Hi, I am 26 years old and I like a 34 year old woman. In general, we know her from a previous company where I worked, we were colleagues. I am educated, ambitious, independent, intelligent, I look normal. She has no higher education, but she is intelligent by nature, a very good soul, but with character and sometimes she erupts, she is not a great beauty on the outside, but she is beautiful "inside", she is a little crazy, sometimes I have the feeling that she has some mental disorders. .. Here's the problem - lately I often think about her, as interests we have a lot in common, and the things she deals with, and I do not - when I can get involved in them (I like it), I am attracted sexually and even we made such sex jokes and we both laugh later, in stubbornness and character we are very similar, I even have the feeling sometimes that it is my female version, we made some jokes, even she said it- oh, you're the perfect man for me, but as a joke. I like him a lot as a person. Basically, I tried to invite her to a meeting, I came up with something interesting for both of us and different, she initially refused, but she found it interesting and finally said - let's see if I will have time. That doesn't bother me, I know how to get her out. She seems domineering and her commands are a bit like orders, which worries me because I'm used to commanding (of course so far no woman has been found to perform :) but that's another topic ...) So I have the feeling that if in this regard I will be like Don Quixote against the windmills, but on the other hand I have the feeling that it will be very exciting :) There is an age difference - 8 years, she is naturally looking for a man for children, family, not that I mind, but these are serious things, and one must be careful in choosing the person with whom to make one's dreams come true. So I'm interested to hear different opinions and what another person would do in such a situation. Thanks in advance!
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Until you try, you can't understand :) I would try in your place. People who arouse feelings in us do not meet under the road and over the road. Alpha, w. 30 years
Well, maybe you just don't really know how to command. You better experience this love, it can be short, or it can be something long-lasting. Otherwise, as you say to yourself that so far no one has been found to listen to your command, it is unlikely that it will be found in the future. You say that you like it as a person, which I think is the most important thing. This with the command left him to be pondered by various evil uncles and grandfathers, where old bachelors, where divorced, where just with nasty marriages. F22
Abe, a 34-year-old woman without education, with a slightly crooked character, male interests and not super beauty - this is quite moving material and they have good sex. Find out how she hasn't reunited with anyone and started a family.
I do not advise you. 8 years difference in its favor is not small. You will sober up, you will look around, you will compare her with the young women around you - and the comparison will not be in her favor. And you decide.
Find yourself young. Someone of no more than 26
How many cm and kg bigger are you 1. 60, she 1. 75? Ah, older you mean. From what has been said, she does not seem to be interested in you, you do a few calculations without a bartender, but as a precaution I will say that in my opinion, if you are not ready for a family and children, she will not shine on you.
This is how our story started at the time and we have been a family for 20 years :) The age difference is the same and we started a relationship at the same age. At first it was a joke, but we fell in love and got along.
It is difficult for me to imagine such a situation. I do not allow myself to make sexual jokes with colleagues and as a person I am strange, my understandings are special. I wouldn't start a relationship with someone who wants a family and children if I don't want the same. For fear of losing a few years of his life, of disappointing him. I don't want to harass anyone like that, I don't want to make promises I can't keep, and I don't want to waste anyone's time. But I fell in love with a man who is like my male copy and I'm just convinced that if there was an 8-year difference between us, it wouldn't bother me at all. I tend to believe that everyone finds their copy no more than 1-2 times in a lifetime and I know that the feeling is unique. It's like a piece of a puzzle and you've found the perfect partner to do something meaningful with. When I met this man, something in me suddenly broke. I already knew exactly what I wanted, I didn't worry about myself at all, I was free like a bird and that's intoxicating. I had never wanted a family before him in those years, but when I met him, I just felt ready to accept marriage the second he proposed to me. No worries, no dramas and no thinking for weeks. I think sometimes, just sometimes, it's really worth pushing your thoughts back and following your intuition and heart when you're confident in them. I think if you don't try, you'll always wonder what would have happened. Just be honest with her, don't lie to her about anything and let her make her own decisions with all the information available. If she wants a family and you're not ready, let her know from the beginning. I was free as a bird and it's intoxicating. I had never wanted a family before him in those years, but when I met him, I just felt ready to accept marriage the second he proposed to me. No worries, no dramas and no thinking for weeks. I think that sometimes, just sometimes, it's really worth pushing your thoughts back and following your intuition and heart when you're confident in them. I think if you don't try, you'll still wonder what would have happened. Just be honest with her, don't lie to her about anything and let her make her own decisions with all the information available. If she wants a family and you're not ready, let her know from the beginning. I was free as a bird and it's intoxicating. I had never wanted a family before him in those years, but when I met him, I just felt ready to accept marriage the second he proposed to me. No worries, no dramas and no thinking for weeks. I think sometimes, just sometimes, it's really worth pushing your thoughts back and following your intuition and heart when you're confident in them. I think if you don't try, you'll still wonder what would have happened. Just be honest with her, don't lie to her about anything and let her make her own decisions with all the information available. If she wants a family and you're not ready, let her know from the beginning. in which he offered me. No worries, no dramas and no thinking for weeks. I think that sometimes, just sometimes, it's really worth pushing your thoughts back and following your intuition and heart when you're confident in them. I think if you don't try, you'll always wonder what would have happened. Just be honest with her, don't lie to her about anything and let her make her own decisions with all the information available. If she wants a family and you're not ready, let her know from the beginning. in which he offered me. No worries, no dramas and no thinking for weeks. I think sometimes, just sometimes, it's really worth pushing your thoughts back and following your intuition and heart when you're confident in them. I think if you don't try, you'll still wonder what would have happened. Just be honest with her, don't lie to her about anything and let her make her own decisions with all the information available. If she wants a family and you're not ready, let her know from the beginning. having all the available information. If she wants a family and you're not ready, let her know from the beginning. having all the available information. If she wants a family and you're not ready, let her know from the beginning.
Man, you described yourself as an intelligent, educated, etc., a prankster, and an authoritarian nature, he loved to command, but you can't take a poop off, so you're sitting on the sites to look for advice? Or is your self-esteem incorrect? And what did you take to harness the cart in front of the horse, that marriage, that children, you have not yet gone out with her? If you like her so much, you invite her to go out, to treat yourself, if she has an interest in you, she will agree, if she doesn't want to, that's it. Maybe there is someone else? Gone are the women that are both younger and more attractive.
Don't think about it, just act. It is always better with poop than with a spoiled and mercantile girl aged 20-25. In the minds of these women are only money, apartments, cars and nothing else. They think that the man is obliged to support her and fulfill her whims. I am 29 years old and I have a relationship with a lady at 41. We have been together for 1 year and our relationship is perfect.