A few months ago, my best friend liked a boy very much and suffered from not paying attention to her. I had a small idea of what he was like from another friend who knew him and had a very colorful opinion of him. Somehow it happened that the two became close and became boyfriends. Of course, I supported her, but she is still my closest person. I even went out with them a few times and even though I was the third wheel, I had fun. Everything was going well until her boyfriend wrote to me once. We wrote things to each other at random and he suddenly accused me of spreading the rumor that he and my girlfriend were together. (they kept it a secret and (supposedly) only I knew) I was angry, of course, because I wouldn't do such a thing to a friend we've known for 10 years or more. I've hated it a lot since then, because I don't I'm such a person and he doesn't know me, to judge me! I wrote to her angrily to check if she thought so too, and she told me that she had shared it with a few other people, but she was sure that they would not have told anyone and that I was the only one left! You see, my closest person doesn't believe me. So my question is what to do? Do I explain myself to her, should I raise a scandal, should I be silent?
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Do you want advice? Learn Bulgarian at random. Don't deal with girlfriends. They always become traitors. And your friend can't be your closest person. Read the above again.
Drop it. This is an insult. Girlfriends for 10 years and suddenly it turned out that in her eyes blinked. This says that this girl is hypocritical is your friendship. As in love, so in friendship, if there is no trust, there is no connection
If she's so close to you, why didn't you tell her he wasn't literate when you found out about him? My friends and I are always warned to keep one thing in mind when we know something.
You don't want to admit it, but her boyfriend is not to blame. The boy probably doesn't even know how many people know about their relationship, he probably thinks you're the only one with this information. It makes perfect sense to blame you, there is no one else if only you know. Your best friend, on the other hand, has quite consciously decided that you have spread the word about their relationship. She has shared a few more people with you, but she obviously has the least trust in you. You can't help but be offended. In this case, the boy does not know you and it is normal that he does not trust you. He had no idea that his boyfriend had told several people. You can't be mad at a stranger for something like that. It is also pointless to give explanations to your girlfriend. No one can persuade others to believe him when they do not want to believe. Talk to her, tell her your point of view and stop doing it. If she doesn't hear you, the problem is hers. Sooner or later, one of her other trusted people will spread another secret and then she will realize.
Your girlfriend is very stupid! Rarely do I speak so utterly. Why do you think he keeps their relationship a secret? To count it only. There are no real feelings for her! And for the sake of a man it is especially stupid to quarrel with a friend! Do nothing, people who are in love blindly, just stay and be patient. If she is a real friend of yours, your silence will make her think and look for you!
I would keep quiet and not go out with them both. I would keep seeing my girlfriend because I care about her, but I won't let her talk to me about the boy. They're together and you don't want to know anything about it.
There is only one thing I can't understand - why is it such a secret that they are together? GIRLS !!! Find out one thing !!! If the boy / man next to you hides you, there is ALWAYS a problem. And next to your girlfriend and her boyfriend - the coming ones are some kind of children's minds. Of course, her other "friends" betrayed everything or he told himself and now wonders how to either dump her or manipulate her. If I were your girlfriend, I'd rather break up with this boy in an hour. I've been in a situation where someone is hiding me, and it's always been either because he's ashamed of me or because he has other side girls. Do not deal with such, but find normal men!
Just look at what you wrote - the closest person does not believe you. Is this a best friend?