Hello. I am 21 and I work in a bar. Recently I have sympathy for my boss's brother. He is 40 (I know he's a little older than me, but I don't see what the problem is for a relationship.), Cute, handsome, as far as we've talked (2-3 times on the phone) seems like a fun and interesting character. Now you will wonder why on the phone? Doesn't he come to drink coffee with me? !! Well no, it's not coming. For the simple reason that my boss and his family have no eyes to see. They hate each other so much that I have never seen such hatred. They keep telling me how crazy he was, how badly he treated women, that he wasn't mentally well and that I didn't deal with him, they threatened that if I kept calling him they would release me, I had gone against them and things like that. Okay, but I like it. I told him that day that I wanted to invite him for coffee, but I was ashamed and he laughed and said to me "Ahaa for coffee and then we will want to go elsewhere .. I'm kidding .." and last night I also called him, I was in the center (since we are in the village you know what the center is ) and as I talked to him (a friend told me) he drove past me without noticing. He asked me why I was calling him, what was the reason, and I, as always, asked the question "Can't it? Does it bother me?" And he said, "Well, no, I'm glad," and then "I'm closing because I have to do something" and the conversation. lasted exactly 30 seconds. I'm thinking of calling him again tomorrow and saying, "Last time he asked me why I was calling you, wasn't I? Because I'm feeling something for you, if I didn't care if I would call you and look for you, but if you don't want to contact me, I'll understand." I will not look for you, just say! "Exactly, briefly and clearly. Honestly, I'm tired of watching him just walk past me and I'm determined to tell him what's going to happen. It is neither the first nor will it be the last. I'm not saying I don't feel a little scared after these stories of others, but I don't think you can fully believe it until you see something with your own eyes, or it may have changed. They say how badly he treated them and treated me well. And yet they are quarreling, how to behave? I am writing this here to read your opinion on the matter .. Thank you for your attention! and he treats me well. And yet they are quarreling, how to behave? I am writing this here to read your opinion on the matter .. Thank you for your attention! and he treats me well. And yet they are quarreling, how to behave? I am writing this here to read your opinion on the matter .. Thank you for your attention!
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Don't slap each other, people have told you that, and I don't see him being nice to you at all. Find a boy around your age and don't deal with uncles, you may lose your job, listen to reason
I don't think he cares about you.
Are you 21? Is it really? !!
You are 21, and he is a little older, that is, twice as much. First, this person may be your father. Second, if he was interested in you, he would have shown it, not played you in seconds. Third, if you continue to be so assertive, at most you become a number and that's it.
Why are you calling me and you're not pulling one for him? Emmy, if you like running after him, go for that attitude too :) But people are right, it's obviously a trickster, but if it doesn't bother you ..
I'm very curious why my uncle is pulling ... How come a young girl doesn't want to pass. Haha. I don't know what advice to give you. In principle, you don't have to deal with men so old as a womanizer or the boss's brother ... It's very complicated. But when you want it, there is no one to stop you. But don't expect to get in touch after you sleep. At best, it will turn you around a bit and leave you. So if you sleep with him, let it be with the attitude that you do it just to scratch your beauty and then there is no sequel. Write how things turned out after all.
The chick pulls to wrap it even more when it decides it will work, and then you feel sorry for your imagination. He sounds very playful and I have no doubt he is not a good person. He plays you to idealize him and then the suffering will begin. I advise you not to deal with this person at all, so he is already manipulating you, do not be humiliated for 30 seconds. attention.