Hello! For a long time I was wondering if I should share this here and I hope someone will give me adequate advice, because I no longer know what to think. I am a 22 year old girl, I have cystic fibrosis, I think it is important to note it. I have been in a relationship with a 26-year-old boy for 5 years. Many things have happened in our relationship. We fought a lot, I wanted to end this relationship, but my friend loves me very much. The other thing is that I like a colleague of mine from Unito, I constantly think only of him. He knows nothing about my feelings. I'm afraid to tell him how I perceive him, isn't it something more, and I don't think I have the right to share my feelings with someone else, since I have a friend and it's a long-term relationship, or at least for me it is. I just don't stop thinking about him, I'm always obsessed. Seeing him at a lecture, I literally can't take my eyes off him ... My question is, how do I know if I like the set or not, how do I ask him in some circumvented and indirect way if he has feelings for me, so that I don't break my friendship with him, because I will be even worse, if I have no contact with him? I apologize for the spelling mistakes.
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Chick, you break up with your boyfriend first, and then you start acting with the other one. Without that, as far as I understand, you don't care about your friend at all and you are not ok with him.
Most women are like that. You have a husband, but you are thinking of another.
LOL! Are you dating someone and aiming for a second? Aahahah a typical woman. Emmy was very simple my girl. Break with the current one and try the new one. You don't want to be left alone? Eeeee, I can't sit on 2 chairs.
You can say that you broke up with your friend and see what happens. Otherwise about the boy you've been with for 5 years. At 17, this person has different expectations and ideas for a partner. Now that you're grown up, don't waste his time if you don't have feelings, because it's a bit like crawling. He loves me very much and I enjoy the comfort, and if another one appears I will break it.
Well, sleep with your colleague and see how it is ... only then will you understand where your soul is slaughtered. There's nothing stopping you from having a relationship with both of you if you're smart and know how to do it. Good luck ... and tell me what's going on.
You think! This is good especially for a woman. ;) If you do something about it you will be SUPER!
I thought you were going to complain here that you have a boyfriend and you're thinking about another man at the same time, but what was that ... Are you tired of your boyfriend? You drop it and try with the colleague, not to talk about your feelings in front of the colleague while you are with the poor boy, on whom you only waste time. Beware that women like you have a bad name.
As you drive it, you may end up falling to the ground from two chairs - it seems to me that this is what worries you. If you do not feel comfortable in a relationship, it is wiser to end it without looking for other excuses. Regarding your colleague - there is no way to know if he likes you without talking to him directly. If he has aspirations for you, you should have already felt it - women have an intuition about these things. I wish you success and do not forget that the puzzles in life never have a single true solution :)
People are married, they go constantly with others and they change them. You will not go to one. Life is one, enjoy it. See people, young people die, to be alive and healthy until old age. Live, walk, do what your soul wants. And most of all, don't care about people's opinion, your life is yours. I see insecurity and fear in you. Abe, have a friend, but when something falls on you, do it so that it is secret, only between you and the other and without praise.
The problem was not how to forget him and not see him, but how to find out if he fell for you. These are women ... but just like monkeys. He grabs one branch and only then releases the second. Then why we called women whores. Well, that's how you are. No one can make me think anything other than that. Behave like whores means that and you will get.
When a person likes you it is obvious, and when you are indifferent it is even more obvious :) I say again - it is obvious, you do not need to say about your feelings or, to hint, it is felt when there is attraction between two people and everything happens. It is noticed in the most ordinary conversation, in the eyes in everything the intentions are noticed, it is not necessary to be a fortune teller either, to hint whether there is or there is not, or it happens or does not happen. If there is nothing, if he doesn't pay attention to you, if he behaves coldly - well, don't waste it, after all we have all fallen in love and liked us, and from there we can draw conclusions about who wants us and who is indifferent to us. However, there are female tricks if you keep trying, but for me it is fleeting and animal, not real :) Last I will say: think before you act, because every action has a consequence and is not always pleasant!
First, as number 2 said, you break with the current one and try the "set", if you are so brave to allow another in your thoughts, be so brave to abandon the current one to try with the other, otherwise yes, most women are like that " cunning ", but you find your master sooner or later.