Spring has come, and I still have darkness. In half a year, my life has turned upside down and I will never be the same again. He changed me fundamentally. I share my time in this world before I meet it and after. I guess those of you who have experienced it will understand me. You feel that this is your man - you match for most things, you look in one direction and you know that together you would go very far. Well, I missed my hopes and dreams. He told me that he was not ready to commit and end. He stopped worrying. He broke my heart once. I had never felt more pitiful. Naturally, I try to seemingly retaliate with the same, but inside I break. I am not small and I understand that in these years the choices we make as a partner are realized. It hurts a lot because I know we are for each other. The worst was a month ago, when I learned that he was bound. And it turned out that he had a desire, but not with me. That was what I was most afraid of. I hate him because I know I lost him forever, even without hugging him once. I hate him for replacing me so easily with the other one I don't even want to see in front of my eyes. I hate him because my mind despises him, but my heart still loves him so strongly and burningly. Advise me how to overcome it already, because I lost too much time, or to try again, because I have the feeling that it is committed in spite of me. I feel that if I just give him a little signal, things will rise. Am I deluding myself? Help me, I really need a lot of support, even from strangers. that I lost him forever, even without embracing him once. I hate him for replacing me so easily with the other one I don't even want to see in front of my eyes. I hate him because my mind despises him, but my heart still loves him so strongly and burningly.
Advise me how to overcome it already, because I lost too much time, or to try again, because I have the feeling that it is committed in spite of me. I feel that if I just give him a little signal, things will rise. Am I deluding myself? Help me, I really need a lot of support, even from strangers. that I lost him forever, even without embracing him once. I hate him for replacing me so easily with the other one I don't even want to see in front of my eyes. I hate him because my mind despises him, but my heart still loves him so strongly and burningly. Advise me how to overcome it already, because I lost too much time, or to try again because I have the feeling that it is committed in spite of me. I feel that if I just give him a little signal, things will rise. Am I deluding myself? Help me, I really need a lot of support, even from strangers. Advise me how to overcome it already, because I lost too much time, or to try again because I have the feeling that it is committed in spite of me. I feel that if I just give him a little signal, things will rise. Am I deluding myself? Help me, I really need a lot of support, even from strangers. Advise me how to overcome it already, because I lost too much time, or to try again because I have the feeling that it is committed in spite of me. I feel that if I just give him a little signal, things will rise. Am I deluding myself? Help me, I really need a lot of support, even from strangers.
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I am a man and I am in the same situation. I understand you perfectly. I thought we were made for each other, but it didn't seem that way ... I hate and love her at the same time. She broke my heart into countless pieces, but I'm ready to replace everything I have for one of her smiles. The truth, however, is that I must forget it. Like me and you. Do not try to make other attempts, it will only get worse. You limit your contacts with him as much as possible and one sunny day the new love will break and you will totally forget it.
Wait now ... you don't say how old you are, or whether things between you were just platonic (because you mention that you broke up without even embracing him). So was there something between you or not, and if not - what claims can you have to it at all? You claim that in those years the choice of a partner was conscious, but on the other hand you say that your mind hates it and your heart loves it? Where is the conscious choice then? Is he not in this - the mind and the heart to speak the same? How did you know you were for each other? Does he ask him or is only your opinion important? Apparently, considering his actions, his answer to the question is: "No!". Do you think that you can force someone to love you? Do you think, that YOU YOURSELF can force yourself to love or not to love someone? People have FREE WILL - never forget it. Moreover - their free will does not necessarily coincide with yours, it is even a miracle if it coincides on some points.
I used to have a similar story. I was quite small, but despite everything I said to myself - he does not love me, he is happy with another point. I didn't hate him, I can't imagine hating anyone at all ... My thought is that you are moving forward, no one has made a commitment to make you happy or to love you. Such things do not happen by force.
I am the author. I am already very scared because he learned how I insulted him and what slanders I said. Common acquaintances say that he is very vindictive and if he decides to blacken someone's life, he drives to the bone. I just pray that he will leave me alone and forget me, because otherwise I will have many bitter days. Pray with me to have mercy. Oh, my God, I don't know what will happen to me anymore. I have a new "man" in my life, but I rather defend him, not him me. He is so clumsy and vulnerable that I am already ashamed. No serious person would look at him, but I went to church and was told that if I did good to someone, the evils of the first one might not overtake me. I decided to catch up with this clown, but nothing changes. But my heart refuseth to let him go: for unto him I am the achievement of the world. but did I deserve that - to be a trophy for some geek from Poduyane. Life is very unfair to some of us.