Hello people :) I have a great desire for sex, but not with my boyfriend. I feel like I haven't done it in a year and I'm terribly overwhelmed, but when I do it with it, I don't feel satisfied at all anymore. I love him, I don't want to break up, I haven't even thought about it. I just don't want to be with him anymore. Quite often I stare and fantasize, and when we start with it, I get bored. I'm very naughty about him, because I want to have everything he wants - he deserves it, but it's hard for me to force myself. We have tried to diversify with different things and places ... it no longer works.
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The conclusion that comes from your story is that this man can not satisfy your sexual needs and fantasies, which automatically means that even if you do not want you, you will be separated - when sex does not work, everything else loses its meaning and love, if any, simply It is not normal to force yourself intimately and your thoughts at this point to be tied to another man through your imagination, the best option is to take a step and start a new relationship that fills your emotional hunger and realizes sexual you vision as you want - the rest is just a kind of masochism that has no justification! My advice to you is to redirect your inner urge to a person with whom you will really feel happy and completely satisfied! I'm sorry that I'm bound, otherwise I would offer you some magical intimate moments! -))))
Normal! And I'm more sexually active and I don't want to have sex only with my husband. There are such women and such periods and no one should be blamed. Do it with others as you want, but bullying;)
This may be the dumbest piece of advice one can give, but I will do it because it has helped me. Get a "purple dolphin", it is currently widely used
I apologize if my question is dumb, but what is a "purple dolphin"?
I fully support the second comment, and one thing is the same as loving one person, you love him, the other is just "flat" sex.
Hmmm, can you explain to the ignorant what a "purple dolphin" is? :)
Vibrator :)
my advice is very simple and short ... I'm on the same track as you! I'm serious, if you want we can meet to meet and see each other and make a cake :))))
Vibrator;)))
Better think about whether you really love this person and whether you are similar, that is, whether you fit in most aspects of your life, if so, and if sex with him initially gave you pleasure, I think you should think about whether it is worth parting. . What if you get tired of the next one after a while? There is a very old saying: "Only bread is not eaten!", But there is another: "Without sweets you can, but without bread you die of starvation for a long time.". I don't know if you understand where I'm fighting, but you better think things through soberly. Since this is the case for you, how do you know that he does not have the same problem? You better talk. Silence speaks more than a thousand words, but also creates a thousand gaps between people. Talk to him, share your concerns kindly and carefully, and how he will perceive it depends on his moral growth and age. At least it will help you understand if there is another reason to love him. When it comes to "secret infidelity" tips, know that infidelity can make you love him even more, but it can also ruin your relationship - a double-edged sword. Be open, talk! I've heard that it was hellishly exciting for a woman to watch her lover do it with another - (I personally don't like it), but if you're braver - go for it! At least you'll know if you still have a thrill for him! but if you are braver - go! At least you'll know if you still have a thrill for him! but if you are braver - go! At least you'll know if you still have a thrill for him!
You probably don't love him anymore. It's different for everyone. I don't love my boyfriend (not anymore), but sex is great. At the same time I love another, and he loves me, but sex is a complete sorrow / for me, de /, he thinks he is the top and feels on top. Disgusting situation.
Buy a car and go to the next town to get angry. And men have this problem. It's almost the same with my wife, that's how I solved the problem