Hello, I am a boy, 17 years old, I have too strong feelings for a classmate. The bad thing is that I'm not doing anything about it. To be honest - I'm far from working with girls. I can't go to a stranger and talk to her, I can't write to myself at an X time and we can make the different schemes of the 21st century - she can pretend to be interesting and answer after 3 hours, I can stop writing to her in 3 days, because that's the rule. Thanks! This as a deviation. We are close with the classmate in question (only at school, because we have no other intersections, and as I specified - I do nothing about it), there is no day when we do not hug, drool, hang out. But that's it. Honestly, lately I've been thinking about whether I won't be left alone for the rest of my life, and I'm fine, damn it (I haven't had a girlfriend so far). For fans of the zodiac - I'm cancer, she scorpio (now let's pray she doesn't read or someone close to us hahahaha) I just wanted to share. Thanks to the readers and those who will take the time to leave a comment with advice!
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Hey, I really like reading stories like this from guys. Well, what can I tell you? All the clichés like "go admit it to her" or "give her presents (for example)" I guess you've heard enough. It is a different experience for everyone. And in your case, if you are so close, then you have accepted each other. Just be completely yourself so that you can be honest, the rest will only come when you feel confident enough. It's called a sense. For now, watch how she behaves, whether her attitude towards you is special, also, look into her eyes, they usually show a lot of "secret" emotions, and if you do it confidently and persistently, it makes a specific impression. in girls .. At least for me, I adore face to face. And I will advise you - just do not be embarrassed! This will only make you withdraw on your own. Good luck :)
well, while you're hanging out, someone can take it from you, so act
Act! You may like it, but the only way to find out is to try. You will not lose anything, you can only gain. You just have to be scared and fight for what you want!
There is nothing to think, procrastinate and harass. The more you complicate things and wait, the more you slip away. If you are ashamed to admit your feelings, just buy 2 movie tickets and invite her, if you want more friendly, if she accepts, then you are taking a step in that direction, if not - at least you will know that there are no interests will not you bother more. So you do nothing and you are harassed.