Hello! Let me tell you about me and my problem. I am a 16 year old girl and I am a maniac on the subject of appearance. When I was 12-13 years old, I constantly received insults like, "You're ugly" or "Get well, look what you look like." One day I got tired and started to change. I changed my hair, my style of dress, I lost weight. Then the insults subsided, but it was not enough for me to be an ordinary girl, I wanted to stand out, I wanted the boys to play leagues on me. At 15 (last year) I made a drastic change again, even some people at first failed to recognize me. I started to behave so to speak muffin. So far, I'm like that ... every day before I go out, I even spend at least 1 hour at the store for a haircut. We are on vacation now, but when we were at school I got up at 4:30 in the morning, given that the classes started at 7:30. I spent 3 hours just for my appearance. And despite these 3 hours, I still didn't like something in my vision, I always had a huge mirror and a comb in my textbook bag, as well as make-up, I even wore a hair straightener. And I'm never happy with the end result. Whenever I pass by shop windows, I always look around, and if a man doesn't look at me on the street, it means to me that I don't look good enough. I know it's very stupid, but I'm tired already .... the only thing that makes me happy is that this mania did not affect my success - I finished with 5. 50 Whenever I pass by shop windows, I always look around, and if a man doesn't look at me on the street, it means to me that I don't look good enough. I know it's very stupid, but I'm tired already .... the only thing that makes me happy is that this mania did not affect my success - I finished with 5. 50 Whenever I pass by shop windows, I always look around, and if a man doesn't look at me on the street, it means to me that I don't look good enough. I know it's very stupid, but I'm tired already .... the only thing that makes me happy is that this mania did not affect my success - I finished with 5. 50
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And I'm exactly the same. I'm constantly looking around, there's still something wrong with me ... I'm a complete maniac on this topic. But I don't understand why you turned into a muffin? That's how you stand out from the other girls in the bad way. Be yourself, keep yourself not bad. Nobody is perfect! Emphasize your good features. Look for tricks and techniques in makeup. There are many similar ones on Youtube and try to be different so you will be beautiful. There are no ugly women, there are unsupported !!
You vote so much in vain! That you don't like yourself comes from your psyche, not from your appearance. It says, keep up the good work, but it's not necessary. The boys look at you, every beautiful and well-groomed girl is beautiful, but after you have instilled that you don't look very well and you are still lurking if someone is looking at you, a paranoia starts to chase you and it seems that no one is looking at you. you. It would be best to calm down a bit and behave naturally.
Hello, I have a question for the author, not much on the topic nooo ... how many kilograms did you lose in how much time and how?
Even if you spend 5 hours on your hair and make-up, it does not mean that you become more beautiful. Look at the models, there is no one who spends so much time in front of the mirror. They all look naturally beautiful.
I hope you distinguish between good support and caricature :)) But when I listen to you - 3 hours in front of the mirror before school, it doesn't sound good to me. Girl, now is the time to spend less time in front of the mirror, to wear a negligee, to wear sneakers, etc. After 10 years of starting work and the "smeared" look and heels become a mandatory procedure every working day, with nostalgia you will remember a time when these things were not obligatory. And please don't wear heavy makeup during the day!