Hello, I am a 25-year-old woman and I have a big problem - I have been having sex since I was 16, but I have never finished now, let alone had an orgasm. I've been in a relationship for about 3 years, but I've never shared this with my boyfriend, not even with girlfriends. I feel very strange and I don't know what to do. Do you think I should share it and give me some advice on how to tell him, and even better if you tell me how to start cumming without having to talk to him. I wrote it a bit confused, but I hope you understood me :) Thank you in advance.
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Calmly darling, there are many women who do not cum. However, if you want you can consult a gynecologist
Enough of these whims, Abe was a woman. There are people who do not have bread to eat, you are worried about running out. Once the man next to you is stable, don't let him go.
Go to a sexologist, shared first there, there are specialists for these things was so much. It is better not to tell your partner for now, because there is a danger of ruining your relationship with him.
Number 2 what kind of nonsense ?? !! It is unbearable to feel systematically dissatisfied! Intimate relationships should bring mutual joy and pleasure.
Try anal. It was the same situation with me, obviously you don't relax completely to enjoy sex. :) When you masturbate do you finish?
I'm a man and I can't give you much advice, I've read that the path to orgasm in women goes through masturbation, as an idea that you know your body best. Otherwise, I am for a consultation with a sexologist. Go talk to the specialist.
And when you masturbate, do you finish? If so, then the problem is in you or your boyfriend ... Apparently he did not feel you - when you feel good and when you do not ... Or, if you are worried about something during sex, there is also a possibility that you can't finish. Think about where the reason is ...
Hmmmmm, "I would never have cummed now, let alone had an orgasm." Sorry, but you'll have to explain - in your opinion, what's the difference between "cumming" and "having an orgasm" ?? I understand, for you this is something different !? If so, what is your definition of both so that we can tell you how to "at least" "finish".
Number 4, It's tolerable, it's tolerable. To tell her dude to put on a belt with a member and when he's done he should continue with the helper. Against the background of such great misfortunes, I still feel a little crooked to read - "big problem" - and then such things. I am selfish somehow. Nothing personal.
I also started my sex life early and I couldn't finish either. My advice is to experiment with yourself. Touch here and there and you will understand what you like and what you don't. And you have to talk about it, if you keep silent nothing will happen. F-28
Calm down, it's not a big problem for you at all! Many women are like that. Just keep having sex regularly and in time you will start and finish. I was like you. I had an orgasm for the first time when I was 32, then I had 10 years of marriage behind me. F37
Try to masturbate and you will understand how you can cum on your own. Then tell your partner what to do, maybe only with actions, if you are afraid to talk about it. I think this is the most appropriate way to cope and relax while having sex, for example while thinking about how cool it is and how it is so cute and you have a little more and a little more and eventually it will work, or at least it works for me. Good luck :)
there are women who do not cum. And about whether to tell him or not - he feels it whether you finish or not.
At 16 the vagina develops and if you do it then it stops the development of sensitivity, which otherwise stops at 18. De facto you are underdeveloped ... But that's how it is in a hurry - at 16? You fucked yourself.