It's sad when you know you'll never have anything again. It hurts. They say that good things leave you with good memories to remember in the bad moments. But it hurts me now that I remember these things. It hurts because it was good and it won't be anymore. To be wanted was my biggest wish. And I was, I really was. At first I didn't believe it, I didn't believe that it was possible for someone to want me so badly. But then I understood and felt it and I was happy and I had no doubt. And now it hurts. Maybe that's why I'm always so reserved, because I'm afraid that I will believe that everything is true and then it will hurt me much more. It will be twice as difficult and painful for me. But this time I allowed myself to believe, because I was sure that everything was true and it was and I had no doubt. But it's not anymore. And now I don't know what to do, because I feel such pain that it seems to start from the heart and continue all the way to my fingertips. And I can't stop her. I want to immerse myself in it. And to cry until the tears dry up, and then the saddest feeling of emptiness and hopelessness will come. Because there's nothing I can do. And just to be sorry. I have so much tenderness in me, I am ready to give it away. And he accepts it, only he can't understand that I need it too. To stroke my face, to tell me that I am the only one, but not because I bother him with questions, but simply because he feels it. To hug me. I want things I know I won't have. Even if he's able to tell them to a girl, I'm not that girl. There's no way I can make him want me like he used to. Although he says that everything is fine and that I am too ..... and I do not know what. I don't want to see him. And this is happening more and more often. He doesn't listen to me anymore, and I can't tell him anything, because we will fight and I will be to blame again. I do not know what to do. I feel alone. This is the saddest feeling.
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Hello! If you have an e-mail, give it to us, we can talk, exchange experiences ... and I'm in the same situation.
And I am in this situation and because I find it very difficult to endure the separations, I have left myself to the current, as far as it has taken me. My advice is do it yourself if you want of course. You know best. Good luck.
POENATO FEELING. Get away from it ... it helps sometimes ...
As much as you want, you can't return the electricity that it was. It's just that everything is exhausted, and so you want it to continue as in the beginning. I felt the same way soon. It was an agony that lasted more than a year. Believe me - it hurts a lot, but it's better to end now and be able to recover and move on than to agonize every day. Say "End" and force yourself not to think about it and believe me you will feel better.
I was like him, my girlfriend left me, I haven't been on my own for 1 year. Now she is with someone else, I realize my mistakes, but it's too late. Show him what you need, because we men are not witty and he just does not realize that this is detrimental to the relationship. Good luck.
I am very interested in what you say to him and most importantly, in what tone so that he does not want to listen to you and get into quarrels? Did you look for any guilt in yourself for the change towards you?
Ah, darling! We women are like that. I've felt like throwing myself from somewhere a thousand times, just because of that. Recently, I think we may be expecting too much. All those movies that we watched with that burning love, with a nice ending, with the thrill to the end ... maybe we expect it to happen in our lives as well. However, you know what ?! It will really happen, contrary to those who say that love and thrill and kind attitude are up to date. Just believe! I believe!
Here the comments are given easily especially by non-family or single people. They just say leave him. And you wrote a confession exclusively from the heart and nothing about the factual circumstances. Women have different thinking than men and this is often the problem. Men feel responsible to make money and provide security in the family or just the relationship. Sometimes things go well, sometimes they don't. There are strong periods and those of decline. It happens that the tension of failures or of the unknown itself affects the tenderness and attention to which you have been accustomed before on his part. You may not have a real idea of the nature of his problems and how they affect him. The man is destined to be the "strong" and very often women make mistakes precisely because they do not go to analyze everything from this cornerstone. Men want to look strong and will never tell you about many things that they believe would undermine the prestige of a "stable and strong man." And life is a river that brings not only pleasant surprises and romance but also the line of other people with an apology. Because this is the reality, no matter how much we don't like it sometimes. If there is a sinless person in this forum, let him give us the light and if he tells you to "leave him", listen to him and act. But until he overshadows us with his wisdom, he still found strength in himself and overcame the problems, and did not run away from them. Every difficulty passes and every problem has a solution. I see that you are young and confused, but do not run away from problems. If you start doing it from now on, you will do it for life. Seek support only from your family and listen to what they will tell you. Often, when viewed from the sidelines, things do not seem so dramatic and hopeless. Greetings and good luck: R
From the author: I know that in a relationship there are good and bad moments and not everything goes the way we want. But I also know that I can't turn my back on this relationship and this person, no matter how I feel right now. We love each other sincerely and truly, we make joint plans, we want to be together. Not only can I not imagine the world without it, I do not want to imagine it. And yes, maybe the problem is in me because I'm a woman and like almost every woman I want too much. I want constant tenderness and attention, I want everything to be like in a movie. Maybe I'm just too young and haven't seen enough of life. But what I do know is that in a relationship, one is always more devoted. In ours, this is me. And maybe that bothers me sometimes. But no matter how hard it is for me in these moments, it is even harder for me to imagine my life without him, that is why I wrote here to ask you how you overcome these moments. Thank you for the advice. :)
Hello Sweetie. And I went through this period of these thoughts and feelings, in the same way I felt things, I understand them completely ....... But I want to tell you that while our time passes in such doubts, questions, etc., life it flows and maybe one day we will regret what we missed and that we have been harassed in vain .... It is felt by what you wrote that you really love and that you really love, just as not everyone can and does give in our short life ........ They say that while we are looking for a place under the sun and wandering, it can set, so darling just keep LOVING AND GIVING YOURSELF REALLY and do not regret, do not bother ..... fight for this love, while you feel that it is worth it ......... I gave myself to my love (the real one) to the last and I still feel emptiness because there was so much more to give him,