Hello, for several years now I have been constantly suffocating when I go out, for example on the street, at the market or in the vehicles. I have the feeling that everyone is staring at me, but not with good feelings, but with bad ones. I have registrations on dating sites and they said that I am nice, even nice, so the problem is not in appearance. And yet they keep staring at me. The stupid thing is that I'm mostly staring at people who don't want to do it - old women, gypsies or men. I have even been constantly begging for beggars for several years and they still want money from me. I'm tired of these freaks, and someone will stare at me, even if they were cool babes, and they don't look at me at all, they go and look at one point. If I have something like magic, I'm tired of living anymore, I'll commit suicide if my life doesn't change for the better. I don't know what to do anymore, how to deal with this thing. I used to go out and they never begged me, they didn't stare at braziers, grandmothers and men, only the chicks. I'm tired already !!!
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You must be cool, so they stare. So cool that the chicks don't dare look at you with excitement. :)
I think you have all the indications of depression. Don't worry anymore every 3rd person has such symptoms - unfortunately. Go to a psychiatrist - there are many medications with a milder effect, of which, you will feel guaranteed. better . Eva
The problem is in you, let people stare at each other. I think you're paranoid. Look for the problem in yourself, if you do not measure yourself, seek help.
He and I do not always look at the one I want, but even to kill myself .. hardly :) I think you should not care who stares at you and who does not. Just walk down the street, do your job (if you have one) and don't take a nap for anyone. It is tested and helps :)))
Be careful not to offend so that you don't fall on what you turned your nose up from, what if grandma beggars stare at you and so that they look at your dad, look at your chicks and bend your head a little so that your nose will hang on a tree ... .learn patience and love people in spite of everything
Hello number 6, I'm not bloated at all! I'm just tired of being stared at ok? Besides, years ago when I was in high school they never asked me, and now they constantly ask me. There may be 60 people nearby, but they will come to me first. How to repel beggars.
The less I go out, only when I have to, for example, the better I feel, I'm obviously a homemaker. Even when I only go to school / university / work and back, it's better for me than to wander outside. I even stopped staring and noticing people and gasping. But if I start going out as often as I've done in the last few years, I'm going to start blowing again. Is it so bad to be a homemaker?
Are you serious? He was going to commit suicide ... There are people who suffer from a disease expressed in nausea without noticing it and live their lives in peace, you are staring at braziers and grandmothers and you are angry, come on, Damian :)
You know, I like them too. But I'm 60 and I don't want anyone to like me. It's just that some people seem to be attracted to them. You don't care at all.
Your problem is that you are constantly rolling your eyes. And braziers, grandmothers and men don't like the way you drink them with your eyes, so they look bad. You blow them, no kidding.
Your opinion of people is downright "great." I wonder in the minds of these beggars, why did they think you were a good person .. Calling people Freaks, you make yourself so that the chicks do not stare at you. Walk without money where there are beggars so that they don't look at you, and on the streets where chicks pass, you can bring more money. If I were a woman, I wouldn't look at you with stuffed pockets. You had a very fucking character 2 years and 4 months ago. I hope you have changed a little. :-) I'm sorry about the qualifications, but once they have published your history with the qualification - Freaks, then it may not be such a problem.
I don't know if you are still reading the topic, but here only a person like me can help you, who goes through this path, is treated and has success. The only thing that will help you is called "Coaxil". Good luck, if you are interested, ask for more info.
from what you have written I understand that you are not at all aware of this life. You get mad very quickly ... Gypsies, grandmothers stare at everyone and beggars stick to everyone ... they are beggars! for "chicks" is another topic, for a chick it doesn't matter how you look in a photo on a dating site. When meeting two people, your self-esteem is also important for the attraction ... how deep it is. What matters is the posture, the gait ... And it doesn't matter who looks at you, but how you look. It seems to me that you are very obsessed and even start to convince yourself of things that are not true. Not so much influenced by passers-by .. you can meet all sorts of people in this world who will bring their views, tastes, moods .. You can not judge yourself by their reactions, and because you can not be sure what they really think about you. You attach yourself to the superficial, there is much more behind it, but you have to be bolder and more observant, prudent to notice it. So the important thing for you is to have your own opinion about yourself. And in order to get one, you have to try and pay a lot of attention to it. One piece of advice that helps is to write down your thoughts, to think about yourself regularly. What are you striving for, what do you lack to reach it, write it down, talk to yourself about everything so that you get to know each other and your self-confidence does not come from a few comments about your photos on a dating site, but is real, stable and yours .. Also, talking freely about your problems is a good start, do not hide, so you move away from reality. Be honest and brave and accept your shortcomings, because in order not to be shortcomings, you have to accept them as a start .... then explore and understand them. All this, of course, in words sometimes sounds like a bean job. But for it to happen, it requires patience, perseverance, reasoning and authenticity, it requires you to meet reality, it requires you to discover a little deeper truth.
The problem is neither in your appearance nor in people. Rather, you suggest. Believe me, people have much more important things to think about than staring at you! So you seem to be developing a mania. This is not good because it can get worse. Take action before the problem becomes serious.
If they stare, you stare back
After 8 years it is better, but I am depressed. Only in 2013 I was fine because I drank Deanxit.