People, I'm ashamed. I can't share it with anyone. That's why I'm writing this. I am 33 years old, she is 32. With two children, four and two years old. I don't lack female attention, not at all. I play sports, I look good, I am kind and polite. But I still don't hit a woman we can match, so I'm single at the moment. My colleague and I have been working together for five months. I can't even say she's beautiful. There is another kilo on top. But she has beautiful eyes, she is always smiling and she is a wonderful person. We became very close to her, at first only as friends. We talked a lot, I shared personal things with her, as she shared with me. It turned out that she loved to dance when she was a young cheerleader. I invited her to a salsa party. Even the plan was to go with her and her husband, to be company. However, the grandmother became ill, so she finally left him to look after the children and came alone. We danced all night, drank and kissed. So ... we ended up at home. But she called a taxi after sex. We met in the office the next morning and it was awkward. Shortly afterwards, we talked about it being a mistake and that we would just be friends. She told me that she had never cheated before, loved her husband, cared for her family and did not want anything like that. I explained to her that I respected her decision, that I didn't want to cause any problems. Yes, but ... emotion is emotion. Well, a few days later I went, I told her that I wanted her very much and after work we went to our house again. I can't look in the mirror out of shame. I am a child of divorced parents. And I don't want to contribute even indirectly to something like that. Honestly, I don't know if I would take her with her two children, although it's not impossible. But what can I do, just when he smiles at me, something trembles inside me.
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You're one of those little men. He didn't want to ruin families, but he thinks if you see he can't stand it ... If you're a man on the spot, you won't allow such cracks at all. As a male putran, you will scribble stories in shares, looking for advice. Now is the time to ask yourself ... will you be a man's pussy forever? Brother.
Well, no, take her with two children and then watch seir, to see how other people's children are looked after. Like you, I fucked a married colleague with two small children, and we still fucked at home, because I'm single, and it's safer than going to hotels. Supposedly for the last time, but there is no stopping. Neither I promised to accept her and look after her children, nor did she ask me. To this day, they do not understand how her husband understood. We assume that a colleague saw us and chatted. Her husband came to my house, we had just gotten hot. Call the fire, open it and not to describe .. She did not go home for three days, and I stand and roar. She and I didn't go to work, we took sick leave. I felt completely helpless. A very difficult divorce followed, one child stayed with her, the other with her husband. She is not from Sofia, she had to move out. Abe horror. I tried to help her, but it is no longer the same. In front of me was an insecure and frightened woman whose sex was her last concern. I had saved BGN 5,000, which I gave them. I quit my job and we just got along each other on the way, Brother, you will hardly come to your senses, there will be no stopping, you will fuck her until her husband finds out, and then if you hold on you will watch her and her children, and whether she will wants to give birth to you too, this is a separate issue.
Look dude, I'm a woman and I tell you so-where there was sex, no friendship, it's veiling and fantasy. Personally, I ended such a farce that day - I loved one man, he was not engaged, I was not, we have known each other for years, he never chose me and yet after we were together, he again chose another. It's always been that way over the years - we meet and separate because he always wanted another woman. Well, I put an end to it because he was behind the proforma that he just wanted to be a friend. There are no such things - you want to be with another - ok, go to her, but I do not give friendship. Be honest with yourself and let the woman go to the family. I know, it's kind of sick, but it's worth it, good luck
Believe me, these are very dangerous games and in the end they are all unhappy. My advice is to change your job. Otherwise, things will not stop there. No woman who truly loves her husband cheats on him unless she is drunk as a pickaxe, which is pure rape. Very soon the lady, under the influence of hormones, of course, will imagine that you are the man of her life, that she also has the right to happiness and other nonsense, and will hang around your neck equal to the children's league.
Listen, dear, how are you not ashamed at all or it is very difficult to keep the zipper on your pants closed. A divorced woman with two children writes to you because of a mold like you. And not that I'm not to blame, I have more, and it's because I didn't judge what Plasmodium is and I didn't end the relationship. Now listen to me carefully, or you're dating this woman, or you're leaving her right now and quitting your job. Don't play with the fate of an eregen, don't play with the lives of two children and a stupid woman. As a man, you have to be the stronger side and take into account the situation, because sooner or later you will come back to know. Do you know what will happen if her husband learns and goes to divorce? Have you seen the blank stare of children without a father? And how you imagine you were a pickle, that you will look after other people's children? Or maybe you want her to give birth to yours? A man like you had posted a topic years ago, "Don't deal with a married woman." He explained to us how years later he saw her and looked in a terrible state and why, because immediately after the divorce he and her husband abandoned her, and she was left alone with two children. It is written to you by a woman who has walked this path and has remained completely deceived, because in an extramarital relationship two people are responsible, both the lover and the mistress. And believe me, no matter how many tears she sheds and explains to her husband that she was wrong, he will not believe her. Most politely, please leave the woman if you do not love her and do not have the strength to accept her with the children and live together. I expect masculine behavior from you! He explained to us how years later he saw her and looked in a terrible state and why, because immediately after the divorce he and her husband abandoned her, and she was left alone with two children. It is written to you by a woman who has walked this path and has remained completely deceived, because in an extramarital relationship two people are responsible, both the lover and the mistress. And believe me, no matter how many tears she sheds and explains to her husband that she was wrong, he will not believe her. Most politely, please leave the woman if you do not love her and do not have the strength to accept her with the children and live together. I expect masculine behavior from you! He explained to us how years later he saw her and looked in a terrible state and why, because immediately after the divorce he and her husband abandoned her, and she was left alone with two children. It is written to you by a woman who has walked this path and has remained completely deceived, because in an extramarital relationship two people are responsible, both the lover and the mistress. And believe me, no matter how many tears she sheds and explains to her husband that she was wrong, he will not believe her. Most politely, please leave the woman if you do not love her and do not have the strength to accept her with the children and live together. I expect masculine behavior from you! And believe me, no matter how many tears she sheds and explains to her husband that she was wrong, he will not believe her. Most politely, please leave the woman if you do not love her and do not have the strength to accept her with the children and live together. I expect masculine behavior from you! And believe me, no matter how many tears she sheds and explains to her husband that she was wrong, he will not believe her. Most politely, please leave the woman if you do not love her and do not have the strength to accept her with the children and live together. I expect masculine behavior from you!
Stop messing around there, it's none of your business and don't spoil other people's families. The women are done ... what nonsense do you think to take her with her children and alas. Leave the woman finds, scratching her scabies elsewhere.
Stop falling in love, it's just a thrill now and it will be easier for you to say STOP. And she after the first time what she told you hahaha, she loved her husband, and you slept with you for the second time, such lower beings don't deserve to see X * for life
That's why in the workplace such things do not. There is no future, stop.
She has you for a sex toy. You've slept with her twice and you think a man will dump everything. You don't contribute anything - you're a short-lived pastime for a woman with a husband and children. The other is a movie in your head.
All the same story, only the characters / heroines change. After a long search, everyone finally finds understanding and love in the workplace - a convenient combination of pleasant and useful. Married women are always in love with their wonderful husbands, good mothers and cheat for the first (but not the last time). And after they are knocked out, some dramas, some mental sufferings begin. Better Turkish TV series. You, author, are in the same pattern. At the age of 33, you should have at least a little intelligence and will, not to get involved with married children. Now you have two options - if you do not want to continue - you change jobs, cut off all contact with the lover and think about your own family and children, instead of messing with others. If you haven't learned anything from your childhood with divorced parents and you only think with your head down, keep mumbling until her husband catches you. There he will decide, but most likely Madame Igrachova with tears, remorse and promises will beg for forgiveness and will stay with the family. And you will be in the starting position again, only one more. Let's hope with a life lesson. The choice is yours - here we cannot decide for you. Personally, I think you will choose the second option, no matter how ashamed you are and no matter how much you love your family. It's just that if you had enough self-esteem, common sense and dignity, you wouldn't start a relationship. I wish I was wrong, but I hardly saw such "office loves", "friendships" and "friendships", including at home. And this with friendship, forget it. Such supposedly friendly relations are only an occasion for subsequent bed performances. repentance and promises he will beg for forgiveness and stay with the family. And you will be in the starting position again, only one more. Let's hope with a life lesson. The choice is yours - here we cannot decide for you. Personally, I think you will choose the second option, no matter how ashamed you are and no matter how much you love your family. It's just that if you had enough self-esteem, common sense and dignity, you wouldn't start a relationship. I wish I was wrong, but I hardly saw such "office loves", "friendships" and "friendships", including at home. And this with friendship, forget it. Such supposedly friendly relations are only an occasion for subsequent bed performances. repentance and promises he will beg for forgiveness and stay with the family. And you will be in the starting position again, only one more. Let's hope with a life lesson. The choice is yours - here we cannot decide for you. Personally, I think you will choose the second option, no matter how ashamed you are and no matter how much you love your family. It's just that if you had enough self-esteem, common sense and dignity, you wouldn't start a relationship. I wish I was wrong, but I hardly saw such "office loves", "friendships" and "friendships", including at home. And this with friendship, forget it. Such supposedly friendly relations are only an occasion for subsequent bed performances. that you will choose the second option, no matter how ashamed you are and no matter how much the person in question loves his family. It's just that if you had enough self-esteem, common sense and dignity, you wouldn't start a relationship. I wish I was wrong, but I hardly saw such "office loves", "friendships" and "friendships", including at home. And this with friendship, forget it. Such supposedly friendly relations are only an occasion for subsequent bed performances. that you will choose the second option, no matter how ashamed you are and no matter how much the person in question loves his family. It's just that if you had enough self-esteem, common sense and dignity, you wouldn't start a relationship. I wish I was wrong, but I hardly saw such "office loves", "friendships" and "friendships", including at home. And this with friendship, forget it. Such supposedly friendly relations are only an occasion for subsequent bed performances.
If you see the shortcomings in it, namely "a kilo on top", then nothing is fatal, you will pass. The man in love does not see the shortcomings of the other, he is blinded. It's a temporary thrill, it's just stupid that you work in one place. You have to watch yourself all the time and you will be embarrassed. ~~ Uncle Parichko
Don't deal with this. Those who choose security over emotion deserve to live without it for the rest of their lives. As if they weren't for each other, she thought.
It smells like an urgent job change. The only way to forget it is fast.
What can I tell you, she is doing very badly to her husband. You are free, but she has a responsibility to the family. She is unstable. Think if you get together if she will not cheat on you one day. Stop while it's time.
Brother, hit yourself with a check that you're going to get into shit. Fuck that friendship thing. As long as you see each other, you will either fuck, or at least that will be in your head and you will be bullied. You will take over your job and her family. Won't it weigh on your conscience to watch your children degrade because you didn't keep your cock in your pants? And what you see was right, but she fucked with you and for the first time such a thing happened, to tell my grandmother. Do you expect her to admit that she's a whore? Don't do nonsense, but find a decent and free woman. Leave this job where you will look after the children. Neither will they shave you for a plum, nor will you enjoy watching them. It's not like watching a dog. He wants a serious commitment and resources. I can't believe it doesn't bother you at some point. I have one of my children and it's hard, but I do not accept it that way, because it is mine and I would give my life for it. But to look at strangers, or two, fuck this job.
№5, take it slower and calmer. You are not divorced "because of a mold", but you are divorced because of your mind. -two scoundrels hide like rats and fuck like animals-what responsibility do you look for from such people? Don't try to make us cry with the blank stare of your children-no one will think of them, unfortunately, you are their mother to think about them before you take off your pants. Finally, let me tell you that you have a very wrong idea about "male behavior" - to take a crack and look after the children - I do not see what male is in it. Please, dear moderators, let me comment -After you've played far rougher.
Dude, they fed you well here, let me just ask you, do you even know what you're getting yourself into with the sentence "I'd take her with her kids"? Do you have any idea what it's like to look after 2 small children, to whom, among other things, you will be Mr. Nobody? Do you know what kind of fair it is? Sex will be the last thing you think of after all the daily worries and responsibilities. Even if you try to take responsibility for your new family in the beginning, you will sober up and lose weight very quickly. You better follow the advice of others, lift your pants and disappear from the work and life of your former colleague.
Up to 18. And is it masculine behavior to lie that you love a woman - your mistress? Or the woman is presumably guilty in both her marital and extramarital affairs.
I read and I can't believe it. Did the free women run out to catch up with their married colleague? Work on your complexes as soon as you stick to this option.
# 20, and I notice a tendency to always blame the woman. She cheated - blood, she was cheated - she could not choose her men. But when we talk about infidelity, for me personally, the infidel always bears the greatest guilt. Whatever the lovers, they did not sit down to rape anyone. And when you're in a relationship, it's not anyone's fault that you can't or don't want to walk with your head on your shoulders. Otherwise, you're right that it's not masculine to lie, to love someone, or to say things you can't do. For you, these are just words, but someone's life changes forever. That's why if you decide to divorce, you have to do it for yourself and because your relationship no longer satisfies you, not because you rely on someone to wait for you and save you. And that requires a lot of courage. But you can't count, that someone else will have more courage and valor to fulfill his words, especially when things get rough and he realizes what responsibility he has taken on. Most just choose to run away like mice.
Change jobs. Do not share with colleagues and you and she. These things start to show no matter how much you hide. Tell everyone, you shine your work because you want development. It's the same with your friends. In times of mutual friendships even virtual everyone will understand. She and her two young children are looking for something different and fresh.
Author, pay attention to one more thing. There is a sick person in the family. And what does the lady do? She leaves her husband to deal with her mother and both children and goes to ... a salsa party, to dance, to kiss and to fuck. Doesn't that tell you anything, man? What normal woman do you think would do that? And then - you loved your family very much. Well, if you love your man, isn't it right to be by his side when you have a real problem, and not to hang out with colleagues at parties? There is something here that smells. I imagine my mother getting sick and my husband saying he can't help me because he's going to dance with a colleague, so if I like not to bother him with nonsense. And then go home at night. Or the opposite. He needs my support because of a sick family member, and I need to pinch someone I know on a nature trip. This woman is lying to you, author. She doesn't have a good family, she's just looking for a host. You remember from biology lessons what a parasite is and what a host is. I suspect that the "ideal" family relationship is advertised to you only to make you more ambitious about it. Kind of starting to compete with her husband. Then she'll "admit" to you how unhappy she really is and how you're all she's ever dreamed of. From there, go buy a few pairs of slippers, because the whole katun will be transferred to your home. Kind of starting to compete with her husband. Then she'll "admit" to you how unhappy she really is and how you're all she's ever dreamed of. From there, go buy a few pairs of slippers, because the whole katun will be transferred to your home. Kind of starting to compete with her husband. Then she'll "admit" to you how unhappy she really is and how you're all she's ever dreamed of. From there, go buy a few pairs of slippers, because the whole katun will be transferred to your home.
to 20 If you do not want to be with a man there is no earthly force that will make you. Usually women look for words of love to justify their actions, or they make their own movie in their head. Even if they told you that they love you, how does it come about that you have to be with the other man, even if he takes responsibility for your decisions? He said he loves you, ok, but that's hardly enough for a relationship. If there was one, it means that you also participated in it, which in turn means that the responsibility is mutual. The world is full of bored wives who think they deserve something better, and when the song ends, they turn out to have it and have lost it themselves. Because it is normal for a man to look for sex, but a woman decides whether to give it. The moment you say yes, you participate equally in everything, and the responsibility is shared. The woman is guilty not by presumption, but as a consequence of actions and decisions made ...
Have fun and don't care! It's a thrill. The important thing is that everything is just for pleasure, without commitment. So many people are breaking, you are not the first, you are not the last. Fuck the moralists. Everyone lives their own life and carries the cross. You brought sex into the friendship, great, tomorrow you can only be friends again. The important thing is that the cuckold does not understand, and who knows where he boils his horns. Here, everyone, as if from the Holy Synod, let them explain to you how wrong you are. Calm down! Have fun, but no commitments for both. Let her turn her husband's stews, and yours ... And look for something young and without children, you won't just weave it in one loom! Good luck and calm down!
If you have a mind in your head, you will end this relationship, because if you continue and things get complicated, in the end everyone will be hurt, especially her children. If they are unhappy, she will be too and this will eventually create problems between the two of you. . I know that the forbidden fruit is sweeter, but it is so only in the beginning. Then it happens just like the others. Remember that it is not easy to look after other people's children! When you end this relationship, you will be naughty at first, but it is nothing compared to the pain that awaits you if she divorces and reunites. Try to stay just friends.
Sooner or later her husband will understand and he will break your head. Pachavrata will probably throw it away without blinking. He will take better care of and raise his children. You think about what you're going to do with this ... a. You will not be very well. I'm sure.
How do 200 people answer such nonsense, and when it comes to a real relationship between two people, there are no comments under the topic.
Well how 30 - as always. The mass of people are that. Otherwise, I am of the opinion of comment25.
You don't want to, but you don't refuse to contribute to her in bed, do you? You're on your way, my boy. Born and raised. Carpets pain, just the family stopped. If Bibita wants to ruin her family, her problem, you didn't have to help. You are now an accomplice, puzzled enough not to accept her in case of separation from her husband. You don't deserve to be called a man.
№20, I don't know if they lie to you, why do you believe? Every man will lie when he wants to fuck someone. Well, he can lie to you that you are Miss World, will you believe that too? Remember that, dear unfaithful ladies — I don't know how your lover feels about you, but one thing is for sure — he doesn't respect you. So how will you respect such a woman who, after blowing on you, goes home and kisses her children and the man with the same mouth? You cheat on a man like him and he knows it. And your hysteria and dissatisfaction with the law will not impress anyone. If it doesn't take you out, get out of there, who can stop you. YES, №26 he said it well - I will pass it on in my words - the man is trying, the woman is the one who decides whether things will happen or not. Therefore, there is no one to be angry with, only angry with yourself. And if you treat your husbands as your lovers, believe me, you just won't need lovers. From №18
# 33, it's all true, but you know it also applies to men who cheat? After all, he also goes home and kisses the woman and the children with that mouth where he licked the mistress's heel and heel. And to this mistress who doesn't respect her at all and is the biggest garbage, but otherwise she doesn't mind exchanging all her body fluids with her whole family. And doesn't it bother him to throw her in the home bed, where he otherwise goes to bed and hugs his wife and child every night? But yes, the woman respects and loves her very much, definitely. So, let's stop with your respect. Nobody goes to fuck for respect.
Ah, not 34, you're wrong ... there are those who fuck like crazy, but they also want to be respected.
Break immediately and move to another department, in other words, save your ass.
"He goes home and kisses the woman and the children with that mouth where he licked his mistress's heel and heel." Most men don't do that, no matter what porn tells you.
# 35, I repeat, the chatter is not done out of respect. Whether they expect to be respected * despite * is another matter. But I don't know what respect we can talk about from a man who goes to bed, by his own standards, with garbage unworthy of respect. Apparently he doesn't respect himself, because what you sleep with says a lot about you. But here again, we insist that instinct and respect are two very different things. Even when I look at the examples, it turns out that the less a man respects a woman, the more he wants to fuck her (in case she is beautiful, of course, but there are exceptions).
Dude, raise the pigeons while it's time, because if you know what's waiting for you with her, you're going to feel dizzy. Move to another job and run! In the new place, keep your cock in your pants and don't wave it at.
# 38, it's not porn that tells me, it's experience.
42, 38 told you very correctly. But this porn really brainwashed you. What normal man would lick a k. rva n. aunt, etc. fifth. In fact, how do I know - here and there you can find a moron. I really hope you're not one of them. But ... May ....
# 43, I'm a woman to begin with. It's nice that you believe that only porn does such things. I hope you don't have to understand what reality can be. Otherwise, at first I could not believe how impudent and boundless people can be compared to their halves. Then I saw that these were not isolated cases at all. If someone has set out to cheat, he will not limit himself. If he could, he wouldn't be in the same bed with another. And in this bed, believe me, the program is complete. As you start to stir in the honey, you will not just dip the tip of your finger.
The woman with two children is welcome to have a little adventure, but do you know how fast you will run away when you take her home and after the 3rd night you can't sleep and in the morning you smell of full diapers and not ground coffee ... as above I saw from the comments, run and let the woman find!
I am a man of 42! I have been happily divorced for 10 years, the relationship with the ex has improved significantly shortly after the divorce and at the moment we are friends, we are looking after our child and everyone has their own personal life - this little one, as an introduction I write it! During these 10 years I had two so to speak long relationships with married women, I did not look for him, I did not want him so it happened. One was a colleague, things got worse and I had to leave - the best decision I made in relation to this story! The other married woman was going to divorce and so for 3 and a half years of lying and hiding, all the energy wasted, she saved herself from the situation by finding a third man and finally divorced, but they continue to hide and lie as far as I know. After all, I didn't promise myself that I wouldn't deal with bound people, you can't order such things,
Abe and I ate such a stick years ago. In such situations, in the end, everyone is hurt and suffers, especially the children. Who wants to try something foreign, to drive the system - Fuck and run - but in no case at work. They have told people about it; Where you get your bread, don't get your cock!
Aren't there so many single women your age? 47 well told you that it is not good to make connections in the workplace, although 50% of divorces are for this reason. She quit her job and left it, I think. Don't ruin her family, although she will probably ruin it with someone else. I am 40 years old and I am also divorced for a reason much more serious than infidelity, but I would not tolerate that either. I wonder how some women can be such ducks that they ruin their family because of some thrill? Being a parent alone is not easy at all. I have been alone for five years now, it is not easy for me, but I have not died without a husband. I haven't met a suitable one yet, but I also know that it may not happen. 46, you made the right decision! Maybe, maybe you just have to impose it on yourself. :)
From the author: Good thing it's the anonymity of this site. Well ... we went deeper. At least twice a week, she and I take a "home office" and work ... from my apartment. You remember how much we work. I've thought about many of the things you've written. I told her we shouldn't do it. We even talked that even if she and her husband broke up, there was no guarantee. that things will work out between us if we become official. At least she said in words that she fully understood that she did not necessarily expect me to marry her if her marriage failed. She claims that her husband is a wonderful person, but she does not feel loved as a woman. He also told me that he loved me. Which is a little stressful for me. But I can't stop thinking about her. In the evenings, when we are not together, only she is in my head. We decided that one cannot command one's heart. We will experience what we have and time will tell what will happen - whether she will stay with her husband, whether she will reunite with me, whether each of us will take his own path. But we are not yet ready to turn our backs on love.