outside in the yard / on the terrace to smoke a cigarette or drink a soft drink in the fresh air and if he is interested he should follow you. Good luck, and then write what happened :) Ale
Some men are so stupid sometimes and can't feel it: D
Hello .. I am 16 years old and I do not have much experience but I would still give you advice and you decide .. Obviously the boy is also interested in you and you should show him your feelings for him .. Your brother should know and even it will be of great use to you :) ... obviously the boy is serious and competent .. I did not read the other comments but I think you just need time .. you will be the first to meet. Cafes, discos, cinema something you can have fun in. It's all a matter of time ... I sincerely wish you success :)
I don't know if he treated me like his friend's sister, with whom he has a lot of respect, or if he really has an attraction for me. How can I know if he has anything to do with me. Even if there isn't (I'm thinking of any options), I don't know how to show him, as all three will be together all the time. He will not sleep in us, as I mentioned, and this is a big problem. I want to be alone with him. :(