My story is very long, I don't know whether to tell it to you from the beginning or to shorten it a bit. I can't write very well and I hope you understand me anyway. I am 20 years old, yesterday I had a birthday on which I spent as boring and sad as I do every day. Girl. I am a student in Burgas and my friend is from here, but the problem is that apart from him and his friends who are really nice to me, I do not have my friends with whom to go out and have fun. I have but they are only known and they think of me two or three times a month. I feel unhappy with the fact that since I have lived here, I always cry a lot for something and especially when I am left alone. (I'm left alone because I really don't have anyone to call, my people are gone, there's no one on my mind to spend more time with him, to have fun, to share with him, etc., I don't have a FRIEND) And this ruins me, because when I return to my hometown, which happens very rarely, I see my real friends, and I'm sad that they are far away, that I have been living in Burgas for a year and I can't find people like them I can count on. And I don't want to move to another city because I love my friend and I don't want to leave him. I just don't know what else to tell you, because I feel very sad and that's why I cry so often, my friend understands me but he doesn't change the fact that I'm unhappy without FRIENDS :( That's why I have no desire to get a job, I have no desire to learn about university, I wake up in the morning sad and without desire for anything, and before I was not such a person, I did not have such problems, since I live here I started to feel like this, I have found friends everywhere else,
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I don't know what kind of friend you're talking about after you say, "I don't have a FRIEND to share with. If you really loved your boyfriend, you wouldn't feel so unhappy wherever you are. And those who think of you from time to time don't they are no friends of yours, if they are the same people you call "true friends." Believe me, there are no real friends, only acquaintances. for your own skin and to keep the bone you have bitten / understand friend, lover / then you understand that everyone pursues their own interest and is not interested in the other. A person of 2x20 years old tells you. Try to evaluate the friendship / to what extent so to speak / to the boy next to you and don't get so caught up in "friends".
He has real friends! As much as you deny it, I know there is!
See my topic on how my life goes in making money and then complain that you have no friends, what is your friend for? For sex only? Or for a ligature, don't expose yourself to it, if you really loved him, it would be enough for you. I've been used by women all my life for my money and I don't know what it's like to love, but I don't think you would complain about the lack of friends if you loved him.
Number 3 finally said something right. I changed my mind about you. GS1
And one more thing to beat yourself. .to have complete control over yourself and your emotions, there is only one thing you need to do, but it is terribly difficult - stop feeling sorry for yourself. Every one of your sorrows, troubles, absences are based on what your own mind tells you ... ah poor me, how can I be so unhappy. Try not to feel sorry for yourself. At the sub-level inclusive, be a little harsher with yourself, endure the "troubles". Focus your energy instead of crying - in a sport, sport stimulates the release of serotonin and dopamine (supposedly happiness). I play tennis for example. From number 3 .. PS Number 2 ... There are no real friends, there are eternal interests, head up - alone. :)
To number 5: NO I am not alone and I will not stay (ever). I have real friends and I am a real friend myself, but none of you know me and that is why you judge in this way. You will not eat me no matter how hard you try!
To number 3: You give great advice, but you don't know what to do with yourself ... Why do you think so?
Girl, you're lucky to have at least your boyfriend. You have support and support, a person you can always count on. Rate it! I am from Burgas and I have lived here since I was born, but I hate my city because I really don't have anyone. You have to enjoy the real people next to you, it is very difficult to meet such people!
7 I control my self-pity, I'm just tired of being alone :)) I have no idea about the rest.
Number 9 How do you live in Burgas and you don't have anyone, don't you have someone closer to know for a long time, it sucks so much, I've already started to get better, I don't care very much, I'm currently in Plovdiv visiting my friends and it's very good to see them, they helped me overcome this stupid depression :)
From №9. Bad coincidence, but just my best friends are not from Burgas. It sucks to hate your city (even though it's so nice), but I just have bad memories of it. When I'm not here, I'm just different. How can I explain it to you. That's why I wrote to the author that she should be happy with what she has.
Number 12 I am the author and I wrote to you from Number 11 :) hah, I am not from Burgas, but although I was born in Pazardzhik, in a smaller town, Burgas is no different and people are so cold that I have no words , everyone is careful, silent, does not want to open up to others, to judge, it is very difficult to admit someone to themselves, they are not kind. I have been visiting my friends in Plovdiv for two days and everything is completely different, even in the shops and taxis the attitude towards people is quite nice than in Burgas, everyone looks at you badly even if they see you for the first time, so I was fell into such a depression, although my friend is one of the few different people in Burgas.
I am convinced that the girl is depressed. It is an insidious disease and very rarely even doctors fail to recognize the symptoms. I say it from personal experience. In most cases, things go too far and there is very little chance of dealing with depression without medical help and medication. Success!
I fully understand you myself in the same situation, only that I am in Sofia, I have no friends, I have nothing, I feel like throwing myself from somewhere. Write to me - Nelly - my skype is nelkata142 in Latin.
HEY GIRLS TIGHTEN HER AND ENJOY LIFE. IT'S SO SHORT, IT CAN'T BE PINK, EVERYTHING, AND THERE ARE BAD WORKS. IF YOU HEAD UP !!!!!
Hey girl you are very lucky! I am a boy who ..... have always been without friends until now I am dumb and a girl next to me and I stay at home in front of the computer all day and this is my daily routine SO ENJOY LIFE ALTHOUGH WITHOUT FRIENDS YOU HAVE MUCH MORE GREAT HAPPINESS TO YOURSELF BUT YOU JUST DON'T NOTICE IT !!!
Hello. I was looking for someone who has, if not the same, then similar to my problem. I found you :) At the moment I am also lonely. So more or less I get into your situation and he understands you. I would hardly help you much. You must be used to hearing things like "Everything will be fine", "If they are real friends, they won't leave you", "Live your life" and all sorts of things ... It's a pity, but. .as long as one does not believe..everything will not be fixed.What I can tell you is to appreciate even the few friends you have.Although I am sure that precisely because you value them, you miss them so much.You are right: no you have to leave your friend..And on the other hand .. hey! And his friends like you;) These days I also thought a lot that I want someone who is in the same mind as me .. if I may say so. . I noticed that you are also looking for such a person. If there is no one from the people you know who understands you correctly and who shares your understandings ... well, you can meet new people :) Look around! There are so many people who need a friend, just like you :) Talk to someone..You can even search the internet :) There will always be someone to lend a hand! Thanks for listening to my chatter: D I hope you find something useful for you among them :)
Off girl I don't know what kind of student you are, but I think you should be ashamed that you write "I don't know" merged and "to whom" instead of "to whom" ....
Hey, it sucks a lot when you don't have real friends behind you .. You say that you only have acquaintances try to go out with them more, try not to cry all the time, maybe something can happen or if you don't register on some site and meet new friends, they may turn out to be more than acquaintances:))) .. and as for this: "Oh girl, I don't know what kind of student you are, but I think you should be ashamed that you write" I don't know "merged and "to whom" instead of "to whom" .... "- it doesn't matter how it is written, I guess you made mistakes;) ps if you don't listen to me think how much sad you will be .. good luck :)) ) and for every minute you are sad you lose one minute of happiness. . .