Hello everyone ... At the age of 22 I have had a friend for almost 3 years, he is 23, we are coming to each other, we are our first serious relationship and our first love. I never cheated on him, ever. The first two were great ... here for 8 months things are just going badly. At the beginning of our relationship, I was the one who was sulking, I was the one who was behaving badly, and that's when things went. When I started being nice and everything turned around. We came back from England and he decided to separate for a while ... and then I didn't believe ... 1 week passed in which we didn't hear from each other, and then I decided to call, but he didn't pick me up. And so for two whole months I go to them every day, cry for him, I pray to him just to see you, but he doesn't. I ask him if there is another one and if so, let everyone tell me on their way - but he swore to me to the last, that it was just me and that he loved me, I had just suffocated him a lot. And so 2 months passed in which I even begged him to hug me because I needed him. We got along and so I understand that during these 2 months from time to time he saw another and her and said that whatever I did I would forgive him because I loved him very much. He slept with her at least 10 times, gave flowers as gifts. After I found out, I freaked out because he had been with her while he was with us since we were fine, and I left ... 10 days passed and he didn't even ask me to apologize ... even to ask how I was. I learned from a mutual friend that he cried for me and told him that he really loved me. And so I looked for him again, swallowed everything just because I hoped that someday everything might be the same again. When we recovered, he cried and told me that he was the biggest fool to behave like that and even kissed my hands and feet to thank me for not leaving him. It's been 6 months since then and he started telling me that I suffocated him again, that I kept him very short, that he wasn't married to me, that he lived now. Ever since we broke up in the summer and he deleted all the photos with me from all the sites, and before I was everywhere and under the photos it was written 'I love you'. It's not enough that he doesn't have a single photo with me, but he doesn't even add me to his friends ... and when I go to them, everything stops ... Skype, Facebook. However, I caught his Skype password and for 5 days I read what he writes to himself and what he always hides from me and here everything shone ... 3 days ago he told me that they would gather in a man's way and he called me in the evening from there and I called him if there were any girls and he called not only there are no boys, I'm ok too ... and now, however, his friends are writing .. fuck that one I left with you ... she pressed you so much and he wrote abe don't bother me, I'm not. And today one of his wrote to him that the person in question was interested in him. And this one of his shouts "but I have a lot of fun with you and your chick, you have a serious girlfriend" and my friend writes to him ... "I don't want you to tell the girl in question that I have a girlfriend because things are not going well with my girlfriend and I don't want the person in question to know "..... then I called him a while ago and I told him" I made enough compromises with myself because of you, go check yourself and I closed .... tell me dear people how to do and did I do the right thing. I want this wheel to turn and for him to suffer for me as I have for him for 8 months. Don't judge me because I'm very good, I love him very much and I always thought that he would be as before, but obviously it's not just the 1st to try .... Help me ... who has passed to me say such men are aware of their mistakes ... I do not know tell me your experience. Sincerely ..... Plovdiv go check yourself and I closed .... tell me dear people how to do and did I do the right thing. I want this wheel to turn and for him to suffer for me as I have for him for 8 months. Don't judge me because I'm very good, I love him very much and I always thought that he would be as before, but obviously it's not just the 1st to try .... Help me ... who has passed to me say such men are aware of their mistakes ... I do not know tell me your experience. Sincerely ..... Plovdiv who has come to tell me whether such men are aware of their mistakes ... I don't know, tell me your experience. Sincerely ..... Plovdiv who has come to tell me whether such men are aware of their mistakes ... I don't know, tell me your experience. Sincerely ..... Plovdiv
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Leave it and move on! Nobody says it will be easy, but I think that even if he regrets his mistake again, it will take some time and he will repeat it. I don't think there's any point in fighting for this lost cause.
My advice is to leave him, he doesn't deserve you. I'm a boy and it was like that with me, my friend understood my Skype password and then it got bad, I loved her very much but she didn't believe me. And to have people who change, but in my opinion he will not change
Beat him, believe me, I played this movie, but my girlfriend was in the position of your friend, we got together and parted several times, for a week we were supposed to get better and everything was getting worse. Once the chain breaks, I know it sucks, but if you postpone the decision until later, you'll still be sick. good luck and be optimistic, the time will come when you will find another and with him you will experience the thrills of love again
You are doing the right thing by turning your back on a hopeless relationship! This man is making fun of your feelings and bullying most brazenly. You are not a trash can!
Look now ... the dude obviously doesn't care. He doesn't poison with nonsense. When I don't appreciate you going your own way, I hope you make a living .... Find someone who will appreciate you as you are. And good health to him .... Don't be humiliated and don't look for him!
I am older than you, I tell you from experience - he will not change. As hard as it is for you - close this page and open another. Success!
I was in a very similar situation, with the difference that we lived in another country and somehow it was a better option to be together and support each other than to separate. Anyway, it lasted 2 years and now there is no mention of the boy in question. you know what is right and you did it. now stay with dignity and do not back down from your position. forget it ..
I'm sorry, but I didn't even read the story to you. Abe, don't you have at least a little self-confidence? To go to cry and pray. Personally, I'm sick of seeing a crying girl. Get rid of it and move on. But
I also think you did the right thing ... Think of yourself, not him ... Sooner or later everyone gets what they deserve ... I know what it's like to be hurt by infidelity, by giving yourself completely to someone, and let him make fun of you ... But ... Time heals ... No matter how much you don't believe in this moment, that's right ... You're 22 ... Life is in front of you ... You will find the man who really loves you ... Good luck
The cure for you is a complete forgetfulness of this one. No desire "for him to suffer for me." If you can do that, you will understand how obsessed you are now and you live his life. This is not love. He who loves you will want to be only with you. But this is not the one. Accept it as the truth and you will sober up from its obsession. Otherwise, we will give you good health and a lot of your most precious years. And your whole life can go wrong.
Honey ... mine is the same. He's not mine anymore, either. How can I tell you, my story is one to one with yours, even the years coincide, and the separation, and everything. He lied to me most brazenly that there was no other, and I knew because, like you, I had his Skype password. He still brazenly denied it. To this day we hear each other, and do you know what is the most fun? He tells me in plain text that he wants to be alone, etc., but when I ask him about her, he says that he didn't feel anything who knows what ... And then it says on her "you have captured my thoughts" ... He wants a reserve, and that's it! And I care. But you did very well! Don't go back to him at all! I envy you for keeping your dignity! Remember, he will be sorry! Good luck
So he cheats on you, lies to you and tells you that you are suffocating him?!? According to you, suffocating him was just a precondition for him to cheat on you without understanding. However, I don't understand why you forgave him the first time, because someone told you that he cried for you or ?? I think you are terribly deluded by his original image and that is why it is difficult for you now. And what he says to his friends leads me to think that he was just about to dump you, so you did the right thing and don't look back !!
Drop it girl !!! A man who cheats on you and then tells you I love you. . It's rubbish, honestly !!!!!!!! You suffocated him - well, he obviously doesn't want to be with you, because that's exactly what this suffocation means !!!! Does not deserve you!!!! Ehh, let's just say I've been mad! Drop that bastard! Oh my??????? If you didn't look for him anymore, he made you crazy !!!! F 21
FROM THE AUTHOR ......... Girls, you know ... I want him to suffer for me one day as I suffered for him. I am his first big love and I know that time will pass and then the wheel will turn and he will come to my turn ... I am very kind, faithful, people tell me that I am very good to suffer for him .. but you know that "good apples are eaten by pigs." Congratulations on the song of Magda-toast pick up. It is for my case exactly.
It is not enough to be kind and faithful, but it is good to be both smart and interesting. I understand your friend.
15, if it's not interesting with what it is .. the man was wrong
When you walk on an old path, the view is usually the same! And new trails as much as you want (as rough as it sounds). You will always find yours or at least with a better view :) wanderer
Play it, fuck that mold.
My dear, I have been married for 11 years - believe me, this pain does not pass. but he will look for you 10000000%. be nasty as in the beginning. pretend you don't care. believe the number passes. receive text messages. let him think - it's like you have another. but run away from such men - they are not worth it. he will crawl to you - be sure. I have a child but if I were like you - I would not hesitate to say END FOREVER!
Hello lovely girl! I am 20 years old and I have a similar story. I was with him for two years, we even lived together. he had a ring and everything. But he cheated on me for the third time! The first two times I decided that it was not so serious .. then we lived together and I decided that he realized !!! But, no !!! He cheated for the third time and this time he had a child .. true the girl who will refrain from calling me rude words, did the right thing and removed him .. After this infidelity I cried, shook, drove him away and fell into depression, continuing just like you 8 months. Less than a month ago, we met again, simply because I had the feeling that we should give our relationship a second chance. And it turned out to be something like a honeymoon after a storm .. Last night, however .. I, like you, hit the password for Facebook and a girl .. without comment on the appearance and upbringing ... wrote to him with the question how he could brag about what the two had done !!! You understand that I went crazy !!! How many times have I forgiven him .. and he betrays me .. Do you know what I did? I called him and told him the following: "Darling, your friend just asked you on Facebook how you could tell about your personal moments?" He is speechless ... but I only told him that I don't care what he does ... it's still me ... just looking at his life, and I'm looking at mine. We are still together, despite this incident - but it won't be long! I'm furious enough and I'm tired of his performances that I will give it all back to him and finally dump him! Even if I love him .. does that mean I have to forgive ??? Until when should I forgive ??? What if we were married and had children ??? Rest assured that everything will come back to him, but it is sweeter when it comes back to him than you, and not from the next or from the next! I don't know how things will develop for me from now on .. I don't know what to do .. I don't care, I don't ... I'm confused and very hurt. If you want to share it with a friend ... Be sure that you can always look for me. In these moments I am aware that it is better to share with a complete stranger who will understand you than a close friend to condemn you !!!! My name is Bogdana and I leave you my skype (sladkishche_900), if you want to share something more! I wish you all the best and never, but never again go through such hell! that you can always look for me. In these moments I am aware that it is better to share with a complete stranger who will understand you than a close friend to condemn you !!!! My name is Bogdana and I leave you my Skype (sladkishche_900) if you want to share something more! I wish you all the best and never, but never again go through such hell! that you can always look for me. In these moments I am aware that it is better to share with a complete stranger who will understand you than a close friend to condemn you !!!! My name is Bogdana and I leave you my skype (sladkishche_900), if you want to share something more! I wish you all the best and never, but never again go through such hell!
If you didn't ignore it in the beginning, now it gives it back to you. Do you see how nasty it is?