Yes - I hate men! Fully aware! I am also aware of how it sounds, I am also aware of the fact that it is not normal. I can prove a thesis and an antithesis with arguments. Everything is completely clear to me - including the reasons hidden in my childhood (I do not want to go into details). I know everything, absolutely everything. But I just can't get rid of that hatred. I have become mentally clear with myself and the world, but not emotionally. And this, believe me, bothers me myself. I don't want that to be the case. I just can't get out ... I need help. (Female of 31 years)
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Hi, I don't think you hate men, you only hate some men who have hurt you or treated you badly. You're hurt, it's normal to direct your anger at everyone, but we're not all like that, I know it's a cliché, but there are a lot of men you don't know who would do anything for you. My advice is to keep looking, not to despair and hate, this digs you in even more, expand your worldview, meet men from different countries and you will find your man! I myself do not live in Bulgaria and I find it strange how you literally hate each other, I would also recommend you to take a long vacation, relax somewhere, think about what type of man you are and where you can meet him and act! I wish you success!
You need love, darling. LOVE! Not sex, not something else ... I hope I don't sound like a religious fanatic, but maybe we broke off our relationship with God, maybe we forgot about the real things in life ... And you did all this especially thoroughly and persistently. .. The fact that you hate me does not concern me at all - it's for you. It poisons you. I have someone to love, there is someone to love me, so I love everyone. I can be your friend, I can be your lover, I can even be your father, but not if you don't open up to me and others ... (male 47)
Seek professional help, we have nothing to help you here. Obviously your problem is very deep. And you share almost nothing.
You hate them because deep down you need love with a man. If it weren't for that, you'd rather be indifferent to them than hate them. Of course, this is normal, everyone needs to love and be loved. But I believe that someday the man will appear who will make you believe. Otherwise, I can say one thing - that the more you resist your hatred, the more it will haunt you. You better accept it and stop blaming yourself for it. Learn to look at it as something normal, but which is not a part of you, but has its own existence independent of you. They call it meditation. He helped me.
I don't hate them, but they don't excite me anymore, but I'm 47. I don't want to suffer anymore - to be abandoned, lied to, hurt. I'm so good. But I have kids and a bunch of commitments. At 31, it's time to love and be loved. You just haven't met the right one / to break your heart yet ...
You hate them, but you need a man. And not just anything, but someone perfect that you've only seen in movies and novels. In reality, however, we all have flaws. Most likely, someone has abandoned you, cheated on you or no man pays attention to you, and you transfer the negatives to the whole male sex. Could the blame be somewhat in yourself? Are you hardly perfect? It is good to seek help from a psychologist, not on the sites.
Look, as a kid, I had some brief periods in which I also hated men. And then a rather long period in which I hated .. WOMEN :) :) In fact, today it is still difficult for me to communicate with women anyway. My thought is that there are all kinds of people in this world. And not everyone is nasty and bad. Try to be more positive. Cut off all contact with the people they burden. Travel. Discover new places. Meet new people. Now you're probably stuck in a routine. And stop living in the past. ж31
And my advice is just to surround yourself with people who make you happy, gender doesn't matter. Look for people with whom you vibrate on the same frequency. Good luck and don't give up. Everything comes with a reason to be who we are.
Um, it's not worth hating them, do things that you like and bring positive emotions.
He asked me for help, he has specialists ... What can we do ?!
As number 7 rightly pointed out - it doesn't matter who exactly you hate, the important thing is that hatred falls! :)
But if a man had written the topic, you wouldn't have called him that he needed love or a woman, you would have insulted him ... but being a woman ....
It's very strange to me that there are always "happy" men in their 40s and 50s who are always on the Internet writing various "very insightful" and "original" things, all to younger women than them. Well, let them teach for free, that's very noble of them, but what they're actually doing is intruding, and it's damn annoying and disgusting. What could the younger ones be like to us ... why don't they tell us the same things, but in the presence of their wives? They can't understand, admit and accept so much that most women don't like older men. This number 2, for example, why doesn't he start talking / writing to someone 16 years older than him "I can be your friend, lover, son", or to some older or younger gay man "I can be your lover ,, if the topic was started, for example, by a 31-year-old man, and number 2 had written the same things, but he is not him, and she is a 47-year-old woman? (I am referring specifically to his last sentence, then because of this sentence I actually bother to comment) right .. I can be your friend, mistress, I can even be your mother .. but otherwise I am very happy and there is someone who loves me, someone not to think of anything else .. PP for the misunderstood and those who out of stubbornness would pretend to be such: I have nothing against men in general, I even have a lot of fun with them! Well, with the exception of those who are significantly older than me. I don't mind homosexuals either. if the topic was started, for example, by a 31-year-old man, and number 2 had written the same things, but he is not him, and she is a 47-year-old woman? (I am referring specifically to his last sentence, because of this sentence I actually bother to comment) right .. I can be your friend, mistress, I can even be your mother .. but otherwise I am very happy and there is someone who loves me, someone not to think of anything else .. PP for the misunderstood and those who out of stubbornness would pretend to be such: I have nothing against men in general, I even have a lot of fun with them! Well, with the exception of those who are significantly older than me. I don't mind homosexuals either. I can be your friend, mistress, I can even be your mother .. but otherwise I'm very happy and there is someone who loves me, someone does not think of something else .. PP for those who do not understand and those who stubbornly would make such: I have nothing against men in general, I even have a lot of fun with them! Well, with the exception of those who are significantly older than me. I don't mind homosexuals either. I can be your friend, mistress, I can even be your mother .. but otherwise I'm very happy and there is someone who loves me, someone does not think of something else .. PP for those who do not understand and those who stubbornly would make such: I have nothing against men in general, I even have a lot of fun with them! Well, with the exception of those who are significantly older than me. I don't mind homosexuals either.
If you happen to get pregnant with a son, your hatred will completely evaporate. You will look at men in a completely different way. I advise you to try. I'm telling you from experience. F31
Moderators, you still haven't posted my comment. Why? It should be N. 9, which is missing, as can be seen. You say no hateful comments, but you post hateful stories. You contradict yourself. Why do you publish all her stories and our comments, even stories, you do not publish them. Do you appreciate her so much that everything is published ?? I think I'm right that this author is a free moderator in your team and you gave her all the rights, like everyone else. Stop with this censor of yours. Now I will write another comment and see if you will post it. Author, I hate to the point of fainting all women like you who hate men. Call an ambulance and tell them to take you straight to the psychiatric ward and never leave again. That's where you belong for the rest of your life. Don't waste your time, call them. Moderators,
Number 16 yes, that's for psychiatry.
Once everything is clear to you - condition, causes, etc., seek a psychologist. There is no one to help you here after reading a description of 5 lines. And things are not from yesterday, obviously you have to work harder.
Maybe the problem really starts in your childhood
"I hate men" = problems with the father. "I hate women" = problems with the mother. "I hate ..." - if it is a chronic feeling, not a temporary condition, the psychologist is mandatory.
Such good people! I follow the comments from the beginning, reread them and consider them. I want to address each of you personally, but I am still thinking about your words. I found a lot of truth in them, but also things I don't agree with. Nevertheless, my heartfelt thanks to the authors of the well-meaning and clean comments. You are all helping me! I also apologize for addressing Personally 16 only in this comment, but to some extent I do so for all of us. You have taken the time (for me, for yourself) and you should know that it is not impudent. Thank you again! To everyone! I take things very personally and you moved me to tears. Number 16, not that I owe you an explanation, but this is my first topic posted on this site. I have a question for you - if you think some topics are inappropriate, why not just skip them? And I will leave the rest of your words without comment - they concern you, not me! Happy holidays to all and lots of light in the souls! :) Thanks, the Author
If you hate, then you once loved and sought love, but you did not receive it and that made you angry. It is good that you realize where the problem comes from, the realized problem is half solved and it is up to you how you will approach the other half. It is good to seek a psychologist, it will be difficult to overcome hatred on your own. Black Sabbath
Turn the thread, poop. And you will hate women.