Hello, I have been in a relationship with a man for a year, we love each other and we are thinking of living together ... the problem is the following - his niece. she constantly comes to us to see young is the type of dumb muffins an egocentric league I can't stand it! I'm also selfish and I want it only for myself I don't want her to be present in the picture but to live her life away from us he had told me that he loved her more than me and I can't put up with that ... he told me that she was like a child to him and I told him that if I want a man with a child I will find ... give advice I want me to love me more than this rag what to do to get rid of her I hate her
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He complained to his mother. Alpha, w. 29 years old
You're really not well. To hate a child ... I hope your friend realizes it and leaves you, I don't think if one day you have your ... poor thing
Speaking of the child, I wonder who the rag is?
I hope he loses you :)
The only answer is sex, but even if you do not give up after sex, look for another
If you slap her, you can hardly do anything. She's probably a lot younger and juicier than you, so just forget it. If not - I recommend you leave his life. The man loves a child like a native, and you think about your own powdered anus, even before you live with him. You don't deserve it and you never will. Tolkoz.
You're just jealous of her. Calm down - they will never have sex, well, unless they are perverted. And the girl will grow up, will go somewhere to study, will find her environment and a cool friend, after a while she will not even think about her uncle, let alone come to talk to him. Start taking care of your appearance and you will see how you will feel better.
Children's nonsense.
I suggest you become a better person.
So far, there are 10 answers that I can't read because they haven't been published yet. I wonder if any opinion will coincide with mine. If it coincides - you, the author, draw your own conclusions. When you love a person, you love everything that is dear to him. You are looking for ways to his relatives, to his previous family - mother, father, sister, niece ... You make compromises, take care, reconcile quarrels, unite the family - this is the role of the woman. I also don't like this idiotic malice towards mothers-in-law that I come across in this forum. I have two marriages, and my husband's two mothers are close friends. Soon I personally organized a family dinner for the whole family, because my husband's brother became a father and we gathered to water the event. In my husband's line I have two brothers-in-law, two ethers, one nephew and one niece plus a stepdaughter. They are all my close people, we help each other, we love each other, we are together. This is the family, darling! If you want a family, get used to it!
The niece wants you to get angry and jealous and she achieves it. Don't get tied up. After all, he is a very close relative and his love for the two of you is terribly different. There is no basis for comparison, let alone anger. And if you continue to make scenes of jealousy of his own relatives, you will push him away and you will have to look for a "new man without a child."
Where are you rags ... It's like listening to Azis :) Why should the man's niece be a rag? What is your attitude to the girl? One does not choose one's relatives. She is like a child to him. Man has the right to love her and help her (even financially). Does that bother you, author? Competition for money? Balaka, he only has to spend money on you and only deal with you .... I don't know who the muffin and the rag are, but when I read the topic to you, I think that you are very close to these qualifications .... Maybe I'm wrong, I don't know you. Just ... your words, your words ...
So let's see now. I raised my brother. He was helping me with my daughter. I can say that it is as if he has a second father and an older brother. We are Family. One like you recently tried to scold my child. She came to visit my home hand in hand with my brother. Guess who the uncle stood up for. You are very stupid to know that. You are not up to the task of competing with family members. If you were on a level, you wouldn't actually be competing. Because family relationships are not about that. But you are just vicious and egocentric, no complicated thoughts pass through your mind. How can you guess my god ....
You have 2 options to either accept this position or drop it. I would suggest the 2nd.
I advise you the following: first stop hating, you achieve nothing with it. Love yourself more and constantly repeat to yourself that you are a woman in the prime of her life / you definitely lack self-confidence /. If necessary, change your hairstyle, make-up, clothes, weights, but look for your own style. Make friends with the girl - muffin, she is also a human being and has her fears / go out for coffee, to the market, to a disco only the two;) /. Try to influence his thinking, which is obviously superficial and irritating. Have more sex with your husband and have intimate weekends / some cheaper destination, far from the family /. Introduce the girl to someone suitable for her age. Good luck and head up!
Author, when a man tells you that he loves someone more than you, unless they are his own children, leave him immediately and look for a man for whom you will be his greatest love. And let your friend stay with his greatest love, whatever it is.
Being part of a relationship also includes accepting the loved one's relatives. No matter how nice you are. Besides, love itself is the opposite of selfishness. Do you really love this man when you want to separate him from the people he loves? Either you accept the situation, or you move on and look for someone who meets your requirements.
Hmm, I'm basically a feminist and I defend women, but so much malice, and again to that type of women - supported, beautiful, fresh, free, enslaved to nothing and no one. "Young dumb muffin", a typical killing of complexes by a typical dirty-looking maid. ;) a muffin with a trained body at 22, which the neighbors always look at with cruelly distorted faces;)