Please help ... Here is my story- So I have a boyfriend of 4 months and lately he has been constantly hinting at me for sex, even tonight he is asking me openly. I'm 16 years old and I haven't done it yet :( .. I don't know, I don't feel ready for it yet, I'm ashamed and I'm afraid: ((again, after today's conversation with my mother, for now I can't do it ..but I'm very sick of my boyfriend, he had told me that if I didn't want there wouldn't be a problem, but I feel bad that I leave him dry: ((.. .. tonight I just roared my eyes :( .. But I thought of parting with him but I love him, but I can't give him what he wants ... oh what can I do, please give me your opinion.
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I wonder what you are afraid of at most at this age they have done it what you are afraid of sooner or later it happens if you think you want it enough make sure you don't feel sorry
I'm also 16 and I did it but you have to be sure of this person because I think it's something very important, and you have to be sure that this is your boy
IF YOU THINK THE BOY DESERVES WHY SEX IS NOT STILL ONE OF THE BEST THINGS
If you're sure you want that. He doesn't do it just because he wants sex. We are important for the first time. But there are other ways to deliver pleasure without ending. Why not try this with your boyfriend and when you feel ready you will.
I want to ask you something? how long do you plan to wait? until you become a grandmother? what did your mother tell you so much that you were afraid. if you think the first time is perfect you are wrong. every next one is better. and how long do you think your friend will have the patience to wait for you?
Let me tell you, stay with yourself, forget all the advice and opinions on this issue and decide for yourself if you really want this boy ... think if he is worth it ... and if you are not sure, wait for time ... if this a boy who cares so much about you will accept your decision, whatever it is..SUCCESS! and remember the decision you have to make alone and not under the influence of others
I'll tell you just a few things I hope you listen ..... don't force yourself .. don't think of him .. he has his hands .. it's rude though (men forgive me) when you feel the moment tell him if it's you waited until then will be very careful .... do not do it for him .. then you will regret how important ui is to you now;) believe a sufferer;)
Um, I'm 13 and I washed it myself. There's nothing wrong with it.
If you really want to do it, but don't want to use a condom just in case!
Aren't you a little too young to do it?
Amiii, if you are sure as others say, and you trust the boy, there is nothing to wait for, there is always a first time;) And if you eventually do it, be calm, relax ...
give him a blowjob
don't do it, I'm a girl and I was really sick, then I couldn't watch my mother because I had the same problem. And my mother understood my behavior and it was awful !!
Hello dear girl ... I read your story carefully, as well as all the comments to it. I completely agree with numbers 6 and 7 !! Don't rush, the first time is important and sacred, don't look at others (your girlfriends / friends if they already do and they tell you it's stupid to wait), don't imitate them if you're not ready for it. There is no person who has the right to interfere in your decision ... people who have commented say "if you love him do it", that's right, but if he doesn't love you ... you have to be sure of him and his feelings, and really if he loves you he will be waiting for you ... I'm talking to you from experience .. my first time was a long time ago, I was 15 and to love the boy, I fell in love with him a lot and despite everything I can't say that I loved (I realized this over time with years of experience). If he wants only that from you, then you will regret and suffer, and even if it passes, and in years to come you will remember him, he is still your first. Don't think that I'm dissuading you, I'm showing you all the points of view, and the decision is entirely yours :) I wish you success, darling :)
My friend has a boyfriend and it annoys me because I like her, but she doesn't like me, what should I do?
Don't do something you don't feel ready for or don't want to do! Especially sex! Don't listen to "instructions" like this at all: when are you waiting / others have done it. Sex is NOT an obligation to anyone and is NOT done because you are a certain age. Your life is yours, so is your body - embark on intimate experiences when you are happy and want it. The boyfriend will wait.
You are the one who will decide what to do ... Don't be in a hurry to trust him completely and jump in his bed, sex will wait;) ....
Look, because I want to be really short, I'm only going to tell you one thing. I'm 22 and I've had the opportunity, but I still haven't. I had a very short relationship, it couldn't even be called, but I broke it off myself and after 2-3 years I realized that I was right. When I looked at things from another angle - the girl's attitude towards the second and her father, who was trembling over her, was not very good, it will be the same for her friend one day. By the way, he caught a host of a show about motoring. I hope my example was useful. Do not care. I will only say this because cheating on yourself and your inner voice is a big mistake. This is not about sex, so this person is or is not for you. I didn't want to take advantage of that girl and lie to him, and I cut her off myself in an intelligent way. I hope this is not the case with you, but think. Bye.
He has everything for the first time, but he does this thing that the boyfriend wants only at the age of 18
When you're not ready, don't do it!
Well, if this person loves you, he should understand that you are not ready yet and you do not want to have sex .... These things are not done by force ... when you feel ready, things will just happen by themselves :)
Why dump it? If you really love him, stay with him, but if you don't feel ready to do it, you don't have to. If he really loves you, he won't just think about it and will be happy to at least have you. And when you feel ready for something more serious in your relationship, come on, not bad, you're already 16 anyway.
Age doesn't matter! It is important what experience you have and whether you know how to judge the person next to you. If so? .. and your friend loves you (and in my opinion 4 months is too little time to talk about love), but I may be wrong, so to the question, if you love him too, if you trust yourself and know everything about yourself, you know each other to such an extent that even if you are silent, you know when something is there or you just feel good ... then the time has come to strengthen your relationship through intimacy. Make love .. :)
26, she not only did it, but may already have a child. Did you see which year the question was asked? Read before commenting.
Look what, if you're not ready - don't! He is not the last man on this earth, if he can no longer wait for you, to leave. And if you have decided that he is the man and you are not afraid of the act itself - go! You have to feel ready, otherwise it can - supposedly the special moment of the first time, turn into a nightmare ... sweet lips
I agree with the "sweet lips" !!! The girl must be confident and above all ready for sex, and even more so for intercourse itself! Whatever is said ..., the first time especially for a girl should be special! It's not sure if she'll be fine (the man has to work hard), but at least he shouldn't turn into a failure! Do it when you are ready and most of all you really want it! If he cares about you, he will wait ... as long as he has to !!!
the topic is from 6 years ago .... She has broken n ****** from e **** for these years ...
do it. when you're ready yourself ... and you think very stupidly. the miracle will happen someday .. But if he is a man he will understand you, and if he is not .. what are you doing with him