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I Have Never Had A Boyfriend / Boyfriend For More Than 2-3 Days!

By amaturejock July 28, 2020 9 answers Last updated July 28, 2020

I've been reading here for a long time and I still don't dare to share it with you. I am 19 years old and I can say with shame that I have never had a friend / boyfriend for more than 2-3 days. I'm not ugly, I just don't know where the problem is, I have contacts for one day or just plain sex for one night. I tried and it still doesn't work. He started going out with someone and on the 3rd day he already makes me angry and suffocates me, and the other time I suffer from loneliness. The problem is I know it, but I can't figure out how to deal with it. It must be afraid of the unknown hah what an irony there were moments when I think I met the right person we get closer and suddenly something pushes me away and I start to wander again I'm tired of these games and I start to come to terms with the thought that you will left only with fleeting contacts. I'm sorry if I bored you, I just needed to share it.

Answers 9

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fairylightz answered · July 28, 2020

   You're just more picky :)) Calm down, no problem - just did not come the guy who will lose your mind :))

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sartasdg19 answered · July 28, 2020

   Dear girl, this can be a problem at any age. You no longer want to be alone and desperately go in search of something real and romantic, but the truth is cruel and when you encounter it, you do not like the result. Not always what you want, you want the other ... This may end one day, but unfortunately it may continue forever ... I wish you to meet your partner :)

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just4katie answered · July 28, 2020

   And I love that I shouldn't throw myself like a carp .... people in a similar situation like me have told me that the first disappointment is from this long-awaited relationship, because you imagine one thing, but in the end another comes out. I do not dare to take this a step forward or to the sides .... I do not know sometimes I think there will be a happy ending as in the soaps other times I come to terms with loneliness. Just as they say expect the unexpected .. Thank you all, who have read my story and supported me with these kind words. :)))

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follow_bella_nipples answered · July 28, 2020

   Well, what's wrong with that, it's great, it's nothing engaging, it's super and I'm like that, I don't think about it and I drive my job and it's hers, I'm constantly busy, I don't have time and desire for a serious relationship, look at your goals, and the rest for further

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lindatresh answered · July 28, 2020

   Darling until 1 year ago it was the same with me, but when you really meet the right person you will understand that you also have the quality of perseverance :)

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khloecollins1 answered · July 28, 2020

   I think it's just hard for you to trust someone real. You are afraid of being hurt. At least that's how it is with me. But, you know, it's very possible that this will happen, but it doesn't mean you shouldn't try. Do not be afraid. You just have to meet the right person.

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bontrul0043 answered · July 29, 2020

   Hello! I am 11 years old and I have a problem with boyfriends. One of my class loves me very much, but I don't know if I love him. Not that I'm ugly, I'm even very rich, but I don't know, we'll become boyfriends and on the dear day I tell him: we break sorrows only for 1-2 days, we are dads, please tell me why this is so. just ask.

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tscrushpleasebustnuts answered · July 29, 2020

   11 years old and boyfriends ?? // how far has the world come ??? they can't write, they want boyfriends

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sircumsalot555 answered · July 29, 2020

   Don't worry! I am too! I go with boys and after two or three days I break up with them. I do not know why! But it happens calmly, you just haven't found the right one