Thanks to fate for giving me wonderful parents. I have always felt and still feel their love, no matter how far we have been. I have always received support, but I have never been spoiled. I have been stubborn since I was a child and I wanted to achieve everything on my own without their financial help. I want them to be well and alive and healthy for many years to come. So far so good, but somehow I couldn't sort things out. I can't boast of an enviable career, but I've never aimed for that. For me, finding a suitable partner and creating a cozy family like mine was a priority. Yes, but I've always been involved with the wrong people. It's just a pity to take stock and look back to see that you've just been used. I feel temporarily used. Lied and used. I know now you will say that I choose them. On the contrary, I was never wanted by someone I didn't want. Don't be attracted to me visually or anything. Those who wanted me, I wanted them too. In the beginning everything is fine, emotion trembles and then everything shines. They lied to me, they used me, they harassed me. I have not witnessed infidelity, but this is not excluded. I know what I gave and in return I received only pain. I don't want to hate, I don't want to get angry, but that's exactly what's happening. I don't trust men anymore, I don't expect anything from them. However, I do not think to give more for them. It just doesn't come from inside me. I have the feeling that every word is a lie. It's as if I don't deserve to be loved, but everyone deserves it and we have to love each other. I observe how always one, whether a man or a woman, loves more. It's just that fate is clearly looking for balance. I don't want anyone to love me more than I love him. I do not think, that this is fair. I am angry at what is happening, how people are used, how the word love has lost its meaning. At least that's how it is for me, it's empty. I want to become a mother, it's time for me, but how can I give birth to a child from this man I'm with. Every day I wonder if he loves me or not. This is the worst thing, wondering if they love you or not. Either feel nothing and leave, or love with your whole self. Just a message to all who see that they cannot love, they see that the person next to them is suffering. Just leave, let the man find him. It's just a little confession, a sharing. If anyone has understood me and felt my disappointment or is going through it, let them share their thoughts and feelings. Thanks! I want to become a mother, it's time for me, but how to give birth to a child from this man I'm with. Every day I wonder if he loves me or not. This is the worst thing, wondering if they love you or not. Either feel nothing and leave, or love with your whole self. Just a message to all who see that they cannot love, they see that the person next to them is suffering. Just leave, let the man find him. It's just a little confession, a sharing. If anyone has understood me and felt my disappointment or is going through it, let them share their thoughts and feelings. Thanks! I want to become a mother, it's time for me, but how to give birth to a child from this man I'm with. Every day I wonder if he loves me or not. This is the worst thing, wondering if they love you or not. Either feel nothing and leave, or love with your whole self. Just a message to all who see that they cannot love, they see that the person next to them is suffering. Just leave, let the man find him. It's just a little confession, a sharing. If anyone has understood me and felt my disappointment or is going through it, let them share their thoughts and feelings. Thanks! that they cannot love, they see that the person next to them is suffering. Just leave, let the man find him. It's just a little confession, a sharing. If anyone has understood me and felt my disappointment or is going through it, let them share their thoughts and feelings. Thanks! that they cannot love, they see that the person next to them is suffering. Just leave, let the man find him. It's just a little confession, a sharing. If anyone has understood me and felt my disappointment or is going through it, let them share their thoughts and feelings. Thanks!
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Well, how can they leave it ... where they will kill their complexes and raise their self-confidence. We know the crown number of the "men": they have one, but necessarily a second, and when someone finds out, he starts justifying, begging and slapping. And you sit and wonder why, where is his logic to break you and then pray? !! Well, complexes, they want to be the big players, but they don't like it. And now that women have begun to put them in their place with non-committal relationships, infidelity, and business relationships, the roaring and spitting has begun. These whores are so mean, we dear ladybugs. You better not expect too much, just in case. It is no coincidence that most women arrange their lives and look after their children without wives and bonds, anyway men then throw their children and pack them and the baby to clean them, feed them, dondurka them.
"It's the worst thing to wonder if they love you or not." - Only an egoist would think so, love is not a commodity to put on the scales. Rather, ask yourself if you love and give happiness to others enough. In order to receive you have to give, it is not fair to just want!
Increase your self-worth, she was a woman. It was used ... if you don't offer me something unique, how do you want someone to evaluate? The problems of people, of this nature, come solely from the fact that they are never the best version of themselves, and that is why some such half-humans come from the other side to make fun of you. Brother.
nachi fucks like people, but your curiosity didn't come true and so you loved a lot, so they didn't love you despite the giant "distribution". That's enough nonsense
And why do you transfer the responsibility to the other, if you don't feel loved, can't you leave?
I can say exactly the same thing as a man. Except they cheated on me. Everyone has put horns on me so far. The difference between you and me is that I don't hate women. There are all kinds of women. I have a lot of valuable friends that I know. I just don't want to deal with women. Love games and intrigues are small children and chalga fans.
As long as you try to make quantitative evaluations of quality things - it will still be ... The constant feeling that "you are used every time" speaks very badly about your mental state, and in general about your overall perception of life.
1, Because they don't play this whole circus again. They are not looking for a new one, because they have to take it down again, they win. Because again you will have to spend on meetings, gifts. She will have to be introduced to friends and relatives again. The old circus again, but with a new one. And how will they explain to everyone why they broke up? That's why it's better to ask him to stay, to forgive you, because you know that you have to enter a role again for the next one, and these are efforts. Why not save them? They do it for themselves, not because they care so much about the woman. Pure selfishness. On the subject - men can not love. Every man will claim to have loved only you in his life, and others before you at all. When you break up, he will tell the next one that he didn't love you.
Well, if he doesn't love you enough, you leave him. But it doesn't bother you! It's easy to complain on the forums, but the convenience is more expensive. Obviously, loneliness scares you. Obviously, you are not ripe for true love when you don't care about anything but the person you are with. And not who will pay for electricity, water, heating and whether they "appreciate" with expensive perfumes and other garbage.
Number 8, we are not like you, to say that we love everyone we have been with for a long time. Your comment is not very objective. If she was, it would be a confession as a woman, not baseless accusations.
Everyone who wrote was misogynistic. Apparently I have shared, what are you attacking me for, what are you talking about? I wasn't a whore to jump from duck to duck or anything. What's so selfish in my words that I understood? You probably love without expecting anything in return. Language that I shared I'm sorry.
10 of 8 I just answered comment number 1. On the topic - you are disappointed and I think that everyone would put themselves in your place, regardless of gender. Relationships start well, and then you see the person as he is. People can't pretend forever, their masks fall off. It's bad when you realize you made the wrong choice. It's even worse to wonder if there's really something wrong with you, or if it's fake again. Nowadays, feelings have degenerated. People are afraid of getting scalded, so they always go with the bad, or hurt the good people. Don't lose hope, you may just not have met the person. He will not make you wonder.
I have the opposite problem - I can't love another person, I try, but I'm just not sensitive and I'm not attracted in any way. I'm not romantic, I don't feel like sex either, I see it only as a pain, I generally don't make sense of I am separate and desperate, because people constantly come to my life and then leave. And I do not understand why? Why do they come at all and then they will leave after a while, then they do not come at all. This is a more serious problem.
Well, find a man. You haven't been with a man before.
number 1, you need to visit a psychologist. It will not be bad for the author either. You both have elementary logical flaws and errors in your reasoning. You summarize in an infantile way. You are emotionally immature and angry, and it is difficult for you to realize.
From the title and from the beginning of the post, I thought that you were alone, lonely, did not see a man ... and she had a relationship. But he didn't love you - leave him, leave. Have the courage to get the best when you think you deserve it. But there is no guarantee that it will happen. And you know it. Many people are in compromising relationships like you, out of interest, out of unwillingness to start something new, for people, there are many reasons. However, just as everyone has taken responsibility for the decision, so do the negatives. And we can't help you, even with advice. Just be honest with yourself.