Hello! I am a girl of 15 and since I became 7th grade our people do not constantly ask me what I want to become, and they force me to become a doctor. Until a few days ago, I was told that after 4 years, when I graduated, I would immediately study to become a doctor. I have nothing against this profession, but I can just faint only when I see injections, blood, wounds. The profession itself is stressful, and I can easily stress out at the very least. I have the feeling that they want me to become a doctor just for the money, not my happiness, and to love what I do. Help me, I don't know what to do.
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In the 12th grade you go to exams at the universities of biology and you deliberately earn 2 and even if they want you, you can't enroll in medicine. And you choose what you want and study the subject you will need without saying it and take exams on it as well. And if they don't let them, tell them that next year and every other year you will do the same. There is also 1 little stupid thing you can do. Try not to earn 6 for the year in biology and chemistry, for medicine they are looking for high grades. And from now on you can start doing something every summer and collecting money that your parents may not give you later.
Ours was the same, but you will not always be 7th grade, in 4 years many things will change. I would tell you not to think about it from now on. Tell them what you wrote, that you do not like this profession and that you want to do something that gives you pleasure. You are still young, when you grow up they will stop imposing their opinion so much, unless you allow them.
First, until you start making money as a doctor, it's not certain that there will be anyone to treat if you understand me. Second, money is not much and third, for nothing in the world does not teach something you do not want and will not work with love. I graduated for ships of my own free will and now I don't feel like doing that and while I was changing things I broke my nerves and got into a fight with everyone. Shake and figure out what you are doing and learn this but you must work.
Tell them that this is not your calling and that if after years you become a doctor of their choice and you do not do well, you can make a fatal mistake that will cost your entire career and someone's life. If they don't understand you, after you finish you take your luggage, move out and cut off all contact with them when they are left alone in old age and no one will take care of them, they will regret their attitude towards you, but it will be too late to correct their mistakes. .
Tell them what you think about it, quite honestly. They shouldn't be idiots to push you where you don't belong.
Tell them what you think about it, quite honestly. They shouldn't be idiots to push you where you don't belong.
Doctors don't always make good money. Here in Bulgaria they work for up to BGN 1,000 and from above all they are attacked by various drunks. They can't tell you what to do. This is not their life but yours.
Very irresponsible on the part of your parents ... If this is not your vocation, you will regret it for the rest of your life. And not that this should scare you, but if you enter medicine they will break you from studying for 6 years, and then almost as much for specialization (in Bulgaria they are limited and ungodly expensive). The money is meager for all this learning, the places for specialization are very few, the mental stress is huge. I know a girl who gained 42 kilograms because of medicine, she draws her own conclusions. With medicine, it will be difficult to start a family, and if you still manage to have children, they will have to be constantly neglected in the name of career. In these circles, if you fall behind - you are behind ... if you understand me.