Hello, everyone. I am writing not to give me any advice, but simply to share it with someone. I don't have any "serious" problem like "my boyfriend dumped me", I just got a lot of it recently and I feel like I'm going to explode from the inside. I am 14 and this year I was admitted to the Mathematical High School in Plovdiv. But now that the school year has begun, we are overburdened. the system and the way of learning is completely different from the one I studied with before and I still can't communicate and get used to the new. Apart from the fact that the material became complicated from the very beginning and comes to me a lot. The other is that I have been in a bad relationship with ours for a long time. No matter how hard I try to avoid quarrels and quarrels in us, they always find something (no matter how insignificant) to scold me for .. I haven't slept for several nights because of such stories .. One day before we started school, my mother was so angry that she even opened the door for me and most seriously told me to leave us and not come back ... I didn't go out, but that's not the question. And why did we quarrel Because I didn't know what I was going to do the next day at the opening of the new school year. In such cases, I wish I had someone by my side. Not a friend or relative, but a closer person to share with (you understood me, I meant my boy) .. Here, this raises the other problem .. I want it! But he obviously doesn't want me ... I haven't had a friend for a long time (about 1 year already), simply because I hadn't found someone different from the others. But now it's not like that .. I've been in love with him for several months .. I'm not saying I love him, I just need him to be close to me .. Apparently he doesn't need me and that makes me more or less sick .. Even ("one of my melancholy days, when I stood with my head in my hands and wondered if I should go outside, and in the end I stayed in the same position") I wrote a poem .. A little sentimental and cliché but .. :) About cover on top of that for a while now some flu has been raging and at the moment I can't move from the pain. I did not sleep for several nights due to pain and fever. All this is not who knows what, but just when they give me things like that, and I don't have a close person with whom to share them (as I emphasized above) and I have the feeling that I will explode from the inside ... Thanks in advance to those who read all this. best regards- Slyn4o (: ) I wrote a poem .. A little sentimental and cliché but .. :) To top it all off, for some time now some flu has been raging and at the moment I can't move from the pain. I did not sleep for several nights due to pain and fever. All this is not who knows what, but just when they give me things like that, and I don't have a close person with whom to share them (as I emphasized above) and I have the feeling that I will explode from the inside ... Thanks in advance to those who read all this. best regards- Slyn4o (: ) I wrote a poem .. A little sentimental and cliché but .. :) To top it all off, for some time now some flu has been raging and at the moment I can't move from the pain. I did not sleep for several nights due to pain and fever. All this is not who knows what, but just when they give me things like that, and I don't have a close person with whom to share them (as I emphasized above) and I have the feeling that I will explode from the inside ... Thanks in advance to those who read all this. best regards- Slyn4o (: and I don't have a close person to share them with (as I emphasized above) and I have the feeling that I will explode from the inside ... Thanks in advance to those who read all this. best regards- Slyn4o (: and I don't have a close person to share them with (as I emphasized above) and I have the feeling that I will explode from the inside ... Thanks in advance to those who read all this. best regards- Slyn4o (:
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Hello. First of all, congratulations on entering the math high school as a person who graduated a few years ago and still sees the benefits of it. Second - do not give up. Life is hard. I know it's a cliché, but it's true. But I will give you different advice - do not try to please everyone and everyone, this will make you the worst. The material at school is not so nasty, and besides, the first year you will study hard in a language (whether English, German or French), and the other subjects are less like classes and are not so difficult. If you really have problems in some areas or teachers, write, we will push one shoulder;) And if sometimes your mother tells you to go out and not come back, get up and go out. Go to a friend, have coffee with someone and turn off your phone. Even with the police finding you, from now on your mother will measure her words and be more careful. And lastly for the boys - there are many. If he doesn't like you - there are enough who would pay attention to a smart girl. Just go out more :) Come on and make it more fun, half the mood is in your mood. Greetings, Mite
Hi, be strong, everyone has had such a period, it has happened to me that I want to throw everything to hell, but alas, I have no other choice. You have to continue with the training, from personal experience I tell you that the first 3 months are the most difficult in a new school, you should not give up; -) !!! Look for the parents, everyone argues with them :-D even for not significant things as he said, not everything can be perfect, unfortunately. As for the boy, show that you are interested in him, because if he is shy he will never talk to you. I wish you all the best.
"Явно на него аз не му трябвам и от това малко или много ми става гадно.. Даже ("един от моите меланхолични дни, в който стоях подпряла глава с ръце и се чудех дали да изляза навън, а в крайна сметка си останах на същото положение") ме написах стихотворение.." Здравей, Слънчо, Тази история толкова много ми напомня на мен самата, когато аз бях на 14 живота ме шамароса с няколко шамари и бях в именно такова положение. Боледувах често, изпадах в нервна криза, плачех ...това сякаш са си нещата от живота, нещата от пубертета. Не можеш да кажеш, обаче, че не трябваш на някого, просто защото той не ти обръща достатъчно внимание. Глупавото е, че ти по този начин си се самонадъхваш, че никому не си нужна, а това естествено не е така. Относно момчето, мисля, че трябва да започнеш като приятел, подходи като такава, като добра приятелка, това винаги действа. Разучи го, разпитвай го, споделяй му. И един ден, ако той не се усмели, му кажи за чувствата си. Не го приемай толкова драматично всичко това, вдигни глава нагоре и смело продължи. Нали няма да се оставиш на една болест?! Btw аз в момента също съм грипозна, хашлици, болки... но се налага да ходя и на училище и нямам право на почивка. :) Но на всичко това се свиква, миличка, изправи главичката и се усмихни, живота не е толкова "гаден", колкото си мислиш. Ако искаш да споделиш с някого, аз винаги съм насреща [email protected]
Oh my God, what awaits me!
To № 4: are you a mother with a small child? ^^
To № 5: Yes, I have a small child! And when I see what problems teenagers have, I just get angry, I don't want to grow up, but I can't :) And I just wonder if when he gets up at this age he will find the strength to share with me? Or will she trust other people who can let her down?
By № 6 - I'm № 5. When I get to this age I will share with you, but for a while. Dakota, you don't start criticizing her for how she dresses, how she behaves, who she communicates with, what kind of guys she gets close to, etc. When that happens, she'll just say, "She doesn't understand me, there's no point in sharing anything." it was with her because she immediately started criticizing me "and she will just stop sharing with you and you will only be talking. :) According to personal observations with 90% of teenagers in our time it is so. But it still depends on the child and the parents. :) Greetings - stephane :)
Thanks :) But first let it grow and if I need your advice I know where to find you! ;)
It's just a period and everyone goes through it. And overcoming it will make you stronger! Don't take everything so seriously.
Sunny, talk to your parents and tell them that they are burdening you with their behavior. If they have personal problems, you don't need to be their airbag ... When they opened the door for you, you had to go out to startle them. I also applied this year, but I went to the German one in Burgas, because I run away from mathematics like a devil from incense, but it doesn't matter ... well done, why did you get into such a good teacher. Sometimes the guardians don't understand us (not to sound ridiculous, but I don't know how to express myself) I've been so beaten up by life that I'm no longer impressed by the behavior of ours, and in particular that of my father, but to talk to yours, tell them how you feel, but I don't think they will reflect you, I'm sorry to tell you ... but still try..I fell asleep Gray
Hello, I know that your life is difficult in the situation you are in, but hold on, I read everything you wrote. At such moments I fell out and I know what it is but then everything will be fine, believe me. It will be difficult and nasty for you. Just hang out and have a little more. In the morning, when you get up, say to yourself, "Everything will fall into place." Regarding this boy who mentioned that you have no one around you, invite him to go out in a friendly way and tell him everything. If he is a good boy, a piece of advice from me will understand you: do something new, put an end to bad shows and start clean if you want someone to share with, tell yourself your Skype and remember that everything will fall into place sooner or later