I Gave Up Love

   You gave up love another time. You're not, you're just fooling yourself. I tell you this because I am too. And I can't pretend to have a girlfriend, and that's been a few years. And I'm neither a simpleton nor a drunkard, I'm not Brad Pitt, but I'm not a freak and I even try to keep fit and go to the gym, and buy new clothes is not like walking like a rag, but no effect. I recently liked a girl. I say hello she's spinning the other way. I have a friend, he knows a lot of girls. Yesterday he said to one: -Ooooo, where are you going, you ugly, dumb, useless frog? - She smiles at him and rejoices. I have an acquaintance. I thought we were friends, but she doesn't know what she wants from me. He called me recently to borrow money. I gave it to her. Then he called me to tell me that he was going to go out and he asked me if I was going to go out, but I shouted: -I will come. Then it follows: -But it has no place with us. So why are you calling me then? I don't want anything from her. Just to be friends, and she's acting super dumb. He tells me: -Let's have coffee. Then when she calls, she tells me she can't. I don't even have girlfriends among the girls, not something serious. Abe tragedy. Regarding what you wrote about Facebook: If I send an invitation to a girl - no effect. My brother has a track bike. Suzuki black and red - a terrible machine. Seeing what kind of girls there are in the list of friends is not true. They even write to him and make him ride them on the bike. And honestly, he's not a good man, but ... Then when she calls, she tells me she can't. I don't even have girlfriends among the girls, not something serious. Abe tragedy. Regarding what you wrote about Facebook: If I send an invitation to a girl - no effect. My brother has a track bike. Suzuki black and red - a terrible machine. Seeing what kind of girls there are in the list of friends is not true. They even write to him and make him ride them on the bike. And honestly, he's not a good man, but ... Then when she calls, she tells me she can't. I don't even have girlfriends among the girls, not something serious. Abe tragedy. Regarding what you wrote about Facebook: If I send an invitation to a girl - no effect. My brother has a track bike. Suzuki black and red - a terrible machine. Seeing what kind of girls there are in the list of friends is not true. They even write to him and make him ride them on the bike. And honestly, he's not a good man, but ...

   "I didn't like any of the photos on Facebook" He lost me as a listener. Bad

   Oh, as long as she leaves herself to bad thoughts. Live, do good to people and sooner or later love will come.

   Don't give up, you will surely love and be loved one day. Be confident, ambitious, believe in yourself and in the good in you and you will see that it will happen. :)

   On the contrary, number 1 I know my psyche very well and I know very well what self-deception is and what it is not. They even write to him and make him ride them on a motorcycle. And honestly he's not a good man, but ... ***************** Another argument in my favor Bad I haven't driven anyone by force, but my thought is that if a woman does not like you as an appearance at first, it has no chance to bother to like you internally.

   I'm like you too. I'm not interested in love and honestly I don't understand it ... what is "love" at all? I'd better be alone. But who knows, maybe the right person for me will find me or we will find each other, just as I try to be alone :)

   Dude, don't despair like that :) give me the face and here we will all like the photos together :) Head up :)

   When a person is in love with some and thinks that no one else will ever replace him, but it is not! Everything with your time !!!

   Don't give up on love ... don't stop looking for a friend. Because many decent boys give up, most of the girls go with garbage that only takes advantage of them and doesn't appreciate them. Surely someone dreams of meeting someone like you. Find her and make her happy ... I wish you from the bottom of my heart that your next love is shared and that you make her happy. Success!

   And I surrendered. There is nothing left of my heart anymore, so I already have a lot to offer to want .... there is only sadness in me already ... A lonely girl of 21

   Honestly, my heart is so hurt and crippled that I can't feel love even if I want to. I'm afraid to love because I don't want to be hurt again - it would destroy me. Sometimes I wish I wasn't so gentle and sensitive, that I was like the other boys, but I clearly realize that even if I looked like Brad Pitt, I would never lie to a girl that I love her to sleep with her. Even when I was 15 (for those who don't know, this is the age when boys are most shaken by the hormone)) I wasn't looking for sex, I was looking for love. After entering the university I started looking for a girl who looked like my last love, but I didn't find it - alas. No one has her features, her smile no one is as timid and insecure as she was. Number 10 I understand you very well as well as number 6. The author

   1 to 11 Why do you have a timid and insecure woman? Sorry dude, but some complexes are shaking you. n. n. I know we are not here to attack, but no one has been timid or insecure. Come on, tighten up a little!

   Author, I'm commenting 10 - and that's what I was looking for. In general, I am as you describe your ex - timid, insecure and sad. Apparently that's why I'm alone, if I were someone arrogant, arrogant and like 90 out of 100 of the rest of my age I would have someone by my side. True, he wouldn't be as real as you probably are, but that's life. I don't know where you are from, I'm from Sofia and I can tell you that what they say: "In the big city you have the opportunity to meet someone, there are more people, more opportunities" is absolute nonsense. I have always lived here and yet I have always been INVISIBLE ... I wish I knew you. Even purely friendly, it would enrich my life at least a little ....

   Unfortunately, the moderators do not allow the exchange of personal data, the only thing I can say about myself is that I am from Vidin, but I am currently studying in Blagoevgrad. And I'm 19. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for appreciating me for being real, I don't know about me, but I hope things will fall into place with you and you will meet love in life. And finally to number 12 (I apologize to the moderators for spam) what kind of women I am attracted to is entirely my job. I do not have to follow the stereotypes of society.

   And I decided to do so, I did not believe that there are so many men who have suffered so much from love.

   Children, enjoy life, smile - even if it is difficult for you, smile at the sun, in the morning, at your colleagues, at the time spent with them and after lectures at coffee, at the cinema, no matter where - most of them they are important, they are very busy and do not go out with their colleagues, but run to sit in front of the computer. This is not a social life. This does not create contacts and do not canonize a person as a saint - there are many good and valuable people on the streets, but as one girl above says, they are not noticed. Contacts in smaller cities are easier to create, and in large ones we are much more closed and non-contact. You get up, go to work, give lectures, finish - go through the store and close. So, find a hobby and other activity, do not stay alone - go out, do not get depressed alone and for someone who does not deserve you!

   To the author - I understand you very well, unfortunately .... I am 25 years old and I still can't say that I have experienced shared love .... I have always perceived myself as a normal person, trying not to underestimate myself, but now my self-confidence is falling directed downwards. Thoughts enter my head that I almost repel and disgust women. I want to give up this love too, because I haven't had a real relationship ....

   Well come on, mods! Take on the role of matchmakers, please! Allow the boy to publish his email so that the girl 10/13 can contact him ... Just look, you have done some nice magic for Christmas! Men, go!

   This has nothing to do with social contacts number 18, you don't seem to have read what I wrote.

   Why do I think that a boy who complains that he did not like the photos on Facebook is complex. These acquaintances on the sites and on Facebook are very simple. You may think I'm conservative, but I believe these things still happen on the streets today. When I got to the Facebook sentence, I decided to have a long coffee so I wouldn't fall asleep. ;-) Boy, boy, you have a lot to learn, women have to lie to you .. And you did not realize that the clothes and photos do not apply to the female mind. Put some towels in your pockets for the next photo, but let the pockets swell, and then you will see how many greetings and invitations you will have on the wall. You will not be afraid, the important thing is not to hand in the towels that you will betray. Come on success from me.

   I don't know, I'm experiencing the same thing now ... after I believed in love, I realized how transient it is. And I even have a tattoo of the girl I loved. But it's all just for the moment,, just for the moment,, she thought, and I didn't ... that was the reason she stopped something no one would ever know about. I will still continue ..

   Hey, there's not as much movie commentary as 22. Sorry dude, but it doesn't matter what you believe in, the important thing is how things are. And women can't lie to me because I've given up on love and I won't look at a woman in my life (unless she's one of those paid girls). I will never trust a woman again and I will never say to anyone: I love you. I don't know why you all have this kind of thinking as if we are in line and number 2 is the same as number 1, number 3 is equal to number 2. Why do you think I think like Ivan or Dragan or Stoyan or X or Y for example.? Why do you think I will live my life like them?

   You can't command your heart, understand it, young friend !!! One day you will meet a girl and the cycle will repeat itself. What is this pain and force that will make you give up love. Number 1 is right - you just think you've given up, but you're not. Think about the fact that there are more women in the world than men, and precisely because you have given up a woman, one day there will be no home, family and children! How would you feel if you fell in love and the person from the meeting told you: "I gave up love". Go to a psychologist, talk to him, talk to a friend who will give you guidance. There is no point in giving up. Is that how you want to live your life - going to a prostitute and ending up as a lonely old man? !!

   I wrote it down after all - my heart was so hurt and crippled that even if I wanted to, I couldn't love. Even if I wanted to, I couldn't believe that anyone would love me. What's more, I see in every woman a man who would hurt me, fuck me, and make fun of my feelings. not to mention that the last one I invited for coffee didn't even respond to my message. If no one has looked at me so far, then surely no one will look at me in the future. Anyone who has not been in my position to be constantly rejected and suffer so cruelly from unrequited love will find it difficult to understand why I do not want to suffer again. My friends keep repeating clichés like: Don't worry, everything has fallen into place, life is in front of you at 19, too young to despair. And I don't see how the psychologist will help me - he will make me more beautiful and attractive to women, or he will teach me how to make someone fall in love with me in words. Just for me, any hope that someone would love me the way I died and love is a forgotten story (no matter how painful this decision was for me)

   Hi, I guess you are the author and I am your last comment? If so, I want to ask you to read again what you wrote: "Even if I wanted to, I can't believe that someone would love me ..." - yes, but did you at least try ... out of curiosity. Did you invite a girl for coffee? did you make minimal effort? or do you just complain and roar like a small child? "What's more - I see in every woman a man who would hurt me, fuck me and make fun of my feelings ..." - Hey, if you continue to believe it, I guarantee you will always get it! I'm sure that when you approach a girl, it's not with a feeling of love ... no, you're looking for and picking and digging, "where will it hurt me, what will it make fun of me ..." right? So what normal woman would want to deal with you? answer yourself ... Unrequited love is something terrible ... yes, it's awful ... and now imagine shared love, you live, everything is wonderful and at one point your partner rests ... and? Which do you think is worse? I hate narcissistic people, and you whine rather than tighten up and see how you can change your life completely. It's simple for me: google, write unrequited love and read as much material as you want. Don't think I'm attacking you, on the contrary I'm trying to help you with another point of view! And I tell you again, read your last comment ... several times! Success! An go to google, write unrequited love and read as much material as you want. Don't think I'm attacking you, on the contrary I'm trying to help you with another point of view! And I tell you again, read your last comment ... several times! Success! An go to google, write unrequited love and read as much material as you want. Don't think I'm attacking you, on the contrary I'm trying to help you with another point of view! And I tell you again, read your last comment ... several times! Success! An

   I will share something from the experience of a 36-year-old woman. At 19, you're really too young for such thoughts. But ... there is something else. Men with thoughts like yours get too obsessed with it. They start looking for a potential partner in every woman, and women feel it. They really hate a man who tries on everyone. They feel despair and run away from it. The result is a vicious circle from which only you can emerge first. You need to work on yourself to boost your self-confidence and greater self-confidence. This is what would attract at most one woman to one man - a man who has dignity. Wait for them to invite you, don't intrude. Even if you refuse - it is not fatal. You will provoke interest and you will be invited again. Inaccessibility is a very good quality. Male, whoever pulls at me at first can drive me crazy and make me look for him and want him. A man who throws himself on my neck from the first step would rather push me away. That is, dear boy. I hope I helped with something. I was like you at your age until I realized all this and changed. Dignity and self-confidence - and half of the women are at your feet. I never looked bad, on the contrary, but I was still unlucky until I discovered that my mistake was in my behavior, not in my appearance. Then they liked and wanted me a lot and I had long relationships and admirers, but I was no longer the same person .... Good luck and don't give up :) Dignity and self-confidence - and half of the women are at your feet. I never looked bad, on the contrary, but I was still unlucky until I discovered that my mistake was in my behavior, not in my appearance. Then they liked and wanted me a lot and I had long relationships and admirers, but I was no longer the same person .... Good luck and don't give up :) Dignity and self-confidence - and half of the women are at your feet. I never looked bad, on the contrary, but I was still unlucky until I discovered that my mistake was in my behavior, not in my appearance. Then they liked and wanted me a lot and I had long relationships and admirers, but I was no longer the same person .... Good luck and don't give up :)

   26, you have made amazing conclusions! The dead do not drink Coca-Cola, so if you drink you will become immortal! Come to her senses a little! Don't you respect yourself - no one else will respect you.

   I am much older than you children - I am a 39-year-old man, with a wife, children ... and everything is as it should be. At the time I felt like you, I gave up love, I thought about the meaning and meaninglessness of life. Now, from the perspective of time and years, I rejoice and love you. Why? Because insecurity in life, timid and hasty attempts to grab everything in life is typical of youth. You mean, like, what does this uncle understand? !! Has he experienced the torments of unrequited love? Has he experienced the horror of infidelity? !! Has he understood the cynicism of modern, dynamic and unjust life! Ah, children! Oh yes, I've been through all this! And much more! But that's not what I want to tell you! I am happy for all of you because you are intelligent, young, sensitive, educated children! Crystal children! I'm glad you write competently, without striking mistakes, with punctuation, you express your thoughts well and you know how to convey your emotion to the one who reads you! The future belongs to you! Do not be afraid of momentary failures! Do not despair that your feelings have not yet been shared! Life is ahead of you! But be reasonable, when the chance comes before you (and it will inevitably come to you) do not overeat with life! Drink from life with moderation and pleasure! As for love, what I have learned is that there are passengers for every train! Otherwise, would there be trains? And when, years later, each of you achieves what you have dreamed of, even more times, please think about the time when you were young and wanted to achieve what you have already achieved! I sincerely wish you success to all, young ladies and gentlemen! Let (I want to say - 'Let the power be with you!' ) each of you achieves what you have the audacity to do! Success! PS Bray, that's high!

   He and I are gradually giving up love. I am also normal and decent, but the girls only accept me as a friend. You are from ours, the author-conscious ones. Girls only want oligophrenics, but they don't want to admit it, or worse, they don't know what they want.

   31 I will tell you that if you give up, do not do it for me. And in case you don't give up, look for a woman-person, and don't throw yourself at the first one who smiled at you. And watch it for at least a year and finally make sure it's over 21 because under that age most don't know what they want and go around the chalgoteks. Number 30, thank you for appreciating the way I have expressed my opinion. Number 28 you wrote one of the most adequate comments and yet a few explanations from me They start looking for a potential partner in every woman, and women feel it *********** Quite the opposite. After the last girl I was in love with (and from 9th to 12th grade I didn't look at another because of her) broke my heart, I decided to invite another former classmate for coffee. I also wrote on Facebook, but she didn't even bother to answer me. And from then on I came to the conclusion, that no one would look at me. When I entered the university, none of my colleagues caught my attention, nor any of the girls from my training. Only here I will ask you to make an additional clarification. Wait for them to invite you, do not force yourself. To invite me for what? Number 27, you don't know me, and if you don't know me, your comment is full of inaccuracies about me. For example: - yes, but did you at least try ... out of curiosity. Did you invite a girl for coffee? did you make minimal effort? or do you just complain and roar like a small child? To try, to make more than a minimum effort, to invite for coffee and I was refused. If you were in my position, you would be desperate. I'm sure that when you approach a girl, she doesn't have a feeling of love ... nooo you look for and pick and dig, "where will it hurt me, what will it make fun of me ..

   I also gave up love years ago, I generally have other activities, something like a hobby that I have focused on and for 3-4 years I haven't even dated a girl, I go to work in the evening when I get home I do something in the car, like I specialize in Car Audio in general, I am currently 23 almost 24 years old and the work with love is bad, I don't know what it will be like when I turned 30 but it will certainly not be better, in general I have accepted that I will be alone and I'm not trying to try anymore so as not to expose myself, I hope everything will be fine with you, my friend

   Hi, I'm 27 again :) did they turn down your coffee invitation? how many times? 1-2 ... 100 times? which way exactly did you give up! Come on, show us that your situation is really desperate! Let me tell you exactly from the position of a man who knows you or from these men like you .. you see I'm not picky on you .. but, there is something repulsive in despair, in the insecure man too ... I have refused such men! It's rude, yes, but the problem is in yourself. Do you understand me? I'm glad that my words "burned" you, but are you trying to analyze yourself a little ... to see where you're wrong? Or are you, like everyone else, to blame? The site is full of such stories, they are still not in love, but do they wonder "What did I give to deserve love, attention ..." The people said it best: Help yourself, God help you! Did you search for an author on Google? An.

   Author, I'm number 31. First, like everyone who has just entered puberty, I used to like all kinds of girls, I still didn't have a taste. Whatever it is, it must be beautiful. But over time, I gradually acquired a taste for women, and gradually realized what I wanted, set requirements, etc. But now (it has always been so) I have such requirements that it is difficult to find such a girl. BUT, there is a girl with whom we are very good friends, I like her very much-she meets my requirements, and they are: -Does not wear makeup -She is not a super beauty (everyone has a beautiful woman, so I prefer pretty girls, as she is) -Does not smoke -Can cook-Conscious and oriented in life, is not an oligophrenic, chalgarka, etc. Has a taste in other words. Well, just her ... she's the only girl I've ever really REALLY liked and wanted to meet her More. But, when I started to tilt the conversation to an invitation to a meeting, she felt it immediately and told me that she had to clean (we chatted on Skype) and told me that she would be back on the line in a while. I waited for 2 hours, she logged in to Skype again, I wrote to her, but she never wrote to me. This conversation of ours remained unfinished. But we study in different cities already and it just doesn't make sense. But she is the first girl I really liked and I wanted to get closer to her. I think because we are very good friends and that's why I liked her so much. Until now I have not met a girl like her ... But now I liked another girl (colleague) at first glance she is kind of calm ... I don't know, when I entered class, I saw her and I liked her. She looks like a normal and decent girl to me. I'm not very communicative or rather the reason is that I'm very shy, but I sincerely hope we become good friends and get to know her. True, I don't have a very attractive body, but at least I know what I want out of life, I don't throw myself at any girl because I want a serious relationship, not just a sex relationship. And I have requirements ... and I hope that I will be able to join my new group, that I will start from the 2nd semester this year ... If I don't register, I don't know ... I will never know this ( you have to have an action and think about that action;) running for example, walks, etc. A Boy of 20 years. I don't throw myself at any girl because I want a serious relationship, not just a sex relationship. And I have requirements ... and I hope that I will be able to join my new group, that I will start from the 2nd semester this year ... If I don't register, I don't know ... I will never know this ( you have to have an action and think about that action;) running for example, walks, etc. A Boy of 20 years. I don't throw myself at any girl because I want a serious relationship, not just a sex relationship. And I have requirements ... and I hope that I will be able to join my new group, that I will start from the 2nd semester this year ... If I don't register, I don't know ... I will never know this ( you have to have an action and think about that action;) running for example, walks, etc. A Boy of 20 years.

   Not Anne nowadays, masochism is to blame, and it's fashionable to sprinkle ashes on your head and blame yourself. From what you have written, I understand that if most women are like you, no matter how painful it is, I have made the right decision. And let me ask you women what you gave to deserve love - so far I have seen nothing but super-self-confidence. And this repulses me - as I wrote above I like timid and insecure girls. I've never invited a woman like you and I never will. And all your men were to blame for everything. No, I don't understand you and I can't understand you. And now explain the contradiction - they refuse me because you see I was desperate, but I can't help but be desperate after they refuse me.

   Hello :) I refuse to help you :), you are not looking for help, you are whining. Sorry if anyone wants to try to help you. He didn't even answer my questions, he didn't think for a moment ... instead he flooded me with new ones. :) So I don't think I'll answer them for you. In fact, your last post is full of contradictions ... read it again. And yet success! An.

   36 I do not know what advice to give you really, you better judge.

   First, you can't help me, Anne. You came and started making accusations against someone you didn't know and didn't know how the situation turned out. You wanted me to agree with everything you said and sprinkle ashes on my head. I'm sorry, but this is an elementary method of manipulating the opponent. Besides, you are extremely biased - the man was always to blame, and the women were holy water. I'm sorry, but I am a person with dignity and self-respect and there is no other way to react to what you have written. Not to mention that even if you had the desire to help, you chose the wrong words. And as I said above, it only cemented my decision to give up love. Thank you for killing the fragile hope that had begun to arise in me due to the advice of the lady from comment 28.

   Anne's comment is full of illogical things to say the least. What about the question, for example: "What did I give to deserve love, attention ..." Well, what is given to get love and attention - of course, love and attention. This is so logical. Another example - in order for the author to be desperate, it is logical that they cut him off after inviting the girls for coffee, and accordingly he cannot help but be desperate since no one wants to be with him. And obviously the situation is really desperate for a person when he has stopped looking for love. And then what would you give the author? !! The man is right that you are not able to help him because you come here and show self-confidence to heaven as if you know everything about the relationships between people.

   Dude, don't despair! Know that girls like vulnerable and sensitive boys like you. Maybe she's around you, you just didn't notice her.

   Well, I really want to find her, but every day I lose more and more hope. But none of the girls around me like people like me, unfortunately the author

   Look at the author, I think you made the right decision. As long as there are prostitutes you will not be dissatisfied. Nowadays, love does not exist - there are relationships that in theory are love, but in practice they are not. And look at the comments of some of the "ladies" - see how confident they are and how they think that men should like them. Well, I ask if this is what you want - to pray and humiliate yourself in front of a woman in order to win love and she will finally cut you off because you see you didn't have enough self-confidence.

   Ehh, let's just say I've written it, I'm in a situation like that right now, but I can't give it up ... she likes another boy, and I'm in pain. And it is my first love and I hope it is not the last but when I look at where things are going ... :( I want to do the same but I just can't: ((((

   A very old topic, full of complex liglevtsi, who can't stand women with self-confidence, because give them when they don't have them and no one else will. My right is Anne, even though she wrote a long time ago. The grumbling author invited a girl for coffee and she refused, and the world ended and she didn't give a word to be told, as if only he was right and no one had the right to disagree with him. Author, and the other complexed boys around you, at 19 you still don't know what love is, but even if you give it up - no one needs lickers and grumblers, give up and give way to those who deserve love, instead of waving your complexes under the noses of people that and even be proud of them. Well that's from me. Dare Devil

   I'm glad for one thing, Dare Devil - that you didn't call me a complex face in the face because then I would have served at least 20 years. And the fact that I'm sick of cocky women with overconfidence like Anne - I don't owe them in the end.

   Enroll in the Army ahha you will be paid well

   Me too. All my love was unshared. I no longer want such deep feelings. In my life, love was an illusion in which I always suffered. I no longer allow myself to fall in love.

   Number 52 I don't know if you're a man or a woman, but I understand you well. And I swore never to love again because I got tired of being hurt and repulsed without deserving it. The author.

   Hello author, because I see that there is still comment on this topic, I also want to pour out my grief that every day I roar for 2-3 hours, and what for that no boy could give me a drop of love and I was struggling to please them ... I thought he would go with someone but alas he won't .... I haven't given up I'm still waiting for the boy to hug me when I come home from school to tell me how much he loves me ... to enjoy one on another ex dreams dreams ....

   In my opinion, one cannot give up love, it will come one day without even asking him if he has sought and wanted it or not. And I'm in a difficult time right now ... I'm a woman to say first ... I claim to be good and loyal to people who deserve it. A few months ago I met a man who thought of my soulmate, everything was fine, but we haven't seen each other in two weeks. I was angry about something and I think rightly and for him it was a good time to give up on me. He didn't want to see me anymore, it didn't make sense if I did. And he behaved like the most in love person in the world. I haven't eaten, I haven't slept since ... I'm just ruined. Then tell me, men, how to deal well with the next one that comes into my life, when I don't want to experience something like this a second time. I don't even know if I will recover ...

   There is no such thing as love, find out ... There is always one who loves more in a relationship ... Either he is a SWAGER ligle or some hook ... There is no such thing as love .. scientists have proven that this is a temporary feeling that after a while disappears .. I will give an example with my relationship- I tear my ass for it, it sucks to give me a lev for a ticket ... Such are all the girl and women nowadays, only now the evil poop I beg them not to go to they attack me, they attack me for the simple reason that I'm right;] It's not make-up, it's not stupid, but since 1989 everything is wrong ....