Hi, I'm a 20 year old girl. and I'm looking for advice. In short, I have a friend from Bulgaria who is 35 years old, we met on the Internet, he lives in a neighborhood that is not close to mine and that's why we see each other less often, but we hear each other every day on Skype and we are always we talk when we have free time. However, before I met him, I had a relationship with a man who is Bulgarian, but lives in the state of California, we also got along with him, he is quite intelligent and quite hardworking, now I keep in touch with the one from abroad and he says that is very much in love with me and wants us to get married and I go to him ..... he is ideal for a husband because he is enterprising and responsible, as well as quite serious in every way .... However, I love this one from Sofia, he is my first love, but I can say that he is lazy, he has been out of work for a long time, he says, that he searches but is a fact all this time that he wastes sitting in front of the computer, otherwise he is good in character, not very accurate, but quite caring, intelligent and polite. I am forced to choose between the possibility of a better life outside the country, or to choose to stay here in Bulgaria and be happy with HIM again, but it is also a fact that I am not sure if he cares for me, never he said he loved me, he only told me that I was very close to him, I don't know if he doesn't accept me only as a girlfriend he has sex with, I love him more than anyone else, but I'm afraid I'm wrong if stayed here and then he dumped me and left me devastated. HELP ME! I am forced to choose between the possibility of a better life outside the country, or to choose to stay here in Bulgaria and be happy with HIM again, but it is also a fact that I am not sure if he cares for me, never he said he loved me, he only told me that I was very close to him, I don't know if he doesn't accept me only as a girlfriend he has sex with, I love him more than anyone else, but I'm afraid I'm wrong if stayed here and then he dumped me and left me devastated. HELP ME! I am forced to choose between the possibility of a better life outside the country, or to choose to stay here in Bulgaria and be happy with HIM again, but it is also a fact that I am not sure if he cares for me, never he said he loved me, he only told me that I was very close to him, I don't know if he doesn't accept me only as a girlfriend he has sex with, I love him more than anyone else, but I'm afraid I'm wrong if stayed here and then he dumped me and left me devastated. HELP ME! if I stay here and then he dumps me and I'm ruined. HELP ME! if I stay here and then he dumps me and I'm ruined. HELP ME!
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That's what I think, darling - he never told you that he loved you, but let him be lazy and not very accurate. Think, you have to choose between security and love, or a choice between security and ........... uncertainty. Hardly with the one from Sofia, your life will be paradise! Bad, but with more experience than you, I would just say - MARRIAGE KILLS LOVE, so don't be fooled that if you love him now, you will always love him, or it will only happen if you don't get married, I don't know if you He talked about marriage, I guess not. And with the one from America there is no 100% certainty, if you are not ready for that, wait, think well, analyze, life is in front of you, so you are only 20 years old. I wish you luck and a lot of love!
THIS ONE FROM ABROAD :)
Catch the Californian, with this drone from Sofia you will burst with hunger.
Hello Sweetie! My advice is that neither is for you. Some time ago, like you, I was faced with a choice between two. One was dying for me, he respected me, he loved me, he carried me in his arms and I felt nothing for him. The other treated me idiotically, but I had feelings and endured in the hope that he would change. Believe me the decision is THIRD! I WISH YOU SUCCESS!
When you bear the lazy man on your back for a while, all your love will quickly evaporate, he obviously doesn't love you very much, the American - you don't love him, he may love you - who knows? Abe, why are you in such a hurry to get married so young? Life is divided into 2 - before marriage is life, after it - only worries and annoyances. I don't think you've met your true love yet, otherwise you wouldn't want advice here and it's best to wait a few years, live, do whatever you want without considering a man and a mother-in-law, without a little squealing throwing up on your shoulder like burp, study, make a career or whatever you want. Success!
I want to add - this lazy man is 35 and unemployed. So far he has not achieved anything. What do you need it for? What if you have children, what will you feed them? He's a jerk on top of everything. You will be 40 and he will be 55. Retired. Horror! And is the Californian so ancient? My advice is to drop them both.
Hi, I am a man of more than 40 years. Go to America. These two men will not be your last. And at your age, I thought I was already big. You are 20 years old and you already have to think about what you will do from now on, after school. The bird is perched on your shoulder. Your beginning is America. The future is before you. You are young. Calm down. Even if it becomes a shoot, you have a lot of time to correct your mistakes in life. GO.
I don't think it's right to put things that way..you have to choose for yourself..I'll just tell you that if the man loves you more the woman is happier
Go with the Californian. The other doesn't care about you.