I Have A Feeling That My Life Will Be Spent Making Money Without Fully Enjoying It

   I can't believe there are still people looking for a real woman ... not some garbage. I wish you a lot of success in everything and to find this woman you dream of.

   It's hard to find a friend and a real woman in one. You are still very young, do not give up, but I would advise you to try to share the thoughts and feelings, successes, losses and victories of the person next to you.

   Be useful to others around you, things will sort themselves out, there is a lot of time ahead of you!

   Well, I want to meet a real man, not those who think that having an expensive car is enough and they are neither gentlemen nor nothing. Good luck, I think there are a lot of decent girls and fewer boys like that, so I think you'll find one. F, 24

   I read what was written and I have the feeling that the author of the topic cannot and is not loved. Every living being needs love. In the present we are all obsessed with daily worries, selfishness and striving to secure our future by making money. Yes, money is a means of normal existence, but it is not and should not be the biggest goal in life. Money is not everything. But people quote the phrase "what can't be bought with money, is bought with a lot of money." It is not very clear to me what you mean by "normal people"? If you mean people with low income or no income - then among them too abnormal people prevail. The truth is just not to be proud and not to look down. There is something good in every person and the skill is to try to find it. But this can happen if we have a heart, if we have a soul, if we try to understand the person next to us, if we appreciate his uniqueness and recognize his right to personal choice, if we respect other people's opinion. Therefore, we cannot find people who understand us if we ourselves do not try to understand and respect people .... And one more thing, no matter how learned and smart we are, we can always learn something from even the most illiterate. and the simplest man. But for this one must have morality. I do not believe that the meaning of life is determined by the pursuit of enjoyment and enjoyment of life. The only goal in our lives should not be the pursuit of material well-being. The main thing in our life should be the desire to save our soul, but for that we must have faith and morality. if we respect other people's opinion. Therefore, we cannot find people who understand us if we ourselves do not try to understand and respect people .... And one more thing, no matter how learned and smart we are, we can always learn something from even the most illiterate. and the simplest man. But for this one must have morality. I do not believe that the meaning of life is determined by the pursuit of enjoyment and enjoyment of life. The only goal in our lives should not be the pursuit of material well-being. The main thing in our life should be the desire to save our soul, but for that we must have faith and morality. if we respect other people's opinion. Therefore, we cannot find people who understand us if we ourselves do not try to understand and respect people .... And one more thing, no matter how learned and smart we are, we can always learn something from even the most illiterate. and the simplest man. But for this one must have morality. I do not believe that the meaning of life is determined by the pursuit of enjoyment and enjoyment of life. The only goal in our lives should not be the pursuit of material well-being. The main thing in our life should be the desire to save our soul, but for that we must have faith and morality. we can always learn something from even the most illiterate and simple person. But for this one must have morality. I do not believe that the meaning of life is determined by the pursuit of enjoyment and enjoyment of life. The only goal in our lives should not be the pursuit of material well-being. The main thing in our life should be the desire to save our soul, but for that we must have faith and morality. we can always learn something from even the most illiterate and simple person. But for this one must have morality. I do not believe that the meaning of life is determined by the pursuit of enjoyment and enjoyment of life. The only goal in our lives should not be the pursuit of material well-being. The main thing in our life should be the desire to save our soul, but for that we must have faith and morality.

   Hello! I am very glad that you are one of the people who have money and do not enjoy it. I personally hate money. They are a necessary evil that pit people against each other. They lead to nothing but resentment. Personally, I want to have enough money to live normally. To be able to cover my personal needs and from time to time some pampering. In fact, this has been the case with me so far. Our people have never deprived me of anything, but somehow right up to this limit - to have the necessary things. I managed to go to sea every year ... things like that. I'm 24 now (girl) - I work and I also earn just as much as I think I need. I don't want to have a lot of money. I want to be able to just rely on myself. I don't want rich people around me. Because most are disgusting. That's why I enjoy your story so much. Because you are not one of those people. And as for whether you will find a man for yourself. Well, I think so. It is obvious that you are ambitious and plus you are young. What do you miss? Just be really careful with this "garbage" that will delight you because of the shiny car, branded clothes and perfumes. You will meet the woman. I wish you from the bottom of my heart!

   To number 5: Everything that is written is true. I understand that you are an intelligent man, I suppose a woman. One thing is not clear to me. Do you understand the word "morality"? What does morality mean? Because according to what I have read and learned, any person can be moral. There are no specific norms that determine who is moral and who is not. There are only laws that everyone is obliged to obey. Because if, for example, walking naked on the streets is immoral for you, it may be natural for some other people. But here again I can say that Bulgarians are quite conservative / personally in my opinion, unfortunately /. I don't want to sound like I'm nagging or arguing, I just want to know exactly what you mean. And another thing I want to ask: How did you find out that the author can't love? Maybe he just didn't have a chance to prove it ... P.S. From number 5 :-)

   The topic of speed before this one is also mine, this is my only entertainment lately. Help me, money changes me. I have no friends, there are only interests around me, I just wonder how to diversify my daily life.

   To number 6 (by the author) .. Oh, I don't even have time for the sea and without that I have no one to go with :))) It's just that everyone around me walks, but they don't like me, they are materialistic, I'm always alone, you know , because I'm constantly on the road somewhere to a site and I'm constantly driving alone, when I get on someone I feel weird and silent, I'm so used to being away from people, some time ago I went out here with a piece, they had 5-6 pharmacies I don't know Quo, well, she was sitting as a decoration, there was no brain, if I tell her something about a book ... about Carlos Castaneda (I'm a fan of him, I owe my success to him) or about the various energies around us, about something more abstract in general lines and she can probably overheat and get sick (I abandoned her later). I had a friend with whom I could talk about everything, he was smart enough, but he went abroad. You know, I can't communicate normally with my parents, they have also become snobs, my sister too (she is 21 years old). Ours divorced 6 years ago because of 3 shops, some financial interests of theirs, who manages what, my mother has been arguing with my sister, they haven't talked for 2-3 years, they have been arguing because my sister decided to stay and live in Sofia , I came to live in Plovdiv.

   Well you are very dumb! Aren't you rich? What's stopping me from playing poor, huh? Pretend to be poor and understand who is who! Are good luck idiots: D And for the woman the real giggles it seems to be her destiny, as well as the real man, if there is one in the 21st century! Century of sex and immorality: D Look at the country laughs what morality it gives and then look for the real one !!! : D: D: D

   What kind of life do you lead, if I were you if I were nerdy by now. Congratulations on having such a good soul and looking for true love. I'm quite young, but I have a brain at 20, so I can understand you.

   To the author. When I read, you stand, even though I don't know you personally, I felt a friendly feeling. You know, I feel the same way, but I'm on the other side of the barrier, with no money, not even a job. I have the feeling that no one understands me, I start to think I am, very strange. I'm disappointed in people, especially friends, everyone cares how to spend the other way. I tried to change my environment, I came to the conclusion that there are idiots everywhere. I feel really lonely, for a long time. If you just want to talk to someone, you can write to me at [email protected], because I know what it's like to be alone. How many times have I wanted to pour out my soul to someone, but I didn't trust anyone. It is better in front of a stranger than in someone who pretends to be your friend :). I will be happy to write, bye for now.

   To № 7: Somewhere the answer to your second question was given by the author of the topic with the addition under № 9. I don't think about whether I'm right or wrong, I just have an opinion. If I'm wrong - I apologize and with the stipulation that I do not impose my opinion. To the first question, the word morality in the context means rules for moral behavior, morality, a set of norms that determine human behavior in society. The foundations of morality are the UNCHANGEABLE TRUTHS. As far as I understand, you mean the very behavior of man in society. This, in my opinion, is the personal moral code of man himself. I end with the phrase I like, "morality is expressed in two words: love and justice."

   Ha ha, to number 12. As soon as I read the story and thought "now someone will leave their coordinates", well! The boy boasted a lot of money and kindness and that he wants a decent chick in life ... let me understand you number 12.

   See, if you think so, then you are judging by yourself. I don't think he will pass with mockery. I have a friend of 7 years and I would not stop here to look for a man with money, if I miss it would not be through this site !!!!!! I reaffirm my opinion that there are many, many envious people in this country !!!!! I left my coordinates because the site is anonymous, what does it affect you at all ?????

   What's wrong with you? Why are you alone? I'm not warming something ... I think your requirements are many. I'm sure many girls would like to be with you. Could someone else have chosen the dolls around you? And why can't you meet normal intelligent girls? Tighten it up, please! Lower the bar a little and maybe you'll find the man.

   I am a 19-year-old girl, a student at the Veliko Tarnovo National University. It really impressed me, I like people like you who are not proud of money, but look for the real thing in a woman - love, honesty! These are some of the most important qualities in a person, without which a person cannot feel complete! I will give you my e-mail if you want to write to me, you can share your problems, even anonymously, without worrying, I myself am at a dead end! [email protected] Success!

   16 maybe you're right .. You gave me the best advice, thank you.

   You don't understand anything in life. You live on cash, so you're dumb. Back in 1992, such boys came, with briefcases full of money, sent by their fathers to a factory where I worked. They were loading trucks with smuggled goods to Serbia via Macedonia. Guess what these same boys are doing now. Many of them are probably no longer alive. It doesn't take much for one person to be happy, but you lack basic upbringing.

   I am 16. No, that wasn't advice, I'm indignant. A young man in his prime, with opportunities and money, and you whine. All in good time. Believe me, you will not be happy with an ordinary girl. Someone who tells you they are unhappy, poor and lonely. You need a girl with strength and ideas, firmly on the ground and with confidence. Not some whining and pessimistic squid. Life is so beautiful in all its nuances. Don't waste it! Find a hobby - bungee jumping, painting, traveling, photography, feel the wind in your hair and the sun on your face. Do charity ... GOD ... so many things can make you proud and happy with yourself. And love itself will come as a reward for your smile. I wish you happiness !!!

   Until 19 .. I was a second grader in 1992. And you can save such comments, I'm just looking for advice, here no one takes off anyone's dirty shirts. Just advice.

   I'm number 5 again. I read all the comments and opinions. In my opinion, the best advice was given to you by the girl, who is 16 years old. (under number 20). She is still young, but she obviously thinks quite well about her age. Do something really with yourself. Friends are hard to make money. So at first he did something himself. Enjoy your life. Think of the good things in it. And maybe you should lower your criteria a bit. Get to know as many people as possible and don't just look at their bad traits. Always find something good and good in everyone. Because we humans are not sinless. I'm alone too, but I have a hell of a lot of friends. I try to understand everyone and I definitely always look for the positive traits of each person. Plovdiv is a big city. I also live here. There are many places around that you can visit. Just have fun. And don't find such excuses of sorts, that you don't have time. Make it so that you have. :-) I know it's easy to talk from the sides. But think now, not of your career, but of yourself. Everything will be fine for you. You just have to believe it.

   Number 20 did not write that she was 16 years old, but that she wrote comment number 16 (refers to 22).

   No, I'm not 16 years old (and how I want it. :)))), and I wrote in the comments under # 16 and # 20. Sorry for the confusion. Ignore malicious remarks. There will always be people who will try to make you feel guilty that you have financial means. And I don't think you have to let loneliness become your "friend." The loner sooner or later becomes not only sad but also vicious. When you find a hobby, you will meet like-minded people in the endeavor. And why not a smiling lady who loves rafting. I don't know why I only imagine you in extreme hobbies ?!

   I'm 22: Sorry for the confusion really. Anyway. I just wanted to say that he really gives very good advice. I apologize again for the distraction.

   ... 24 (author) hahaha and I don't know how he felt me, I have 5 parachute jumps :), when I was in Egypt I wanted to climb the Great Pyramid, but the security of the site did not give me. I snowboard, I have 1 knee operation because of which ... I just miss the right woman next to me :)) otherwise everything else is OK .. I have improved a lot since I wrote the topic. In general, I am always in a good mood. Then I was in a terrible horror :)) because I saw how much they cost around me ... So one morning I got up and my car did not start, something happened ... I called one to give me a phone number for roadside assistance, so I stayed in front of us .. hahahaha then I called 5 people to pick me up because the office is on the other side of town (I don't like taxis) ... everyone was busy. Now I have the flu, no one will feel sorry for me. The question is that I still have this ... :))

   I am 24 (both 16 and 20). So that's it. You're generally OK, but you're looking for sympathy while keeping the bed. Just kidding. And as for finding a "decent" woman ... well, it takes time. Sometimes a lifetime is not enough, but I know you will succeed. I knew you were an extremist (in terms of hobbies). It's fun, isn't it? But it's like we're chatting ... Come on, that's enough. Understand what I want to tell you 100%, I'm sure. Good luck in your search and smart !!!;))

   24 (author) ... Another thing that scared me, my cousin got married in May, the other day I suddenly realized that one of my classmates would get married next month ... immediately ... let's go a little more and it's your turn, the other my cousin has a girlfriend of 5-6 years, all my acquaintances still have one there. I fall behind with the material it seems to me. Today I am 23 with this permanent job and employment, I will turn tomorrow and I will be 30 and I will not have anyone ... only one career. It is true that one day this will offer something to my children, but it is difficult to combine. This "search" is impossible .. it's not like going to the market :)) my market is limited from time to time with Vision, there when I see in the parking lot only Mercedes and Porsches and I get up :) you know what they are there. .. me if I do not land only the bird I can not find :)) the birds that land, however, are full gargoyles ....

   Look for a real, amorous woman, not always arrogant, just look for true love! And the fact that your cousins ​​are getting married doesn't concern you at all. You have found a real strong woman if you are going to get married at the age of 35. And one piece of advice, don't be fooled too much by your parents, because when another year passes, they will tell you "aaaaide, you will be a bachelor, you will stay". But even then do not commit to inappropriate because then you will suffer;)! Success!

   It's 24. You challenge me to answer you. Find time for yourself, I told you. And if at 23 you start to worry ... You are so shamelessly young ... Go on dating sites then. You might like a girl there. And don't be in a hurry to tell her what opportunities you have. Even in this forum, two girls left their coordinates. Write to them. When you don't have time, the net is an opportunity, but be careful - it's full of liars.

   Oh no, I'm not afraid of those who leave their coordinates :)) I'm a bit reserved about the net. Our people have already told me that I will remain a bachelor :))

   Hmm, you know what ?! It is in VISION that you will not meet a suitable woman. The women go there only to show off their expensive clothes and to meet someone with money to cash them. You're not looking for one, are you ... :) F, 22

   What bachelor at 23? Enough nonsense. Take some in your hands.

   24 e. Hey, enough nonsense that makes me laugh! This thought will cross your mind. Look, you can't run away from your circle, look there. Do not think that there will be a person who will not like your money and opportunities. The opposite would be abnormal. Everyone loves luxury, the opportunity to choose, power ... let's not be fooled. Your task is to find among all the ones that will be your inspiration. If she hasn't heard of Castaneda, tell me what you know about him, set her on fire. And as for refusing to write to these girls ... well, I told you something about the bar. You don't mind trying. Or you may be pleasantly surprised :)))

   Yes, I have your problems: D Hahaha :) Here is my e-mail to inherit your money: [email protected]: D: D: DDDDDDDD!

   Hello, I am from Plovdiv, 25 years old, I understand that you feel lonely and not in place with the women around you, but you have to be patient. When you stop looking for something, it seems that just when you least expect it appears :). Indeed, girls like you or very few go to a place like Vision. I also visited Avnyu, Laguna and the like, and I saw such representatives of both sexes that now I do not set foot there at all. Unfortunately, there are few people with money who are still looking for the real and human in people, for which I congratulate you. Everyone is looking for their partner, but no one knows how and when they will meet her. Indeed, many women today only look for money in a man, so be biased, but be careful not to push away someone who may be for you. Why don't you write to someone, or look for something on Skype, I don't know, make friends. Maybe you need to change your environment, the people around you (as I read they don't seem to be your friends), I know it's hard to be alone, but you will find like-minded people. You say that you have hobbies, you read, you are obviously interested in many things, so do not give up and do not give up, take more time for yourself. And they tell me, come on, it's time for you to get married, but I don't care after I haven't found the right one. We are young, life is ahead of us and it is only important to be healthy. By the way, I envy you nobly for Egypt. When you have the opportunity to travel, make sure you keep yourself the way you are. Good luck!!!! B.Z. so do not give up and do not give up, take more time for yourself. And they tell me, come on, it's time for you to get married, but I don't care after I haven't found the right one. We are young, life is ahead of us and it is only important to be healthy. By the way, I envy you nobly for Egypt. When you have the opportunity to travel, make sure you keep yourself the way you are. Good luck!!!! B.Z. so do not give up and do not give up, take more time for yourself. And they tell me, come on, it's time for you to get married, but I don't care after I haven't found the right one. We are young, life is ahead of us and it is only important to be healthy. By the way, I envy you nobly for Egypt. When you have the opportunity to travel, make sure you keep yourself the way you are. Good luck!!!! B.Z.

   To the author. This is where your mistake is, you don't trust anyone, you may have suffered a lot, but now you put a barrier in front of you and you don't allow anyone. I guess you wrote here because it weighed on you, and the advice made you feel better. But ...... you say that you do not want to write to those who have left you addresses ???? And they may not necessarily want to take advantage of you :) Why do you think that when maybe someone wants to help you wants to use you by all means, I think that the people who write to calm you down are good and human, so there may be attempts to extract money, but do not put them all under one denominator. In this case, you repel any attempt at friendship, do not do so, try different options, be more open to people. For example, I would be very happy to be offered a conversation and a friendship, and if I'm looking for one,

   You have to start trusting people. Not everyone is a user.

   You will find the girl, but judge for yourself whether exactly in the environments you have contact with. If a certain type of ladies with a certain type of material interests move there, it will be more difficult for you. Decide where and how. Also, don't flaunt (I'm not saying you do, but still advice) ... you know what - with money, so you risk not finding the real one, because The real ones are not fooled by money and from the moment in whoever sees that you have them will conclude that they are not for you (while the materialist will draw the opposite conclusion - how to catch her fishing rod). I will never forget the story of a DJ who made a lot of money in the early 90's. When the relationship with the girl, who later became his wife, was formed, he deliberately introduced himself as a man without good financial means (in different situations). And when he was convinced that this did not shake her - full forward: She is the man. I think he acted wisely.

   God, how many comments :) So I'm 20 years old and I'm gaining speed at work. I meet all kinds of people / I like to travel /. I am of the opinion that there is no best friend. I try not to engage other people with my problems because I think I am strong and capable enough to get better. I make money to make people around me happy. I'm just having fun giving. I don't expect anything from anyone. I don't blame anyone for anything :) a lot of people, all kinds of ideals. I just try to do what makes me happy. I respond to evil with a conscience, to good with good. Go ahead and know that the best is waiting for you;) And you know that it is not the one who eats the pie who is crazy, but the one who gives it to him: P GL

   I just want to say that this is the first time I've read something like this written by a man. I have personally asked you your questions, but I do not receive an answer. As people say, everyone is lucky. My observations about these relationships are: It is important who the person next to you is, it does not matter what people say, we cannot close their mouths. I wish you to find the person you dreamed of.

   I'm not on the advice, but I will still allow myself: - you are too young - look for the real people, they are around you and you will surely find your man. Know that money is a means, not an end. They are to serve you, not you to them.

   There will be barriers in communication, of course, the standard is different and if it is not an obstacle for someone, others will accept it as such because of the simple saying "stretch your legs according to the rug". The car, work isolate you, try to find a woman for a friend without allowing yourself to have an intimate relationship. Start doing something other than work, hobbies ... dancing, sports. What is written gives the impression of oversatisfaction, but start living simply, (non-vulgarly), the correct meaning of the word.

   In my opinion, you are a big slut and you don't think of a great genius at all, how did it occur to you to write such nonsense in this column there are much more complicated problems to solve and he please prevented his money because he had excess and could not find the right girl, well, the right girls, dear ones, fall for the right boys, think about it.

   Hello !!! The situation is as follows :). I am 28 years old and I, like you, cannot say that I am one of the women who have had many relationships in their lives (only one). Always leading in the contact with my partner next to me was understanding and mostly support, but often it did not work - we lived in different worlds! Young man, and as for the easy dump of women, he thinks it's because in most cases the GIRLS are looking for someone with money and a car, and not just any one, but a newer model - (it's a pity). I do not intend to fall into a sharp raspberry for your conclusion: "it is full of rubbish next to me" !!! - I am a sworn opponent of this statement of yours, I can even refute it !!!!! My congratulations for your career, your way of thinking !!! What I think you're making is a mistake, your distance from people and your total absorption from work (contact with people is the greatest wealth, a person builds himself in this way. You did not mention anything about friends, and this is very important - snobs do not give anything, they rather take !!! We are glad that you mentioned "normal people" To realize the fact that financial well-being means nothing without having anyone to share it with, I will be glad if your dream comes true or maybe it has already come true: ) :) :) :) Dare, dream and win in all the "battlefields" of life. Be strong in your helplessness !!!! I am motivated by this expression !! I wish you a light and smiling day, and rest - life is not just a job! In conclusion I will say the following: (If what is written by you - the author) as advice: YES - you are smart , BUT-don't be different !! Be yourself,

   ;-) ... Forgive you, but it's funny, very funny. She is next to you, but you do not know how to recognize Her. I can't teach you. No one can teach you. You have to learn on your own. Shershe la fam. This is the truth ;-)

   You haven't met her, because there are few women with a rich soul nowadays. It's even a shame, I would say a man to have values, faith, to seek love ... The media imposes on us the walking patterns of an empty but shiny life in a beautiful package , and people think that this life of expensive clothes, cars, fashion restaurants and meetings with "dudes" and "chicks" that this is happiness .... but it's actually a theater of many people with masks, which are everything else but not yourself ... fearing that if they are themselves no one will like them .... I wish you to meet a real woman, one who lives and loves from the heart and soul, and to know her. This is the real one. love, the one that comes from the heart, the mindless one, in which there is no mind, has timelessness, and a desire to be with someone not for a thousand reasons (because he is very beautiful, smart, funny ...) but simply because E ... Selenium.

   dude you need contact with people. if you don't contact you can't find the right person for you ... when I say contact I don't mean those at work .. I mean to relax to meet new people "ordinary" and not some oversatisfied who don't know what it's like to be miserable. .. in my opinion the real people are the ones who have suffered something .. the lack of funds, the loss of a man, etc., etc. who have made a person to kind of realize where he is and that everything that flies is not eaten !!! !! this is my personal opinion;)

   Nowadays, few people appreciate human qualities. This struggle for a good life has turned many people into "traders" of feelings. No matter how small they are, there are still good girls, I want you to meet someone who will appreciate you for your own sake and not for your money!

   I have a similar problem, but due to disorganization and other problems (since the ninth grade) - I'm not financially rich and I have not accumulated the necessary knowledge of science, and what I once read from psychology - does not work for me. I am looking for partners for a slightly active group on the issue of relationships between people and on gender issues. I'm alone. I have a huge problem from a war for influence through unknowns, probably caused by complex neighbors. There will be a case, and after that I do not know how I will tolerate all these people and I need a close person or partner.