Hello! I want to share my story with the readers of the site. I am a regular visitor to the site and I want to share another life story from my personal life! I am 17 years old. I have a relationship with a 20-year-old boy. We have been together for 3 years. At the beginning of our relationship it was a teenage story, but I lost everything. He is a student I am in 11th grade. He studies in another city, but does not go very often. 3 years ago when it all started it was child's play. No one had any idea what he was doing. I was fascinated by him, he was not next to me at all. But then everything changed. I was 14 years old when we started a "relationship" for 3 years we are inseparable. He is my first and only to memento. A year ago. My feelings began to cool. I feel like I don't love him anymore, there's no thrill like before, I have no personal life. He is terribly jealous, I have no friends and I can't go out with anyone. I work as a waitress and singer in a restaurant. He is always dissatisfied when he goes to work, he constantly takes my phones and hangs out with me at work. All this is hellishly inconvenient, not only for me, but also for others. Until a few months ago, everything was down - up on rails, until the moment he started rude to me and reached out. Everything was getting out of control with each passing day. I didn't want to be with him, I told him many times, he didn't want to hear me and I came home with various bruises on me. This was becoming unbearable. He took exams. I hid from him, I didn't pick up the phone, I went to work almost every day. During this time I met a friend (with whom I had stopped seeing because of his jealousy) While my friend was gone, I started going out with him and it all got rough! I cheated on him, we cheated every day, for about 2 weeks! Every day! The new boy went to England on a brigade, he is a student of 23. At the moment we are constantly talking to him, he is ready for anything for me and wants the moment that comes if I have not terminated my relationship with my friend, he to end it with good or bad, because he himself saw the bruises on my body. He is currently in England for ... less than 2 months. He has to come on November 27. I want to end my relationship with my friend. I feel like married, like a prisoner, .. I don't know even worse !!! I don't care if my new friend will be with me after he returns to Bulgaria, even if I'm alone, I don't want to be with my old friend. It hurts me too much, I can't part with it, my mother can't do anything, and my brother and I are big friends! My father is gone. I feel terrible, with each passing day everything gets worse! Tell me what to do. He constantly threatens me that if I leave him he will make my life black and lurk for a relationship with someone and then we will both feel sorry for him! I don't want anyone to suffer for me, I would give anything just to be without him! Please help me! Tell me how to end this pointless relationship! How to stop this horror! I am still young and I want to see the beauty of life. Help me to be happy! Thank you in advance! and my brother and I have big friends! My father is gone. I feel terrible, with each passing day everything gets worse! Tell me what to do. He constantly threatens me that if I leave him he will make my life black and lurk for a relationship with someone and then we will both feel sorry for him! I don't want anyone to suffer for me, I would give anything just to be without him! Please help me! Tell me how to end this pointless relationship! How to stop this horror! I am still young and I want to see the beauty of life. Help me to be happy! Thank you in advance! and my brother and I have big friends! My father is gone. I feel terrible, with each passing day everything gets worse! Tell me what to do. He constantly threatens me that if I leave him he will make my life black and lurk for a relationship with someone and then we will both feel sorry for him! I don't want anyone to suffer for me, I would give anything just to be without him! Please help me! Tell me how to end this pointless relationship! How to stop this horror! I am still young and I want to see the beauty of life. Help me to be happy! Thank you in advance! I don't want anyone to suffer for me, I would give anything just to be without him! Please help me! Tell me how to end this pointless relationship! How to stop this horror! I am still young and I want to see the beauty of life. Help me to be happy! Thank you in advance! I don't want anyone to suffer for me, I would give anything just to be without him! Please help me! Tell me how to end this pointless relationship! How to stop this horror! I am still young and I want to see the beauty of life. Help me to be happy! Thank you in advance!
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Hello! I had the same story. I was also threatened and harassed in this way. but these are just words. tell him "END" and leave, if it's so complicated call the police. but in my opinion it only scares you not to leave it :) SUCCESS :)
Honey, you write illiterately .... horrible
I am a man. When he calls you, wants to talk to you or threatens you, just say absolutely nothing. Close the phone, etc. Let him speak alone. This will startle him and he will not dare to do anything even if he claims. Especially if, as a last resort, the police call him, but call there after you've been silent.
You have nothing to do with either.
Very illiterately written :(
offFFff but you are very bad, your girl wants advice, not to tell her how to write. You're very bad: X: X: X so you know from me that he won't do that. He only threatens you to be with him and I don't know why you attach yourself to his threats. Do you think that he loves you..why does he do that?!?! NO, he's just so used to you that he's got a sense of ownership, he has you for his property ... scold him and don't look at him anymore. (girl of 13)
Hi 6. People give advice to the girl, but she really needs to learn spelling. I see you know that. Take it and teach it. And you chick, do not be afraid of such threats. Draw one for him and he will be left with his mouth open.
Darling, why don't you threaten to go to the police if he continues. Get a medical for the bruises. Go to the police and with a final warning if he touches you, or talk to you even just file a lawsuit against him! Why do girls nowadays let someone abuse them - mentally and physically? Use all legal means. Just make sure that in case, God forbid, something happens to you and he is not guilty, he is a suspect! Where does this thing say that you are so desperate !!!! I'm telling you again - he took out a medical maltreatment - a complaint to the police and ruined it! Believe me, there is nothing he can do to you - the least he can get is an arrest! Be strong and do so so that you become competent! Do not give up! I think this is the way! Medical and complaint! Medical student
Put an end to tfa nothing will do to you just trying to scare you just to stay with him and I had one such case of threats tva onva but did nothing about it go ahead
Don't get tied up. You have nothing to fear. To the student: I read other comments from you. Which you know well, even though your comments have been challenged by others. But don't fool the girls that with just one medical thing, things end. It contacts hard, blunt, sharp objects, etc., but not who made them. That alone doesn't work unless he proves he did. How does this work? Well, maybe her father beat her ... she fell, etc. Then comes the moment I did it, but it didn't - she deliberately hurt herself before taking out the medical one - for a heavier punishment. Then he accuses ... They are taken out medically, but don't say that things are simple ... Let the chicks not lie on this hip.
This spelling is very stupid and it would be a pity if someone over the age of 20 says it..this is not a spelling topic, is it !!! if you don't like it you won't read it and as long as people are pessimistic, you won't survive that long !!! I want to say something important on the subject..you sound a bit like me..opernicheva, but at the moment atski threatened..but on the 3rd side determined to do anything to find her happiness at last ... now you need a friend with to share..some survived after all the pressure of this animal ... this is an idea for the police..just tell him that you called and that if there is anything else and they will call him or something .. just threaten him and you don't have to deal..at least for now..tell your parents..they will be able to help you the best Good luck darling (hug)
Hello, a woman wrote to you who was married to a man like your friend and we had a child, but in spite of everything it didn't stop me from saying END I was unconscious while our divorce cases were going on, threatened with death and what not, she was stalking me on every corner and stayed on the street like a dog, but still did not scare me to stay with him on the contrary it made me ambitious and I was ready to do anything to get rid of him, the police said that while our affairs are running he is my legal husband and there was nothing they could do, they only warned him, but it had no effect for four years until our last case, he has not touched me since then, because he is already afraid that I may convict him of beating and harassment. And you, dear, have nothing to do with him, so my advice is, you say goodbye and goodbye once and for all, and if he intervenes, you go to the police, if you ask for a restraining order, they will startle him and will not do it again. What I missed is to tell you that I was also a singer in bars for a long time, but after I broke up with him officially it was otherwise impossible, I couldn't have a coffee with friends without being beaten afterwards. Tell your parents, I believe they will help you too. I wish you success and I hope I have been useful to you!
I am also a victim of domestic violence. I don't know how long this will last, but someday I need to gather courage and put an end to it. You did it on time no matter what. I have a child, I'm married and things are more complicated for me, but not for you.
And why do you all suffer violence? !! And what advice are you looking for here, since you are willing to tolerate such things !!! You have NO excuse for your stupidity and cowardice, your poor children, if you have any ... yes, poor children, the poor ... one day they will turn their backs on you, and rightly so.
Echo, you are a woman, have your dignity, how do you allow this one? I had a similar one, threatening me that if I found another one it would make my life black. Well, I would have kicked him a long time ago and stayed with the threats. To me, these are some cowards who can't move forward for fear of being alone. And why don't you share it with your brother and show him the bruises, if he really loves you, let him process it quickly and not bother you with nonsense. And yet, you can't beat a pipe in his hollow pumpkin if he keeps bruising you. Eee girl and I at 17 don't let him bully you like that.
There is a boy in the neighborhood who likes my cousin. there are at least four swear words in one sentence. I think he pretends not to be there and doesn't talk to him.
He is complex and cowardly, don't fall for his level
First darling learned the Bulgarian language, and then write ...
Learn to write! Aren't you ashamed that a 14-year-old girl has to tell you?
Drop it.
I didn't understand where you were from, because I didn't read everything .... Judging by your illiteracy, I think that your intellect is so great ... So I don't think that anyone but textbooks and books can help you!
Illiterate !!!!