HELLO I'm only 25 years old. and during intimacy I don't feel well. I went to a gynecologist - but nothing. For me, it's death when night comes - I don't want sex, and that's where the problems start.
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obviously you really have a problem and it can be on a mental basis only at the thought of sex. try to fight it
um ... it seemed to be a very specific problem on a PSYCHOLOGICAL basis, which, if I'm not mistaken, was called "vaginismus" with its sonorous nonsense. excessive tightening of the vaginal muscle rings, which results in painful and unpleasant / and in some cases - impossible / sexual intercourse for the woman .... so boy, most likely it's all in your head. unfortunately I can't advise you where to look for help, but whoever seeks - finds :) success
Honey, did you do a test for CHLAMIDIA? I soon realized that I have this disease. It is similar to inflammation of the fallopian tubes / at least that's what they confused me with in the beginning /, otherwise it is something between a virus and a parasite. In my case it is in the right fallopian tube. If left untreated, it leads to clogging of the tubes! There are almost no signs of this disease, as it was with me, except for the pain during sex. I soon explained this pain to myself when I realized that I had chlamydia. So I did my research. Good luck!
I also think the problem is mental. I am 23 and I have a similar problem, which definitely prevents me from making intimate contacts, because out of fear of pain, I just avoid them. In my opinion, the only way is to be able to overcome all worries during sexual intercourse and enjoy the moment and the person you are with. Sex should be nothing but pleasure. I hope I helped in some way and success :)
When you have sex, darling, you need to relax so that your partner's member enters calmly. When tightening, all the muscles seem to close a valve that really hurts a lot - relax, don't think about anything else, not even the pain.
I also have such pains, I don't tighten during sex but I still have them, but not every time, for example, if we do it twice, the first time it doesn't hurt and the second time it hurts terribly.
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I think if you are not moisturized enough, this causes pain. The first time it does not hurt but the second when there is no hydration it hurts.