SHE was my best friend. We grew up together, we've known each other for ages, since we were little kids. We shared everything to the last bite and crumbs. It was a real friendship strong and timeless. You were the family I never had! HE was the best thing that ever happened in my life. He was my dream come true, the most precious thing in life. Without air and water I could, without him I could not. I wanted to live with you and die with you. We had plans, dreams. She wanted me to be a mother to your children one day. He wanted you to kill me so I wouldn't be anyone else. You were my first, you will be my last! I never want anyone else, I never will. I do not want anything. I have nothing without you, and I am nothing. THEY met together behind my back. THEY lied to me for months. I trusted them. I loved them. For THEM, I was ready to go through the 9 rounds of ADA and I would fight against anyone who dared to stand against them. My dearest beings. Only in my heart. I UNDERSTOOD. The pain was deadly. I lost everything for a moment. Everything I've fought for over the years. I did my best. All my feelings were in YOU. YOU were part of me and I of YOU. I held on and tried to be strong. The humiliation was inhuman. HE behaves like a coward. SHE told me they were together and asked me how I was feeling. HE told me that I was an amazing person and friend because I stood behind them again when they needed me and their love and to be together depended on just one of my actions. I did it! I did what you wanted me to do. And now please be happy so I know at least why I won't be. I will suffer and it will hurt to the grave. There is no time to heal my wounds. YOU have been my whole life. I gave you my blessing, be happy! F 24g.
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Do not dramatize unnecessarily, you will meet another. Do not go to extremes, this brings only suffering!
Very nasty; heal, you will see, but separate from them - they do not deserve to be congratulated !!
Believe me, it is pointless to behave like a sacrificial and wise mother ... These two will quickly get fed up with each other, because that is their essence, but do not try to understand them at all, nor forgive - just delete them. Do not make them feel sorry for you, because in the last regret there is always disgust and resentment: ((They have no right to see you like that. One day you will realize that close beings you can call your beloved children and husband, and at the thought of these you two will just run an icy shiver down your back. There will be a period when you will feel sick. But the most important thing is not to draw conclusions about the rotten nature of people in general. Yes, most can be weak, fickle and not very smart, but the man created for you is from the others, he is like you.
Don't worry, the situation is not as black as it seems. This man and this "girlfriend" of yours obviously don't deserve you. Judge people by their deeds, not by their words. I've had a lot of girlfriends who told me the same high-sounding stories and then did the exact opposite. You just haven't judged people right, but it happens to all of us. 7-8 years ago I also experienced a very heavy love, although from the very beginning I told myself that I should not fall in love at all. Anyway, my feelings were stronger and I finally gave up. However, the girl in question soon became pregnant and married, and I was completely crushed. I was constantly thinking about her, dreaming about her, imagining that I was with her, etc. It took me maybe 3 years to overcome her. I'm 29 now, and the more I look back, the more I think it wasn't necessary. You are only 24, your life has just begun. You want it, you don't want it, it will pass, but you don't have to spend years like me. Now you probably can't believe it, but in time you will see how right I was !!!
Unpleasant situation, definitely ... but I think you feel sorry for yourself unnecessarily. Well, while I was reading your story, I had the feeling that you were 40-50 years old - '' There is no time to heal my wounds. YOU have been my whole life. '' Don't expose yourself, you're only 24! Don't waste your good years in torment until these people care. Take it as a bitter but useful experience. Over the years, I became convinced that true friendship is more of a mirage for me. So many "girlfriends" have stabbed me in the back that I have already suffered. Girls for coffee or to hang out and talk are there, but to trust her completely, to share everything with someone and to blindly believe that she is as devoted to our friendship as I am - no, thank you. Look, it sucks to build a friendship for years, to go to hell, but do not regret for a moment. For the so-called a man, even less. I had a 6 year relationship that ended very ugly and I was broken. I fell asleep and woke up with tears because "no one else will be able to let myself in and how can I trust a man again." Well, after 2 years I met a great man, with whom I am insanely happy and calm. Not to mention that long before that I had shaken off the emotions and the experience. No, I have not forgotten, just as you will not forget. But it will be terribly unfortunate for yourself to live in captivity to the mistakes and betrayals of others. She gave them her blessing ... that who are they ?! Give it a bucket. It all depends on you. Go out, have fun, meet people and you will see very quickly that your world is not turned only by the traitors in question. I had a 6 year relationship that ended very ugly and I was broken. I fell asleep and woke up with tears because "no one else will be able to let myself in and how can I trust a man again." Well, after 2 years I met a great man, with whom I am insanely happy and calm. Not to mention that long before that I had shaken off the emotions and the experience. No, I have not forgotten, just as you will not forget. But it will be terribly unfortunate for yourself to live in captivity to the mistakes and betrayals of others. She gave them her blessing ... that who are they ?! Give it a bucket. It all depends on you. Go out, have fun, meet people and you will see very quickly that your world is not turned only by the traitors in question. I had a 6 year relationship that ended very ugly and I was broken. I fell asleep and woke up with tears because "no one else will be able to let myself in and how can I trust a man again." Well, after 2 years I met a great man, with whom I am insanely happy and calm. Not to mention that long before that I had shaken off the emotions and the experience. No, I have not forgotten, just as you will not forget. But it will be terribly unfortunate for yourself to live in the captivity of other people's mistakes and betrayal. She gave them her blessing ... that who are they ?! Give it a bucket. It all depends on you. Go out, have fun, meet people and you will see very quickly that your world is not turned only by the traitors in question. "I will not be able to admit anyone else to myself and how I will be able to trust a man again." Well, after 2 years I met a great man, with whom I am insanely happy and calm. Not to mention that long before that I had shaken off the emotions and the experience. No, I have not forgotten, just as you will not forget. But it will be terribly unfortunate for yourself to live in the captivity of other people's mistakes and betrayal. She gave them her blessing ... that who are they ?! Give it a bucket. It all depends on you. Go out, have fun, meet people and you will see very quickly that your world is not turned only by the traitors in question. "I will not be able to admit anyone else to myself and how I will be able to trust a man again." Well, after 2 years I met a great man, with whom I am insanely happy and calm. Not to mention that long before that I had shaken off the emotions and the experience. No, I have not forgotten, just as you will not forget. But it will be terribly unfortunate for yourself to live in the captivity of other people's mistakes and betrayal. She gave them her blessing ... that who are they ?! Give it a bucket. It all depends on you. Go out, have fun, meet people and you will see very quickly that your world is not turned only by the traitors in question. that long before that I had shaken off my emotions and experiences. No, I have not forgotten, just as you will not forget. But it will be terribly unfortunate for yourself to live in captivity to the mistakes and betrayals of others. She gave them her blessing ... that who are they ?! Give it a bucket. It all depends on you. Go out, have fun, meet people and you will see very quickly that your world is not turned only by the traitors in question. that long before that I had shaken off my emotions and experiences. No, I have not forgotten, just as you will not forget. But it will be terribly unfortunate for yourself to live in captivity to the mistakes and betrayals of others. She gave them her blessing ... that who are they ?! Give it a bucket. It all depends on you. Go out, have fun, meet people and you will see very quickly that your world is not turned only by the traitors in question.