Hello, soon a few friends told me that I was dressed like a whore ... I was not naked, I was wearing a black long-sleeved bodysuit and a hip-hop tracksuit, ie everything was covered, nothing was visible, except I had braided my hair in two braids at the end and tied them with pink ribbons. In general, my style is like that, modern, girly, a little rebellious, I can't dress any other way because that's the only way I like myself. The strange thing is that most of my friends dress the same way, but I liked a whore and a muffin, and they didn't. The explanation was that to me my appearance was such a whore, dirty, perverse almost and for that it was better not to dress like that, until they were so muffin. I wanted to ask how to solve this problem, how to change my style of dress or more precisely the look, not the style, so they don't think I'm a whore ?? Just to clarify that these girls are very close friends of mine, and when they say I look like that, then something really made them think it, they don't say it out of envy or anything like that. I guess to some extent my problem is that they are a little more masculine, while I am told that I am the typical femininity, coquette, I am also a former ballerina, they even teased me that while walking I turn my ass : D I don't do it on purpose, it's just big, like the Brazilians, and while I'm walking it spins on its own. My hair is long to the butt, naturally straight, and my complexion is darker, just like a Latina girl. Besides, I'm a child in the face, I'm 18, and they take it for 14-15. My breasts are medium, cup C. I know a girl with a dozen older ones, already in D, they look super big and yet it doesn't look so vulgar with a tight blouse. This also hinders me in my relationships with boys, because they accept me only as a piece and not as a girl for a serious relationship. My friends tease them a little less than me, but when they do, they are always serious guys, while everyone teases me, because they hope to tie them ... I want to be able to dress as I want, without them, without to be a whore and vulgar and to be taken seriously by people, how can I achieve it?
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Hello. The only advice I can give you is not to change for anyone. We live a life - wear what you like. Yes, it is possible that your girlfriends are sincere and their comments are not caused by malice or envy, but if this is your style and you feel good in this type of clothing, your girlfriends should respect your choice. Whore is done with actions, not with a specific style of dress. Not to mention that most women try to be so attractive to men. Rejoice that you achieve it without undressing. And if your appearance is like that and you can dress with a sack, it will not change. Apparently this is your charm and there is nothing wrong with attracting a man with it and then keeping him with character and behavior. Be yourself.
These 'girlfriends' of yours are very, very strong ENVY !!! Because obviously you have a much nicer body than them, and probably a much more beautiful face. DRESS AS YOU LIKE AND DON'T GET INVOLVED IN THE TALES OF THESE STUPID CHICKENS. Let them burst with anger, because they deceive him! For boys: in order for boys to take you seriously, you need to DEVELOP YOUR PERSONALITY - to be interested in different things, to read books, to watch popular science films. Communicating with them to listen to what they are saying. Speaking not to shout, it makes sense if you are enthusiastic about something not to behave slimy, squeaky like that, but a little more restrained, but not the other extreme - to sit quietly and like a stump. And as I told you - do not change your appearance, emphasize your personal qualities! But prepare mentally from now on that you will not have real girlfriends girls .. most likely. Woman of 29
Just from the title how I laughed. Well done! Control my mood :)
It is difficult for me to give a specific answer to the author, because I do not know exactly what it looks like and what it looks like. I can't find my way around just words. But at number 2 I will say that it doesn't matter at all for a man how many popular science films a woman has watched, but what matters most is what behavior she has and what her understandings are. If your understandings and behavior are OK, books and movies are irrelevant. In fact, if she's a whore, books don't help much either.
Well, they envy, that's it. I'm a girl, but I look innocent - that's why I started wearing red lipstick, to add details if lace, bare shoulders / back that radiate this part of me. I know a woman with the kind of radiance you describe. Well, it may have this initial radiance, and sexuality and probably beating in the attic is a kind of charm. She has long-term relationships, men are crazy about her. Maybe I would advise you to add more shirts, to dress more elegantly. The elegant is sexy in a slightly more covert way, but it is not inconspicuous, on the contrary - everyone turns to you if you combine the clothes correctly.
Your problem is not in the clothes, but in the radiation. If a woman has such a "radiance" and you dress her in the clothes of a nun, they will look like a whore to her. And the radiance of a sweet child is the attitude, in flirting with the signs of the body, in the gait, in the facial expressions, even in the look. No matter how beautiful you are, no matter how nice your body is, it doesn't even matter if you walk naked. That's right, a self-respecting woman flirts only with her lover and not with all men. And while she doesn't have a loved one next to her, she doesn't flirt with anyone before she likes him as her admirer. Flirting is a sign for men, almost an invitation to try. A self-respecting woman can go completely naked among hundreds of men and still no one can whistle or tease her and can even make them respect her and take off their coat to cover her, no matter how beautiful she is. she. 98% of men until you give them a sign that they may have you would not dare to think so, only rapists reach uninvited. So start with the gait, try to move in a straight line against a mirror without a fold in the waist. Models, for example, make a bend in the waist every time they move their leg in order to rotate their ass. This is what people mean when they tell you to turn your ass, and it has nothing to do with its size or shape, the rotation of the ass comes from the waist. It is not normal to walk on the street like on a podium. You can also stop braiding your hair in two braids if you don't know it's a children's hairstyle, and a lot of porn movies use this hairstyle to rejuvenate your actresses, this hairstyle takes you away from age, a girl over 18 with such a hairstyle invites men who watched porn, a smile and a kind look and they stuck out their tongues, posture also takes away from your age. Etc. I don't feel like writing now if you decide you need me to keep asking and I'll tell you what to do.
Absolutely everything I think and the advice I would give you is described by comment number 2. I am also 29 and from my own experience I tell you - THEY ENVY YOU and it is very strong, because you are much sexier than them, and so to them, being next to you does not go with the boys.
They say so because you are probably more beautiful than them. Surely men pay more attention to you and they envy you. You don't care at all. Dress as you please.
First I want to say that cup C is not exactly medium, rather you have a fairly large breasts. For something normal is B. Now on the topic. I will explain where your problem comes from in the simplest way possible. Currently, everyone likes girls with Brazilian asses, big breasts, flat bellies, long hair, chip nose, big lips and a light complexion. Is it? If you fit most of this description, it is normal for people to accept you as a sexual object. What you do with your style and appearance is your decision. If a woman is beautiful and without make-up, if she has a nice body and is visible with torn clothes, that's it. There is a way to change your style of dress, not to follow fashion, to change your hair and everything, but I don't see much meaning. The boys will always notice what you look like and will always look at you and tease you for different purposes. I have a girlfriend, which is quite beautiful, really makes every effort for its appearance and does not go unnoticed. She has her self-confidence, you know, even if she's dressed in home clothes, she walks proudly, calmly, and there's always someone to pay attention to her. For example, I do not have self-confidence, I have a nice body, they look at me, talk to me, I recently started moving in a new environment with completely new people and everyone tells me that I am very radiant, but I have never considered myself so, therefore I attract much more Fewer people and even if I attract someone, I don't believe it. Radiation is something that a person simply has, it can be stronger than his real appearance, but don't worry so much. Cover all the parts that need to be covered, keep up and there will always be someone who cares about you, not your appearance. it really makes every effort for its appearance and does not go unnoticed. She has her self-confidence, you know, even if she's dressed in home clothes, she walks proudly, calmly, and there's always someone to pay attention to her. For example, I do not have self-confidence, I have a nice body, they look at me, talk to me, I recently started moving in a new environment with completely new people and everyone tells me that I am very radiant, but I have never considered myself so, therefore I attract much more Fewer people and even if I attract someone, I don't believe it. Radiation is something that a person just has, it can be stronger than his real appearance, but don't worry so much. Cover all the parts that need to be covered, keep up and there will always be someone who cares about you, not your appearance. it really makes every effort for its appearance and does not go unnoticed. She has her self-confidence, you know, even if she's dressed in home clothes, she walks proudly, calmly, and there's always someone to pay attention to her. For example, I do not have self-confidence, I have a nice body, they look at me, talk to me, I recently started moving in a new environment with completely new people and everyone tells me that I am very radiant, but I have never considered myself so, therefore I attract much more Fewer people and even if I attract someone, I don't believe it. Radiation is something that a person simply has, it can be stronger than his real appearance, but don't worry so much. Cover all the parts that need to be covered, keep up and there will always be someone who cares about you, not your appearance.
They are not your friends. You dress as you like. They may be jealous of you, they may have decided to joke with you. Do not pay attention to them.
And what if you have a whore look? Even better. Attractive appearance that meets expectations. Perfect combination ... I would kill to look like that
Long hair in my opinion is a big factor for this radiance. I know such girls with long hair (up to the butt) and I have always been impressed that they look more relaxed and feminine, but in a rough, inelegant way. Just my opinion.
These are not girlfriends. They obviously envy you.
Rather, you need to change your so-called friends rather than what you wear. Stick to what you like, behave as you want and have fun, do not listen to who says what from left and right. In Bulgaria there is a very bad mentality and ugly relationship between people, especially among young people, there are no valuable people.
I really don't know you, and I can't say whether they envy you or not! BUT I also had a girlfriend until recently, she puts on such heavy make-up like a whore, and I said that and even ended our friendship! I also said that it might look like that, but it doesn't! You know, even chalga stars don't wear as much makeup as her, but I also told the truth and took offense. You are obviously wise ... you think! Do you put on a lot of makeup? Are you behaving defiantly? Do you have a friend? Or maybe it's pure envy, I can't tell you, in order to tell you I have to see you .. and still be yourself .. -Calm down
This is a problem for you, the students - you think only about your appearance, not about your education and career ...
I'm sorry, but fat girls don't radiate innocence, it's just the opposite. I had a case with a teacher, the girl was fat, but she wore short denim skirts combined with leggings. It was so funny if someone laughed at her or looked at her, she looked at him so badly, as if she were cursing him. She may have thought we were jealous or something. Only short and thin girls look innocent and look like children. But a big girl like the author can't fit into that column. If you had been involved in ballet long enough, you would not have acquired the forms of Brazilians. And a girl in puberty with a "Brazilian ass" means a lack of healthy eating. Nothing personal, but I sympathize with the slender bodies, but each with his own taste.
22, not that I'm attacking you, but why do you think that when a girl has breasts and hips, she's "fat"? !! Well, there are women who are thin and slender, but have such shapes or are just bigger in the hips. It depends mostly on the genes, not on the "thickness" of the Black Sabbath
24 - Because that's what it looks like.
25, well, it's not like that. Some women have breasts, hips and waist because they are in shape, but at the same time they are not overweight. This is their structure. I know fat women who don't have breasts. Black Sabbath
I agree with most of the comments above. I have a "whore look" myself, simply because I have big breasts, I'm tall too, with long blond hair. I always dressed modestly and did not go after men. At the age of 19 I met my husband and after 10 years of relationship I married him. In short, the exact opposite of the whore, because I was with 1 man, but unfortunately people still think that I'm almost looking for a man, just because I have big breasts. The men just stare shamelessly. Only when I'm with my husband there are no such looks, because he is quite tall and big. Once some gamens threw something and my husband chased them, but when I'm alone on the streets I meet indecent looks, although I dress modestly. You can't please others. Live your life.
Up to 26 - That's right! Tall people have a big cock and look with more kg, but I have not seen the author say that she has the measures of a model, so as not to be as described 22. For me, they are even funny with shaking asses, and if they have a long hair and are low look even lower. It is normal for Latinos to have such a structure, but for us Bulgarians it is strange and unaesthetically beautiful.
28, no, it's not! You have very limited thinking on the matter! As there are high and weak and low and with a big bone, so there are high and big and low and weak! These things are not only about assholes and bones, but also about other factors! Because I know a thin girl who is just bigger in the hips, but does not have extra pounds in other places and is not fat and this comes from her structure. Probably the author is something like that. And by the way, I don't like Latinos, no matter what they look like. :) Black Sabbath
From 25 to 26. I'm telling you what it looks like in my eyes. The girl simply stooped to full. You ask why they say they are "fat" when they are not. Yes, they do not have excess fat, but the km figure itself, especially if they have slightly wider clothes, says otherwise ...