Here is my story ... I am a young woman in love with my partner, and he is five years older than me. Anyway, I'm writing to ask you for advice on what to do. I give my best for him love, pampering, money, gifts in general everything he asked for. We live up and down on family principles, which I am happy about, but I want something more from him, I want a family, and he seems to be far from that thought. He constantly thinks about disco gatherings and I go with him just not to do something like he's alone there. I had a convenient time and checked his profile and what to see he was writing to a friend of his friend, and she is still a paw. And the worst thing is that I am forbidden to write with his friends and communicate with any men at all. He stopped paying attention to me like a woman and I can't understand why,
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He doesn't want to have sex, does he?
Author, you did not write your exact age, but most likely the person (and you) is not ready for a family. Do not dare to force not only yourself on him, but also to get pregnant and force marriage on him! Have a little self-esteem at least. Learn to live as a single young woman first. The mere fact that someone can forbid you to do this or that over the age of 18 is enough. Understand that you are an adult and you can make your own choices. One of them could leave the person in question, but I do not believe that in another relationship you will be happy, because most of the problems are rooted in your behavior. It is not enough to catch the eye as a woman, which you yourself have noticed. If you are under 25, no one is planning a family with you. It's just that nowadays a woman is expected to get an education, to work first. Your friend is also young, he wants to live. Isn't he entitled to that? I don't think you have the right to dig through his profiles, and if he wrote as a friend to a girl, why should he bother you? Write to yourself and your acquaintances and friends, it's not bad. Most of all, learn to fill your time, to go out, to have hobbies, interests, to be an interesting woman, to have topics of conversation. Read a lot, be interested, because I tell you again - just in the 21st century it is not enough to be a wife and have children. Men also want to have an exotic mistress, an interesting interlocutor, a single woman next to them. She would simply frighten any man with her demands and attention. You suffocate the man in the relationship and that's one of the reasons he tries not to go home. Why do you think you are ready for a mother and wife when you are not able to cope with your own life? Isn't he entitled to that? I don't think you have the right to dig through his profiles, and if he wrote as a friend to a girl, why should he bother you? Write to yourself and your acquaintances and friends, it's not bad. Most of all, learn to fill your time, to go out, to have hobbies, interests, to be an interesting woman, to have topics of conversation. Read a lot, be interested, because I tell you again - just in the 21st century it is not enough to be a wife and have children. Men also want to have an exotic mistress, an interesting interlocutor, a single woman next to them. She would simply frighten any man with her demands and attention. You suffocate the man in the relationship and that's one of the reasons he tries not to go home. Why do you think you are ready for a mother and wife when you are not able to cope with your own life? Isn't he entitled to that? I don't think you have the right to dig through his profiles, and if he wrote as a friend to a girl, why should he bother you? Write to yourself and your acquaintances and friends, it's not bad. Most of all, learn to fill your time, to go out, to have hobbies, interests, to be an interesting woman, to have topics of conversation. Read a lot, be interested, because I tell you again - just in the 21st century it is not enough to be a wife and have children. Men also want to have an exotic mistress, an interesting interlocutor, a single woman next to them. She would simply frighten any man with her demands and attention. You suffocate the man in the relationship and that's one of the reasons he tries not to go home. Why do you think you are ready for a mother and wife when you are not able to cope with your own life? that you have the right to dig through his profiles, and if he wrote as a friend to a girl, why should he bother you? Write to yourself and your acquaintances and friends, it's not bad. Above all, learn to fill your time, to go out, to have hobbies, interests, to be an interesting woman, to have topics of conversation. Read a lot, be interested, because I tell you again - just in the 21st century it is not enough to be a wife and have children. Men also want to have an exotic mistress, an interesting interlocutor, a single woman next to them. She would simply frighten any man with her demands and attention. You suffocate the man in the relationship and that's one of the reasons he tries not to go home. Why do you think you are ready for a mother and wife when you are not able to cope with your own life? that you have the right to dig through his profiles, and if he wrote as a friend to a girl, why should he bother you? Write to yourself and your acquaintances and friends, it's not bad. Most of all, learn to fill your time, to go out, to have hobbies, interests, to be an interesting woman, to have topics of conversation. Read a lot, be interested, because I tell you again - just in the 21st century it is not enough to be a wife and have children. Men also want to have an exotic mistress, an interesting interlocutor, a single woman next to them. She would simply frighten any man with her demands and attention. You suffocate the man in the relationship and that's one of the reasons he tries not to go home. Why do you think you are ready for a mother and wife when you are not able to cope with your own life? why should it bother you? Write to yourself and your acquaintances and friends, it's not bad. Most of all, learn to fill your time, to go out, to have hobbies, interests, to be an interesting woman, to have topics of conversation. Read a lot, be interested, because I tell you again - just in the 21st century it is not enough to be a wife and have children. Men also want to have an exotic mistress, an interesting interlocutor, a single woman next to them. She would simply frighten any man with her demands and attention. You suffocate the man in the relationship and that's one of the reasons he tries not to go home. Why do you think you are ready for a mother and wife when you are not able to cope with your own life? why should it bother you? Write to yourself and your acquaintances and friends, it's not bad. Most of all, learn to fill your time, to go out, to have hobbies, interests, to be an interesting woman, to have topics of conversation. Read a lot, be interested, because I tell you again - just in the 21st century it is not enough to be a wife and have children. Men also want to have an exotic mistress, an interesting interlocutor, a single woman next to them. She would simply frighten any man with her demands and attention. You suffocate the man in the relationship and that's one of the reasons he tries not to go home. Why do you think you are ready for a mother and wife when you are not able to cope with your own life? to have conversation topics. Read a lot, be interested, because I tell you again - just in the 21st century it is not enough to be a wife and have children. Men also want to have an exotic mistress, an interesting interlocutor, a single woman next to them. She would simply frighten any man with her demands and attention. You suffocate the man in the relationship and that's one of the reasons he tries not to go home. Why do you think you are ready for a mother and wife when you are unable to cope with your own life? to have conversation topics. Read a lot, be interested, because I tell you again - just in the 21st century it is not enough to be a wife and have children. Men also want to have an exotic mistress, an interesting interlocutor, a single woman next to them. She would simply frighten any man with her demands and attention. You suffocate the man in the relationship and that's one of the reasons he tries not to go home. Why do you think you are ready for a mother and wife when you are not able to cope with your own life? You suffocate the man in the relationship and that's one of the reasons he tries not to go home. Why do you think you are ready for a mother and wife when you are not able to cope with your own life? You suffocate the man in the relationship and that's one of the reasons he tries not to go home. Why do you think you are ready for a mother and wife when you are unable to cope with your own life?
Because I'm 32 and he's 37, I don't think I'm in a hurry, we have successful careers and I consider myself well prepared financially, why not have a family, I think that at 32 for a woman is good
I don't think he's been there yet. Stop paying attention to him and you as a man, it has been seen.
Author, true - you are not small, but you forget that a family is built by two. You can't impose family responsibilities on such a person, it will only get worse. Leave with dignity. If he was 25, you could expect him to develop, but at 32, you're really ready for family life, and your watch is ticking. Don't look at your boyfriend, he can create children and a family as a man at the age of 50, while you have the next 8 years at best n. 2 immature woman under 23)
Well, for starters, correct your spelling (surely some will croak here that I'm picky, but it betrays much more than it seems at first glance). It is inadmissible for a woman of 32 to claim to have such a spelling - this betrays an insufficient intellectual level and hence many other related things. Free help: ---------------- up and down the family I started (but you wrote it both right and wrong- let's assume it's typo) Please But the MOST ANXIOUS is that someone PROHIBITS a 32-year-old woman from communicating with men and she seems to accept it as normal (well, she just finds it a little unfair, because this someone has been communicating with women, not for anything else !!!)! SHOCK! As they wrote above - after coming of age you should know your rights (and defend them) and your obligations. But, as they said above - it doesn't look like it was written from the age of 32 ... (I told you, that this spelling is NOT accidental, at least I'm picky! ). Purely and simply be clear to yourself - what are your priorities, and then extremely clear to him. After this clear communication, the decision will appear to you.
No, you are not in the beginning of any youth! You are an old, petrified girl with a young body and appearance. You know? !! It is good to live with respect and indulgence. If you're 50. But it's so sad to see a young man living like a 50-year-old. Can you blame the boy for living and you're grumbling and having a baby? !! Can you blame him for not paying attention to you, even though you follow him like a padar? !! That about the discos, not to be left alone, just broke me. And what - instead of having fun and having fun, you sit on the chair and stand with binoculars in hand, so as not to lose sight of it. Oh my God! And she was in the prime of her youth. : Х
M24 You'll excuse me, but at 37, going to discos is, to put it mildly, a funny thing to do. Everyone relaxes as he wants and I have no right to qualify your husband, but as my name suggests, my desire has passed. Go with him, because I know such "uncles", counting freshmen. Again, I'm not talking specifically, but the masses are like that. If he doesn't want a family at this age, I don't know if he will. It's not like he's old, but 37 is a settled age. And the fact that it forbids you what you are, I will not even comment on it. What property do you own? For what money did he buy you to forbid you? He can, and you can't. But there is a joke - you are to blame. You took it like that and you put up with it. Sorry if I offend you. Just as men who indulge in everything, women become boring to you and you break them, so it is safe with him. You give him everything ready, and it is easy to get used to the good. I hope you get along with him. Good luck.