Hello. I am an 18 year old girl and I want advice from you. I have been in a relationship with a married man for 2 months, who I like for two years. So far so good! But sex with him is just a pretense, I don't want him as a man. I'm just pretending and that's it! I like talking to him ... anything but having sex. Or maybe because he is 10 years older than me and I have no desire for that. Or maybe because when I wanted him from the beginning and he didn't pay attention to me and my feelings have already passed ... I don't know, I don't know ...
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So he is not the real one
It's not your job to deal with a married man. He will never look at you seriously, go out together to go to a disco for example. If he does, draw conclusions about him as a person !! ?? Believe me, it's not pleasant not to get into his wife's situation. Drop it - the world is full of free men !!!!
Hello lovely girl. The first question you need to answer is "Do you have a future with this person?" and you are only 18 years old, and although it sounds cliché - life is in front of you. Don't waste it just because it's interesting to you. And even less this person does not satisfy you in any way. What do you gain from this contact with him, when you can be with another man - someone to love, like, satisfy you in sex ... Why do you complicate your life? I'm not criticizing you, I just want to help you open your eyes so you don't regret it in time. Think sober and don't go "downstream". You are a young man and you have a future! Good luck!!!
Don't have sex with him - that's it! DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM !!! If you don't do it, don't do it.
So, what I'm about to say may seem a little nasty, but still ... he asks you for your opinion. If you don't want him, why are you with him? What do you mean, it's good to just talk? And even more why do you have sex with him when you don't like it? I think you're impressed that some "big" one has paid attention to you and you're playing his game so as not to spoil his opinion of you. And did you ask yourself why he is with you? is he in love or just wants sex. I think it's the second. Do not interfere in other people's relationships.
Don't mess with a married man, don't make his wife unhappy even if he has children. What is it for if you don't want sex with him? Can't you find someone like you to talk to? And why is he with you?
The comments before me are logical and correct, you just have to learn from all this. I had an acquaintance, she is 34 years old and the man (grandfather) in question is 67 years old. why am I giving this example so that you understand that you are wasting your time with this person. And what will be the consequences for you, and do you know what happened that day? His wife and daughter touched them and now she does not dare to show her nose in the village and he is walking as if nothing had happened. Find a young boy 3-4, 5 years older than you to enjoy the relationship. Here from my acquaintance nothing happens all young boys avoid her and her girlfriends. This is because you do not know what you want from men!
Blessed are those who know what they want.
He is not a man for you! If you do not want him sexually, there is nothing to do with him in your situation. Just stay friends and that's it. You like him as a friend, not as a lover. That's sometimes. A person makes mistakes, but you can correct that mistake. Go ahead, we boldly support you! :)