Hello! I want to thank in advance everyone who will give me some advice. I have a friend with whom we live together, he hurt me several times, I caught him in lies and you can say infidelity. I love him and I know that he loves me too, but he behaves very strangely, I have talked to him many times about the things I miss, I do not want to cheat on him. I gave my friend one last chance to try to change. A friend of my boyfriend introduced us to a man who is a car mechanic. I went many times to fix my car and so I went out with him word for word, we went for a walk, I'm happy we have a lot in common with him. I'm worried that it won't be understood that we went out, I'm confused, I want to be with my boyfriend, but I also want to see my master. I get what my friend doesn't give me.
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Sooner or later this relationship will end. If you have already found someone with whom you are better, then you don't quite love your friend, the relationship has broken, you no longer trust him, you kind of betrayed him as he betrayed you. sooner or later you will find out about these meetings with the current one, if you do not stop them NOW. I went through this and to tell you if there is infidelity, it means that this relationship does not count, and even more that it has been understood. If your friend does not give you what you need, then he is not the man for you ..... first because you have already cheated on him, and he is on you.
From the author. The master and I have gone out only once as friends, in my opinion this is not infidelity.
I fully support the opinion of number 1. I also think it's better for things to end because you won't be happy with your boyfriend and sooner or later you'll realize it's not what you need. Better a poor horse than no horse at all. So, my dear, think carefully, if you have any feelings for the master, is it worth continuing with this one ... and finally getting entangled in thoughts. I don't blame you simply because the male-female relationship is very complicated ... SUCCESS!
RUN do not think, ONCE YOU MORE FROM NOW YOU HAVE ANY PROBLEMS KAKVO expect in the future, love and respect SHOULD BE HAND IN HAND, HE LOVES YOU, BUT look at other, the day will come when you will stop loving you and then IT WILL BE LATE FOR YOU.
I want to advise you to stay with your master because he still surrounds you with love and if you are happy with him, you better stay with him and your friend dumps him, and even if you catch him in infidelity it is not worth staying with him even though you love him because such love is not love !!!
You have found your master for me :) Understand me in the full and figurative sense of the word! I don't want to tell you what to do, but your current friend is selfish ...: “
Drop it and go out with the master.
And do you even know what you want?
I would ask the same question as that of №8. First he cheated on you and after all the conversations you gave him a second chance. Well, imagine that he has taken matters into his own hands and will not cheat on you anymore. And right now you are cheating on him. I use the word "infidelity" because once you go out, the meeting will be repeated and shaken, and so on until you get to bed, and finally the "master" can dump you ..... and then what? Stay with your friend and go to the master only when you need him.
Don't let them crush you once you become a rag, throw it away. Good luck.
GO TO THE MASTER! :) I'm 32 and years ago, like you, I was faced with the same dilemma and I stayed, but now I'm sorry, because then I always thought it would change, but alas, it's getting worse, believe me. Now I think more and more about the other and how I would feel with him, but it's too late. We are both married, but not happy.
Why should he stop his meetings immediately? So her boyfriend can go where he wants, do whatever he wants, but she must respect morals ?! What nonsense? Go out with a guy when you like him and obviously when the man next to you doesn't give you what you need and lose it ... Believe me, one love is not enough for a relationship. It is based on understanding, attention, compromises, trust above all ... Why is he breaking you and you will be sitting at home waiting for him to whine that he wants to see you ?! Take matters into your own hands and seek your happiness elsewhere!
So men break up, it's just for sex, not infidelity ?! And when the girl drank coffee with the master, this is infidelity ?! And for how long with this dual morality? Darling, my advice is not to continue a relationship with a person who has shaken you once, whether infidelity has been proven or not, your trust is already fading. It is a shame not to give a chance to the new person, but to fight to maintain an already cooling fire.
From the author. I want to thank everyone who advised me. And at 9 - my friend has not changed because a few days ago he started receiving esm from a woman who work together, I even caught him talking to her about things that are not related to work.
Make a threesome with the two and choose which one is better for you.